After her daughter went to kindergarten, she had a strong adaptability to kindergarten because of her early education. The first week of kindergarten is also very good. The teacher said that she was obedient. When the children around her eat, she eats and the children around her sleep. She is asleep, too, and will raise her hand to express her opinion in class. Hearing the teacher's words, the old mother was still very pleased. The money for early education is not wasted, and the girl is really distressed.

But with the passage of time, the child's psychology has changed. Now every night I say "Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten" and "Mom, I don't like kindergarten". I asked her if she liked teachers, and she said she didn't. When you go to kindergarten in the morning, you become reluctant. I will never go to school with my schoolbag on my back again, but I will pretend where you are going every morning, and I don't want to go to kindergarten anyway. Especially when I go to work and when she goes to kindergarten. Whenever I go out to work, she shouts "Mom, don't go to work". If I leave, I will hear her crying when I close the door. Rao, a tiger mother like me, can't help but be soft-hearted and ask Lao Hao, "Why don't you go today?" Lao Hao usually rejects me. He said I just had to leave. As long as I leave, she will be fine.

I thought someone bullied my daughter in kindergarten, so I often asked if anyone bullied her, whether the teacher liked her or not, and whether the classmates liked her or not. All I get are affirmative answers, so I wonder why I don't like going to kindergarten.

Then I asked, "I don't want to go to kindergarten. Where do you want to go? " The prostitute said, "Mom, I'm going to Wanda, I'm going to Wanda! ! ! "

The case is solved, the kindergarten is fun and the children are easy to get along with. But there are rules that you should listen to the teacher and do as the teacher asks. When to eat, when to sleep and when to play trampoline outdoors, the teacher has to arrange it. Even the toys in the kindergarten are not unique to her, they are all played by children. Wanda is different. We gave her membership in several amusement parks in wanda plaza. She can go to any one at will and play as long as she wants. No other children will come and grab the toys in her hand. Because basically parents take care of their children, they will not allow them to rob other people's toys.

So, after the novelty of the first few days, the little girl never wants to go to kindergarten again. Kindergarten has become a cage in her heart to some extent. As long as she goes to kindergarten, she can't be as free as at home. So I want to go to Wanda every day, and there will be a performance of "Where are you going" every morning. The little girl is not too tired every day.

Even if I tell her that mom doesn't want to go to work, it's no use saying that mom wants to go to work, because she wants to make money to let you go to Wanda. A 3-year-old child just woke up, and the world has to revolve around her. How can she understand the hardships of the adult world? In her eyes, she just wants to go to Wanda, and then her mother will take her or not.

Alas, how to guide children correctly? Reluctant to beat and scold, I want to solve this matter with reason, but I don't know what to do, alas!