1, make rules and restrict behaviors.

Toys are an indispensable part of children's growth, so toys should be bought. We can make an agreement with our children that we can only buy two or three toys every month. This rule should be worked out with children. Children can bargain if they agree, but if the reasons are clear, parents can be persuaded that the rules can be changed.

Mobilize children's enthusiasm in the process of making rules, because it is related to him and let children understand that not everyone can do whatever they want. You should be responsible for what you say, and exercise your children's logical thinking ability and language organization ability in the process of bargaining, and exercise their courage. In most cases, parents control everything. One thing he can participate in and give advice is to give children courage to practice.

2. Delayed satisfaction

In daily life, let your children know that you are a man of your word. You can ask for anything, but it's no use crying. Why do you want this toy? What's the difference between this toy and similar toys at home? Then tell the child that toys can be bought, but you don't have enough money on you today. Tell your child how much money you earn every month, how much money you want to share, and what kind of living expenses you use. If the money is used to buy toys, you will have no money to do other things. Then, for example, toys cost 300 yuan. Tell the child how long it takes to work overtime every day to earn this 300 yuan back, and come back next week when I have earned enough money from working overtime.

During this time, because children are eager for toys, you can make some demands on them. For example, your mother works overtime to earn money, and you carefully draw a picture and read a story at home. When her mother gets off work, show it to her mother or tell her. At this time, children are generally obedient and parents will do it seriously.

3. diversification. In this respect, you can only choose one.

Every time I go out to the mall or supermarket, my child will definitely want something. Parents should tell their children before going out that you can choose a kind of food and a kind of toy to make them form habits. You can take more and put them in the box when you enter the supermarket, but you can only choose one when you check out at the end, and the extra ones will be returned. If the child wants it all, there is no need to return it. If the child chooses something cheaper, parents can return it from the child. In this way, let the children understand that in most cases, as long as your requirements are reasonable, parents can meet them and let the children know that you can get them if you give up.