Especially from the age of children's brain development and character formation, 0 to 3 years old is the most golden period of early education.
However, the early education institutions in the market are mixed, and Chinese people have a lot of misunderstandings and misjudgments about early education.
The essence of early education is not only to educate children to master knowledge, but also to hope that children have an independent and mature personality and let them get more psychological development. This is the foundation of early education.
Some training institutions often let children who have not yet reached school age learn some specific subject knowledge in advance. One day is either reciting ancient poems or learning to calculate. Not to mention children, even adults will feel bored. It is only a matter of time before they get tired of studying.
In addition, many parents only pay attention to their children's education and ignore their own growth.
Imagine that if parents are still weak-willed and one-sided, even if children are allowed to receive orthodox early education, the family atmosphere can not meet their growth needs, and it can only be a waste of money and energy. Children, even if? Run away? , also can't win in the front.
Early education has gone bad, and it has become advanced education. It can be said that all misunderstood early education belongs to the category of higher education. More specifically, it describes the over-age education that requires younger children to learn more complex and specific content, so that these children who receive advanced education can show a kind of? Smart? Hallucinations.
Especially what many parents like? Genius? On the one hand, apart from the persecution of children by advanced education, it is more the vanity of adults. Most children are ordinary, and their intelligence level is similar. The most important thing is whether they work hard and whether their learning methods are correct.
What if parents like to detain their children? Born smart? A poor hat is likely to lead to laziness and stupidity of a child, leaving him lying on the laurel of intelligence, failing to make progress and even going astray.
Don't treat normal early education as? Higher education? Overcorrection is not conducive to children's imagination.
Many parents don't have a deep understanding of the concept of advanced education, and they tend to overcorrect and regard some normal early education as advanced, which is not conducive to children's imagination.
You know, the so-called here? Higher education? It's not true? Ahead? This is like letting children master the posture of holding a pen in advance before entering school. This truth is like letting children eat, so they must hold chopsticks well.
Something that many parents think is terrible? Higher education? In fact, they all belong to early education.
In order to reduce the harm brought by advanced education to children, many parents neglect to let their children receive the most basic knowledge, which often produces? Don't tell him, let him think for himself? Strange ideas.
In fact, if a child has never seen the ocean, how can he be asked to imagine the creatures in it? At this time, you can't force him to draw a fish or a shrimp, which will only make the child more confused.
If you want a child to have a broader imagination, you must provide him with the most basic knowledge. Only by accumulating more basic knowledge can you make your child's imagination more vivid and interesting, and you will also let your child have a wider world.
A lot of knowledge is interrelated. Parents don't need to limit which subject their children must learn, so that their children can receive education in an all-round way and make their imagination more special. Only by making clear the difference between early education and advanced education will it not hinder children's progress.
How to stimulate or protect children's imagination?
The so-called imagination is the root of human innovation, which is to produce an idea or a picture in the mind on the basis of certain knowledge. So, how can parents stimulate and protect their children's imagination? This requires further knowledge of advanced education and early education.
In principle, it is not unreasonable for a child to accept knowledge more advanced than his age, as long as the child can accept it himself and it is not painful to accept it.
Specifically, the first thing is to let children learn knowledge that is in line with the current level of development, not to carry out cramming education, not to force children to learn, and to leave room for his imagination and let him freely try to play and explore.
Parents should not set limits for their children easily, nor should they put too much pressure on their children. They should be guided parents and learn to let their children grow up freely.
1. Guide children to solve problems instead of taking extreme measures.
In this process, it is often parents who will let their children give up when they encounter difficulties. It's okay. Forget it if you can't figure it out, okay? .
But this will encourage children to give up easily, and when they encounter some difficult problems, they will start to comfort themselves and think it's no big deal.
In the long run, children will lose the ability to solve problems. They always want to give up when they encounter problems that can't be solved for a while.
At the other extreme, when parents encounter problems that cannot be solved immediately, they will try to make their children try according to their own ideas in a cynical tone.
But the incorrect tone of parents will make children timid and want to rely on their parents whenever they encounter any problems.
2. Don't set standard answers.
The most interesting thing about children is that their thoughts are unconstrained. Perhaps the answers to some questions are far from the correct answers, but after listening to the children's explanations, you will feel more interesting and imaginative.
There is no need to format the answers to all the questions before the children really receive primary education. This seems a bit callous, but it will stifle the children's imagination.
If you let your child think that all problems are black and white, he may become very contradictory when he encounters some difficult problems in the future.
Parents should allow their children to make mistakes and find solutions in the process.
It is human nature to make mistakes. After children make mistakes, as long as they can recognize their own mistakes, what parents need more is guidance, so that children can take the initiative to avoid such mistakes in the future.
Don't be so strict that children dare not admit their mistakes. Admitting mistakes does not mean knowing them, which is the ultimate goal of education. The most important thing for children is to face the wrong attitude, which is what parents want to see grow up.
In fact, proper early education will make children live more easily. As long as parents master the scale and let their children accept it more happily, all problems will be solved naturally.