Children are really busy nowadays. Before going to kindergarten, they will go to the early education center to participate in various experience classes, interest classes and training classes. They are busier when they get to kindergarten. They go to kindergarten during the day and attend various training classes at night or on weekends, such as painting, physical training, street dance training, English, dance fitness and other interest training classes. They are full of classes from Monday to Friday, and they also have to learn online English that their parents bought online after returning from the training class. I was urged to wash and sleep by adults before I played well, and the next day was a cycle. Fortunately, parents enjoy it and children basically accept it.
Parents' ideas are both practical and long-term. The reality is that children either want to watch TV at home or grab their parents' mobile phones, which is boring and affects their eyesight. Learning a hobby is equivalent to finding a suitable place to take care of your children. The long-term idea is that the children around you are learning all kinds of knowledge and must not let their dolls lose at the starting line.
Some children not only attend various group trainings, but also attend private education classes purchased by their parents. This kind of private education is one-on-one, with many contents, such as developing intelligence in advance and supplementing knowledge later. In the gym, I saw a first-grade elementary school student learning to skip rope under the training of a private physical education teacher. I was surprised at the time. I have to hire someone to practice skipping. It is relatively simple for a child with normal motor function, and it can be realized with a little inspiration and training. However, no matter how inspired and demonstrated by the PE teacher, girls can't successfully complete the skipping project. Finally, the head teacher talked with the PE teacher and the girls' parents, telling them that physical education class is an indispensable part of the whole academic performance, and skipping rope is also an important project completion point in physical education class. It can not only enhance heart function, exercise physical coordination, keep body balance, but also stimulate intelligence and improve learning efficiency. Ask Qi Xin, the parent, to work together and make efforts to let the children pass. When I got home, my parents took turns dancing with me, but the results were still few. They were so anxious that their mother's best friend advised her, "Mom, where is an old man going to teach his doll?" You don't know what to say. Some big professors can't teach their dolls well, although they have taught many good students. In the end, their dolls didn't even get into an ordinary university. What is the reason? I think it may be caused by the dislocation of roles, so you still have to find another way. " Finally, parents only found a private teacher in the children's sports hall to train their children's jumping skills alone.
One night, when I sent my grandson to take part in physical exercise, I happened to meet a private tutor who skipped class. I looked in through the big window of the training classroom. The girl who learned to jump rope, her chubby face flushed with the atmosphere of training. The coach carefully breaks down the movements and patiently demonstrates the details. I saw the coach dancing freely and rhythmically with both hands, jumping lightly, jumping with both feet and jumping freely with one foot. With the swish of the rope, his feet are full of rhythm like dragonflies. It seems that the soles of the feet never leave the ground, but the rope can be leisurely crossed. The jumping figure is like an eagle flying in the blue sky and a smart swallow overlooking at low altitude, which brings people different aesthetic feelings. Encouraged by the coach, the girl kept trying, but somehow, when she was distracted, her hand went out of tune, or her foot was entangled in a rope, which made her in a hurry and sweaty, and she failed again and again. The girl's parents are so anxious outside that they can't blame each other, saying that their cooperation is not very good ... Seeing that the dispute will escalate, the person in charge of the training hall saw it. Motor skills still need to be cultivated. Some children develop early, others start slowly, but once the potential in this area breaks out, coordination will be stimulated and others will catch up. There is no skill that you can't learn. Miracles will happen as long as you are willing to train. "Hearing this, the young parents nodded with angry and embarrassed expressions, and a smile appeared on their anxious faces.
I once saw a little boy who was almost two years old in an early education center. He was preparing to have an English class with his grandparents. The child originally thought with a smile that his grandparents took him shopping today, but when he registered at the front desk of the early education center, he wanted to break away from his grandparents and rushed out, shouting, "I won't go to class!" I have no class! " Grandparents are in a hurry, fighting is not an option, and there is no reason to scold. Seeing this, a staff member at the front desk is very clever. He immediately ran over, hugged the child with a smile and said loudly, "Come on, let's go in and see what's interesting in it. The teacher will give you an award after playing for a while. " At some point, grandparents came to the game area with their children in their arms and followed the teacher to play with blocks and slides. After the children played, their faces spread out. It's a pity that class time is coming. Grandparents want to bring their children into the classroom, and the children strongly resist. In desperation, grandpa came hard and forced the child into the classroom. The children's crying changed from the beginning to the last. The English teacher coaxed them with toys and prizes, but it was useless. Seeing that the class time has passed a few minutes, grandparents are afraid of affecting the normal teaching of other children, so they have to take their grandchildren out of the classroom. Looking at their helpless and depressed backs, I think we should leave some thoughts for adults. Whether studying or entertaining, we should respect children's wishes and interests, instead of planting seeds of anxiety and pressure in young minds.
I have experienced and participated in early childhood education and various training courses for children after the age of three. In this process, I have always been skeptical and entangled, because this behavior is contrary to the previous work concept, but I can't come up with scientific reasons to convince the reason that "children can't lose at the starting line" and can't change the status quo of parenting. After all, we are faced with grandchildren, who insist on their own opinions and are unable to bear the responsibility of educating people. Some time ago, I took my grandson to a training class and heard a parent tell me that his child's primary school is a better private primary school. Judging from the class situation, he suffered from not teaching pinyin in advance. He always thought that children must not cram pinyin before going to primary school, for fear of missing their standard pronunciation. That is to say, other people's children have learned pinyin thoroughly. What's more, the homework assigned by the teacher is completely pinyin. For a child who has never been exposed to pinyin at all, it is simply.
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