Under the topic of early education, I often see many young parents complaining that my child is three years old and can't understand English. The child has just entered primary school, and he doesn't listen to his parents at home, and quarrels with his classmates on campus. How to teach children good interpersonal relationship management from primary school? ..... In fact, when discussing parenting, we sometimes ignore a very important question, that is, what, what kind of goods are more suitable for children?

This is not an expensive Lego toy, a professional training class of tens of thousands of yuan, nor a holiday to take children to the world attractions to punch in. Although it is good to broaden our horizons, when we talk about education, we have actually deviated from education itself. As Mo Yan often mentioned in a speech, the essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and a soul awakens another life. Education is not a complicated project. Parents should achieve good educational results, but also have practical methods and rules.

The strategy is from shallow to deep.

It takes a lot of energy to educate children. This timeline may be long, and the results may not be received in a short time. Especially in art study, we must first lay a good foundation. Generally speaking, if children are really interested, let them continue their studies. As the saying goes, every little makes a mickle, take Wan Li Road. The road to children's education is actually a tough battle with each other.

Early education should make a difference. Did Dad Bao and Ma Bao do the right thing?

Seed sowing needs to wait for the seedlings to germinate. Rome was not built in a day. Parents should correct the deviation area in time and give assistance when they arrive. Children's Home is for children. Patience is the best nutrient for watering all seeds.

Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the top priority.

Different children have different interests and good ways of thinking. Some people prefer olympiad to piano and painting. In this case, they should not let their children fill every high-quality development class. Education is people-oriented. People are familiar with this. Confucius has 3000 disciples and 72 saints. Therefore, parents should not frown when they can't see their children's grades. It is feasible to help children explore their interests.

In this process, we should pay special attention to the fact that the choices made by parents for their children are contrary to their hobbies. Understand it first, and then discuss it together. When making decisions for children, treat children as people with attitudes.

Protect children's self-boundaries.

This is another difficult problem that many parents are prone to make in early education-improper parent-child communication. Children are individuals with independent personality, and personality is reflected in intention. Although not all intentions should be met, parents should consider why their children make such requests within the effective scope. Children's hobbies and habits should also be valued and maintained.

Many parent-child communication has undergone vicious changes after ten or twenty years. In fact, early education has shown signs. Therefore, parents should be sincerely aware of the fairness between their children and themselves. Only on this basis can parent-child communication have good harmony.

It is also necessary to get along with others.

This is usually a problem easily overlooked by parents. Cultivating children's social skills is the same as cultivating children's skills and interests. If we blindly attach importance to the latter and ignore the former, it may make children's interpersonal communication affect their daily study and life.

Early education should make a difference. Did Dad Bao and Ma Bao do the right thing?

When you get along with people, you must have good insight. Some children may be born with keen insight, but the feedback and results after observation need the help of their parents. In early education, children's thinking ability is still relatively lacking, and people and things they know are limited. Therefore, when guiding children to create basic social skills, parents should first inform some basic elements, such as the application of language and etiquette.

Interactive waiting is essential.

Children should pay more attention to their parents than we think, especially when they create their cognition and ideas about the world in the early days. Proper guidance and encouragement from parents is very important. However, some parents may overlook this point. In fact, the investment in early childhood education is not only in professional learning. Children's demand for parent-child activities may be relatively invisible, so parents often put it on the basis to expand the scope of learning.

Get rid of the study and put your mobile phone aside. On weekends, parents take their children for picnics, walks and sightseeing. In every conversation with others, when the child's curiosity is attracted by the scenery, both parents can expand their emotions and open their hearts in this process. Children can make friends with their parents.