I seem to have been buying grapes at buy buy since I was pregnant with grapes last year. I remember the day I finished four dimensions, and I was even more excited to buy thousands of pieces when I learned about Bao Er's gender. After having a baby, my life seems to be full of this little life. I want to give him everything (no wonder he is so fat now).
During my pregnancy, I made up my mind to be a qualified mother and try my best to accompany me with high quality.
Many novice parents look at the soft little thing just born, afraid to hold it, afraid to touch it, and even afraid that the baby will not adapt, let alone play with it. The baby is too young to know how to play with her at all. And the younger you are, the less you will play with them.
Fun and interesting, too many games, exercise your baby's various abilities. If the bones share more than 10 at a time, you may not remember any of them, so the bones will be very sad. It is best to share 4 at a time, few but fine; From shallow to deep, step by step, one game a week.
Almost all the babies in the month are sleeping, and the time to wake up is limited. Four games can completely satisfy the baby's "entertainment time".
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Let's introduce these parent-child games, which are especially suitable for newborn babies. Most importantly, these games are zero-difficulty games and do not need complicated props. You can play with your baby at home or study together!
Games 1: Look at black and white cards-sensory games
Newborn babies can only see light and shadow because the visual nerve cells are not yet mature.
The best sight distance for a baby is 20-38 cm, that is, the baby just sees the mother's face when feeding.
Before the baby is 3 months old, he can only see black and white, so using black and white can effectively stimulate the baby's brain. Note that the distance between the toy and the baby should not exceed 38 cm.
Pre-match preparation
Mom can buy black and white cards online, or make pictures by herself. Download some black and white patterns on the Internet and print them out.
How to play the game
Let the baby lie flat on the bed, and the mother will put the card 20 ~ 30cm above the baby's eyes. When the baby sees the card and stares at it, the mother will slowly move the card to the left of the baby, and then move the card to the right of the baby's face.
When the baby takes his eyes off the card, change the next card to the baby.
Note: Newborn babies get tired easily. If you show your baby three pictures, it is necessary to have a rest.
Game 2, follow the expression and move your eyes-sensory game
In order to make the baby smarter, effective visual training is essential. Through visual training, babies can perceive, accept and process more information.
Although the baby is young, in fact, the baby has a desire to know the world from birth. What the baby sees will form more visual memories in the cerebral cortex, thus promoting the development of the brain and making the baby smarter.
Pre-match preparation
Draw different little expressions on mom's fingertips.
How to play the game
Let the baby lie flat on a quiet bed. If the baby just wakes up and looks very happy, the mother can gently touch the baby's body from the chest to the feet and gently tell the baby, "Good baby, let's play a game!" "
Mother draws different small expressions at the fingertips, so that the baby can see her fingers. If the baby looks at a finger, the mother bends her finger, nods, calls the baby's name and asks the baby, "Baby, are you happy?"
Let your fingers move left and right to see if your baby's eyes can keep up.
Note: mom should use all kinds of exaggerated movements to make the baby notice the little expression. When the baby sees his mother's finger, he will move it, and his sight will follow.
Game 3: Move your little hands-feel the game.
Let the baby's little hands move, which can exercise the activity ability and muscle strength of the baby's fingers and wrists and help the baby feel the rhythm of the sound.
Pre-match preparation
Rattle (mother must be careful not to let the baby eat the balls at both ends of the rattle)
How to play the game
Put the baby on the reclining seat, pick up the rattle in front of the baby and gently shake it a few times to make a "bang" sound to attract the baby's attention.
Hold the baby's little hand, help the baby catch the rattle, shake it and say a children's song: "rattle, baby knocks, baby laughs."
My mother banged the rattle in her hand while talking, and then paused and said, "When the baby knocks, the baby laughs." Look at the baby and make him laugh.
The mother can put the rattle in different directions around the baby to make a drumming sound, and encourage the baby to turn his head to the place where the mother makes a sound. After several rounds, the baby will become more and more sensitive to sound.
Game 4: Toys can talk-a language game
This game can exercise the baby's hearing ability and lay the foundation for the baby to speak in the future.
Pre-match preparation
Prepare different animal models or stuffed toys.
How to play games:
Holding a small animal in front of the baby and saying, "Baby, how are you?" At this time, the baby will feel very happy.
While shaking the small animals to talk, we should change the voice and intonation, so that the baby can feel the different voice of the mother.
If you take a bird, say it in a thin voice; If you take a pig, say it in a muffled voice.
Babies are very happy when they hear different sounds and tones.
PS: 1 month baby can't talk, but it will make some short sounds. When a mother communicates with her baby, she can * * * the baby's interest in talking.
When talking to the baby, the mother tries to look into the baby's eyes and speak slowly with a smile. The slower the baby is, the easier it is to accept.