Lead: What is the cultivation of children by parents now? Meticulous? I want to cultivate everything, whether it is IQ, EQ, financial quotient, physical quotient and so on. But I often don't know much about the abilities that need to be cultivated. I'll take you to know about your child's IQ and EQ, and see which is more important.
Everyday mom:
Seeing some advertisements of early education centers can cultivate children's IQ, EQ and DQ. What do they mean?
Me:
IQ refers to IQ, that is, IQ. Cleverness is usually called wisdom, also called cleverness. It is the ability of people to know objective things and use knowledge to solve practical problems. Intelligence includes many aspects, such as observation, memory, imagination, analysis and judgment, thinking ability, adaptability and so on.
Emotional intelligence refers to emotional intelligence, also known as emotional intelligence, which is a concept corresponding to intelligence and IQ put forward by psychologists in recent years. Mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, emotion, will and frustration tolerance.
People with high emotional intelligence have the following characteristics: strong social skills, outgoing happiness, not easy to fall into fear or sadness, relatively devoted to their careers, honest, compassionate, rich in emotional life but not out of bounds, and can feel at ease when they are alone or with many people.
If a person is withdrawn, weird and difficult to cooperate; Inferiority, fragility and inability to face setbacks; Impatience, stubbornness, conceit, emotional instability, etc. are all manifestations of lack of emotional intelligence. Even if his IQ is higher, it is difficult to achieve anything.
Now psychologists generally believe that the level of emotional intelligence has a great influence on a person's success, and sometimes its function even exceeds the intelligence level.
Experts also believe that whether a person has high emotional intelligence is closely related to the education and training he received as a child. Therefore, the cultivation of emotional intelligence should start from an early age.
DQ refers to developers, including emotional intelligence and IQ. It covers eight aspects of children's intellectual and emotional development.
Everyday mom:
It seems that IQ and EQ are very important for a person's future. What does this training include?
Me:
Genetic factors and nutritional factors will affect people's IQ and EQ, and more importantly, the acquired environment and training. From the birth of the child, parents can grasp the critical period of the child for training according to the needs of the child's intellectual and emotional development at different stages.
Cultivate children's fine movements such as grasping, hand-eye coordination; Running, jumping, climbing and other body movements, rhythmic body, sensory integration and so on. The ability of visual pursuit, memory and judgment, and the ability to observe colors and shapes; Listen, understand, feel, learn to speak, etc. Logical thinking ability, such as concepts, problem solving and logical reasoning; Innovation and creativity, such as divergent thinking; Let children learn to express their feelings, share cooperation, establish social relations and build self-esteem; Cultivate children's self-reliance, learn to take care of themselves, take responsibility, learn to make choices, experience being respected and form an independent personality. These are the education of IQ and EQ that children can't grow up without. With the balanced development of IQ and EQ, children will have good developers, thus laying a solid foundation for their future.
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