Almost every baby has a cognitive period, which usually occurs when the baby is 8- 12 months old. During this period, when the baby sees a stranger, he will express his fear or cry loudly in a sensitive way and get the protection of his family. In fact, recognizing strangers is also a sense of self-protection, a process of mental development and social experience accumulation, and a process of growth.
For the baby in the identification period, as long as parents can understand the laws and characteristics of the baby's development and give appropriate help, the baby can safely survive the intense identification period.
A, nervous, let the right one in.
/kloc-Hao Hao, 0/3 months old, was playing his favorite little train on the floor when the doorbell rang. He stared at his mother's next move, saw her open the door and heard some strange noises. The baby began to coquetry and wanted to hug. When the guest came into the room and wanted to hug Hao Haohao, Hao Hao burst into tears.
Precautions for early education: 6-month-old babies have begun to show sensitive reactions to strangers and unfamiliar environments, which is what we call "cognitive period". Most babies are afraid of everything because of their lack of social experience, and think that everyone is not safe except their mother. The more eager a stranger is to get close to the baby, the easier it is to cause the baby's nervousness, which is even more unacceptable to him.
My trick is:
1, don't let strangers approach the baby rashly.
If the baby shows resistance to strangers, let him move naturally. When the baby keeps his distance and observes that the other person is "not dangerous", he will relax his vigilance. At this time, it is easy to be accepted to play with him slowly in a way that he is interested in. Before being accepted, don't rush to get close to or touch the baby's body, otherwise all previous efforts will be in vain.
2. Don't force your baby to a strange environment.
Some parents think that putting the baby in the arms of strangers can exercise him and get rid of his "bad habit" of being afraid of strangers. In this way, the baby's resistance is more serious and counterproductive. In fact, mothers can start with people their babies are familiar with, so that children can gradually get in touch with the environment of "more familiar people and fewer strangers". After getting familiar with the environment in the presence of several strangers, expand his contact range and let the children adapt to the ability of interacting with strangers and adapting to strange environment little by little.
3. Don't envy other babies and don't recognize strangers.
Second, a dangerous and unfamiliar environment.
Tweety is over 3 years old, but she is a lively and noisy "problem children" at home, but once outside, she is quiet. Originally, my mother wanted her to participate in other children's activities, but she refused to let go of her mother's hand and wanted her to stay with her no matter what she did. Tweety is going to kindergarten. Can she behave like this?
Precautions for early education: When the baby arrives in a strange environment, the warning radar will work quickly. Babies don't have strong minds and rich social experience like adults, so they need to slowly observe and feel the surrounding environment. Even in the parks and supermarkets he often goes to, if there are factors that make him feel uneasy, he will always be vigilant and hope that his mother can always be around.
My trick is:
1, multiple contacts
Don't let your baby stay at home and be an otaku. Take your baby to strange environments and create more opportunities to meet strangers. At first, the baby doesn't want to, so his mother can stay with him and make him feel safe. When he gradually becomes familiar with the surrounding environment and thinks that there is no danger, his mother can encourage his baby to participate in other children's games and tell him that "mother has been paying attention to you and is not afraid" and gradually distance himself from his baby.
2. Choose an environment suitable for your baby
Before the mother lets the baby into physical activities, she should ensure that there are no aggressive children in it to avoid unnecessary harm to the baby. If misfortune happens, mother should calm him down, leave the scene and take him to a safer body, so that he will not be more afraid of getting along with strangers.
Don't let adults tease your baby too much.
Third, tips for giving your baby recognition
During the baby's cognitive period, too much criticism or arrangement from parents will easily aggravate the baby's cognitive impairment. So parents should pay attention to avoid it.
1, less criticism
Most young babies are self-aware from an adult's point of view, so parents should keep their attitude and emotional stability towards their children, avoid being hot and cold, and don't vent your bad emotions on their babies. In particular, you can't intimidate children with words like "I won't want you anymore" and "I gave you to someone else". With a sense of security, the baby will naturally dare to contact strangers and the environment.
2. Less arrangement
Spoiling will suppress the development of children's autonomy, make children doubt their abilities, and form a timid mentality about some things. Therefore, in the case of ensuring safety, let the child be free, encourage him to explore things he is interested in boldly, and give him more "cardiotonic agents" to help the baby overcome his timidity. Parents can also consciously give their children some challenges and exercises, so that the baby can help them participate in life and cultivate his independence.
3. Early training