With the development trend of the times, the burden of adults is increasing day by day, especially novice fathers and baby mothers. On the one hand, they often have to solve their new jobs and daily tasks; On the other hand, it is also necessary to have children's growth and growth at the same time. Daily life also closely revolves around enterprises and children. Usually busy people tend to ignore children's development, so many problems in parent-child communication and parenting education mostly come from teaching and shaping children.
Recently, I saw such a news on the Internet: In a big city, a pair of young parents went out early and went back to work late. On weekends, they let their children play with building blocks alone. They had been working overtime in the house when suddenly they heard a "wow". Unexpectedly, they saw the child's arm burned by the water on the table. Fortunately, they rushed to the hospital clinic immediately, and finally they were able to see a doctor immediately, and the children had no shadow.
In fact, that kind of situation often happens around us, sometimes it feels normal. If the child doesn't cry and make trouble, it feels too novel. In fact, is this really the case? Busy parents, is there a stronger parenting education method or way? Parents can try to work in broad daylight instead of using their home as an overtime area. Because the growth of children needs the warmth of home and the care of parents, especially in early childhood education, it is particularly important for children to wait for everyone. If you still work at home and rarely teach, waiting for their development, parent-child communication is very prone to problems.
When parents are at home, they treat their children as friends and children. Many times, people don't understand children's mentality, feedback and self-expression because they lack care for their children. For example, they bought small toys for their children, but the children are still unhappy. Maybe they don't use new toys at all, or maybe they like other kinds of small toys.
Sundays and holidays are days when people release pressure and joy. In any case, children must spend happy parent-child time with their parents. I'm usually too busy at work, and I may work overtime on Sundays. At this time, it is necessary to improve work efficiency and scientifically arrange your own time, thus releasing time for stress games and entertainment with children.
In fact, it won't take up too much time for parents. Even if you are busy at work, you can still take a rest during this time, such as parent-child games, parent-child early education and parenting games, and play with your children. Only by arranging the time reasonably can the work be smoother and smoother. There is no special time to wait for children, so in family life, set an example to correctly guide children's development, so that children can shape a correct outlook on life and good habits.
Small things and key problems encountered in ordinary life are explained clearly to children. For example, if you are busy at work, you can say to your child, "honey, your mother is probably a little busy at work today, but don't worry." If you have any problems, call your mother anytime and anywhere, and we will overcome the difficulties together. Do you feel good? " Only in this way can we correctly guide children to express themselves and let them know that their mother doesn't love me, but because she is busy with work.
When there is really not much time to wait for the children, you can seek the help of your grandmother or grandfather to remind the elderly to pay special attention to scientific and reasonable parenting education methods and ways and correct their bad educational consciousness. Now, this method is usually adopted by families in many areas. It is particularly important to note that parents and the elderly usually cause family disputes because of parenting education methods.
Therefore, in intergenerational education, it is necessary to establish the status of children and the parenting education methods of parents and the elderly. Only by cooperating with each other can children feel the warm atmosphere at home and grow up healthily and happily.