I believe that everyone who is a first-time parent is very confused.

It is the responsibility of mom and dad to find out the development law of the baby and give the most appropriate care and love in time.

Bao Xiao made a list of things he needed to do before he was 3 years old for his parents' reference.

1, intelligence development

★ Talk to the baby from the moment he falls to the ground. Experiments show that adults talk more to their babies, and babies talk earlier.

★ Help your baby learn to crawl. In addition to physical coordination, crawling can also promote the baby's thirst for knowledge and expand the scope of safety knowledge.

★ Learn a few small games and spend at least half an hour playing games with your baby every day, whether he can or not.

★ Choose several educational toys to bring more happiness and knowledge to your baby.

★ Read a book or tell a story to your baby every day. It's not too complicated to say, and it doesn't need to be changed every day. A simple story that can be told over and over again.

0- 1 year-old is the awakening period of the baby's physiology, psychology and social consciousness after birth. From chaos to enlightenment, from ignorance to exploring cognition, if we can get appropriate stimulation and encouragement from the outside as soon as possible, we can maximize the development of the baby's multiple intelligences.

2. EQ education

★ The mother personally holds the baby at least 1 hour every day, and has skin contact for 2 hours every day if possible 6 months ago.

★ Smile, always smile, and let the baby learn to smile.

★ Let the baby learn to wait. Let the baby know that it is necessary to wait properly, waiting for hugs, waiting for milk and waiting for toys.

★ Make eye contact with your baby. Babies who grow up under such spiritual exchanges are better at establishing harmonious relationships with others.

★ Take your baby to a competition, such as climbing and shouting. Let the baby have a sense of competition from an early age and know how to have fun from competition.

The baby's character is shaped by parents bit by bit. For a 0- 1 year-old baby, parents should not think that he doesn't understand and there is no need to teach him. The success of tutoring is closely related to parents' oral expression. Especially the tone and posture of parents and babies will have a far-reaching impact on babies.

3. Health maintenance

★ Go to the hospital regularly for children's health examination and planned immunization.

★ Buy a dining chair for your baby and gradually cultivate his good habit of eating regularly.

★ Keep the living environment clean. /kloc-before the age of 0, the baby spends most of his time indoors, so it is very important to create a clean and tidy home environment.

★ Give your baby more touch and aerobic exercise, so that your baby's immunity will be enhanced and your physique will be better.

★ When you are with your baby, remove makeup and contact your baby in the cleanest and kindest way.

★ From the age of 0, protect your baby's teeth. Although deciduous teeth will be replaced in the future, the health of deciduous teeth directly affects the health of the baby.

★/kloc-before 0/year old, cultivate your baby to have a regular work and rest, because the habits in infancy are the most ingrained.

★ When the baby is half a year old, take him for an eye examination, and then check it regularly to ensure that there is nothing wrong with the baby's eyes.

★ Don't put shoes on your baby until he learns to walk. A pair of non-slip socks can completely survive the previous days, so that the baby's little feet can get the most ample room for growth.

★ Please let the baby climb for 500 hours before learning to walk.

/kloc-baby care before 0/year old is perfect as long as you pay attention to the following three points.

4. Nutrition plan

★ Adhere to breastfeeding 6 months ago. Breast milk contains all the nutrients needed by newborns, which is easier to digest and absorb than any other baby food.

★ From 6 months, be sure to add complementary food to your baby. The energy in breast milk and milk powder can no longer meet the needs of baby's growth and development.

★ Juice can't replace fruit. After adding complementary food, the intake of fruit can make the baby healthier.

★ Make snacks for your baby with natural food, such as a boiled carrot and homemade apple puree. Snacks in the supermarket are not children's food.

★ Buy a children's nutrition cookbook and cook according to the above method.

★ Whether the baby is breast-fed or breast-fed, the nutrition of breast milk or milk can no longer meet the needs of their growth and development after half a year. Therefore, it is necessary to add complementary food to your baby to ensure its healthy growth.

5. Parent-child life

★ Give the baby a quiet and peaceful environment.

★ Record the baby's growth with words, pictures, sounds, etc. When the baby grows up, you will find how precious these things are.

★ In the first year of raising a baby, you may not go out to work, but don't neglect to enrich yourself at any time.

★ Save a set of clothes worn by the baby as a child and give it to him as a birthday present when he 18 years old.

★ Pay attention to the role of father. Babies communicate with their fathers as much as their mothers, so that they will be more cheerful when they grow up.

Babies as young as a few months will begin to know strangers. Knowing strangers marks the beginning of parent-child attachment, and it also shows that babies need to build more complex social emotions, personalities and abilities on the basis of attachment to their parents.

Generally speaking, most 8-month-old babies are a little cautious or afraid when they meet strangers. The baby's acceptance of strangers reached its peak in 8- 12 months, and then gradually weakened. It should be noted that these months are a crucial period for babies and parents to form a strong parent-child relationship.

1, intelligence development

★ Prepare a special study space for your baby, where you can put his books and toys, and nothing else.

★ Tell your baby a useful story before going to bed, preferably interactive and cultivate his imagination.

★ Give the baby enough space. When someone asks about your baby, don't rush to answer for him. Be sure to give him time to think.

★ Seriously answer every question the baby asks. If you don't understand, tell him that his mother doesn't understand either, and then discuss it together.

★ Play with toys correctly. If necessary, learn how to play with a children's toy first, and then teach the baby patiently.

★ Let the baby learn to pack toys by himself. Although it will take him 65,438+0 hours to finish the work, it may take you a few minutes to finish it, so don't bother.

★ Creating opportunities for your baby to solve some "problems" is a good way to cultivate will and develop wisdom.

★ Expose your baby to languages other than your mother tongue, such as English.

Every baby has his own potential, and how much potential a baby can play when he grows up depends on his study the day after tomorrow. The more learning opportunities, the more brain potential development;

The sooner learning opportunities are provided, the sooner the baby's intelligence improvement will begin and the sooner the baby will become smarter.

2. EQ education

★ Put an end to accusations. Even if the baby makes a mistake, there is a better education method than blaming.

★/kloc-Babies over 0/year old will always say something "disrespectful". Don't laugh it off just because it's fun, but tell the baby seriously. This is not right, otherwise there will be many annoying little troubles in your life in the future.

★/kloc-Babies around 0/year old sometimes make unreasonable demands on adults. Treat it seriously and correctly, and let the baby know that everyone should restrain their behavior, and not everything can be done.

★ When raising a baby, adults should keep the same opinion, and there should be no role differentiation of red face and white face.

★ Please pay attention to correct the baby's habit of asking for things from others, and don't think that the baby is ignorant and let it go.

★ To cultivate the baby's love, parents should have a kind heart, and the baby can imitate and experience the love of parents and gradually gain love.

★ Cultivate faith. Young babies can't talk about faith, but they have their own childish plans and wishes, which should be encouraged.

To cultivate your baby's emotional intelligence, a high degree is not necessarily an important condition. If the baby is creative, knows how to get along with others easily and can tolerate high pressure, he will be more able to adapt to the ever-changing social environment.

3. Health maintenance

★ Take your baby for physical examination regularly, and closely observe the height, weight and organ development. Even if you have a developmental disorder, you can nip it in the bud.

★ After the baby 1 year and a half, you can train it to go to the toilet.

★ Before the age of 2, ask the baby to complete the hand washing process by himself.

★ Control the time for your baby to watch electronic products. You can't let your baby watch electronic products for a long time just because you want to get away from doing other things.

★ Teach your baby simple safety basics, such as fans that don't touch boiling water or drum.

★ Learn some basic first aid knowledge for your baby. Timely nursing is very important in times of crisis.

★ If the baby is sick, please leave all the company.

★ Help your baby to establish good sleep habits. 1-2 years old's sleep habits will affect his life.

★ Pay attention to the baby's bad mood. Most of the bad feelings of the baby before the age of 2 are that the needs are not met. Find the reason in time.

★ Choose healthy and comfortable clothes for your baby, and don't wear uncomfortable or even dangerous clothes for your baby.

1-2-year-old baby's health maintenance is the top priority, and it is necessary to strictly distinguish the maintenance habits with adults. Remember that the baby at this stage is not suitable for accepting the healthy habits of adults, and there must be special and targeted maintenance to take care of the baby.

4. Nutrition plan

★ At least one dish in each meal is specially made for the baby. It is best to separate the baby's food from that of adults.

★ Add less seasoning to the baby's dishes. Limit sweets.

★ Refuse any drinks, such as cola, fruit milk, etc.

★ Don't give your baby food that is easy to suffocate.

★ Ensure the daily intake of dairy products.

1-2-year-old baby's digestive ability is gradually increasing, and the diet has changed from milk to mixed food, but the baby's digestive system is still immature. The taste should not be too heavy, it should not only adapt to the baby's digestive ability, but also arouse the baby's appetite.

5. Parent-child life

★ No matter how busy you are at work every day, you should leave your baby an hour to play games with him and listen to his voice during this hour.

Get rid of your bad habits, such as swearing, smoking and drinking.

★ Improve your ideological and moral cultivation, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their babies.

★ Learn some physiology, child psychology, pedagogy, etc. Only when parents have a solid foundation can they educate their babies well.

★ Take the children out for a walk and let them get in touch with nature.

Early education is a kind of zero-distance education, which especially needs our care, patience and love. Once a developmental parent-child relationship is formed between parents and babies, early education is one of them.

1-2 years old to establish a good parent-child relationship can lay a solid foundation for future education.

1, intelligence development

★ Let the baby choose his hobbies, let him feel that he has autonomy, and don't force him to do things he doesn't like.

Take the baby to the bookstore once a month, and bring back some books according to the baby's own preferences, so that he can take good care of them.

★ From the age of 3, you can touch musical instruments.

★ Encouraging education is always more effective than compulsory education.

★ Encourage your baby to fantasize. Being able to fantasize is a strong evidence of children's intellectual development.

★ Need memory training. The baby's head is an undeveloped land, and hard work will pay off.

★ Choose a good preschool for your baby and receive formal education.

2-3 years old is the most acute period for babies to learn various skills, so it is also the best time to develop their intelligence. Comprehensive and diverse educational stimulation can get twice the result with half the effort.

2. EQ education

★ Let your baby feel your love every day.

★ Manage your own marriage and family more attentively.

★ Give the baby a chance to make his own decisions, such as going out as a guest, what the owner gives the baby to eat, and not making decisions for him when playing. Let him decide for himself. This can quickly improve the baby's social skills.

★ Maintain the baby's self-esteem and restrain vanity. In front of outsiders, try not to say the baby's shortcomings; Similarly, if you really want to praise, you should be subtle.

★ The baby correctly understands the separation. As the baby grows up, it is sad to need independence, separation and separation. A positive attitude of adults can make babies more relaxed.

★ Find 1-2 good friends for the baby, regardless of age, as long as they get along. Create conditions for the baby to find his friends.

A person's emotional intelligence plays an important role in his future relationship, leadership, coordination, learning ability, husband-wife relationship and moral standards. Therefore, when the baby is young, it is necessary to cultivate him to form a good emotional intelligence.

3. Health maintenance

★ Let the baby do what he can and cultivate his independent personality.

★ After 2 years old, bathing your baby every day is not only a way to maintain hygiene, but also a way to make your baby confident.

★ Prevent dental caries from childhood and pay attention to oral hygiene.

★ Let the baby know his gender correctly and understand the most basic sexual knowledge.

Children aged 2-3 have more contact with the external environment and adults, and the chances of infection are also increased, but their resistance is low, so the incidence of acute and chronic infectious diseases is high, and it is necessary to strengthen children's physical exercise.

4. Nutrition plan

Refuse to fry food and provide plenty of fresh and well-made food to achieve a balanced nutrition.

★ Let the baby form a regular diet.

★ I would rather be hungry than have a baby. Eating too much food is far more harmful than starving babies.

★ Refuse relatives and friends to feed at will.

Children need to eat enough protein, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins and minerals to have a healthy and strong body. If you can provide your baby with a wide range of choices, your baby will definitely get everything he needs.

5. Parent-child life

★ Rational love baby. Do not spoil or drown, distinguish between right and wrong, and reward and punishment are clear.

★ Know that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach". Father is an indispensable person in education.

★ Don't quarrel in front of the baby. Even if you are full of anger, you must never get angry in front of the baby. An anger may affect the baby's opinion of you.

★ Say more "yes, yes" and less "no, no" and allow the baby to play in his own way. If the baby does something wrong, explain it clearly, or give him a chance to find out for himself.

★ Remember to honor your promise. If you make a promise to your baby, you must keep it. So the baby can trust you.

★ Don't be ashamed to say "sorry" to your baby. Everyone makes mistakes, and your baby and parents should be equal.

★ Take your baby out to travel regularly to increase your knowledge.

★ Create a good family atmosphere. A harmonious and active family is most conducive to the baby's growth.