Children will be sent to kindergarten for pre-school education in three weeks. Parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line and attach great importance to early childhood education. More families are between the pressure of life and mortgage, and a person can't bear so much burden at work, so he chooses to send his children to kindergarten early. At present, many private kindergartens have set up early education classes, and children over a week or two can be sent to kindergartens for planning and supervision.
Neighbour Niu Niu's family once quarreled over the children's schooling. Niu Niu has always been taken care of by her grandmother, and the old people are more fond of their children. Although Niu Niu's mother is dissatisfied, she must endure it at work. Seeing the child for two weeks, Niu Niu's mother wants to send the child to the nursery, so there is no need for mother-in-law education. She thinks it is better for the child's growth and independence, but the old man says that the child's self-care ability is poor and so on. But Niu Niu's mother forced the child to leave, and the old man went back to his hometown in a rage.
However, because the children have always been taken care of by grandma, it is not worth mentioning that they cry, tear their hearts out, eat or drink, pee their pants and so on every day when they go to kindergarten. In less than a week, the child was ill and cross-infected. The two-year-old child was too young to take care of himself. At this time, Niu Niu's mother regretted sending her child to suffer at such a young age.
Children are too young and have poor cognitive ability. In recent years, incidents of child abuse in kindergartens have emerged one after another. Children are too young to distinguish. They have no idea how to protect themselves. It is undoubtedly harmful to them to send it early. Although we have to admit that kindergarten education is comprehensive in terms of intellectual thinking development, the baby can't be independent physically and psychologically and can't adapt to the new environment. Forced adaptation will only leave a shadow in the child's mind.
When I was a child, my parents locked my brother and me at home every day to ensure safety. Finally, in desperation, we were sent to kindergarten. When we came from the countryside, we were suddenly locked up in the kindergarten, crying and rolling on the ground every day, and we were scared every day. I don't understand why our parents don't want us. At that time, my parents didn't know how to communicate. I only remember that my mother went to work with tears in her eyes every day. Up to now, no one cares about my childhood thoughts.
For a child, the most precious thing is the past few years. When the child grows up and you want to accompany him, he may ignore you and you are bored. So don't leave your child when he needs your company most. There are pressures and difficulties in life, but they are all short-lived. A child's growth and companionship affect his life. Children's personality is closely related to their parents' companionship. Comparatively speaking, which is more important?
Children who are not as good as older children in kindergarten morning will feel frustrated, often can't take care of themselves, and teachers will suffer from poor care. They may also be criticized by teachers and easily bullied by older children. In fact, in kindergarten, teachers teach nothing more than singing and dancing, playing games, doing crafts and playing, sharing and collective atmosphere. These parents might as well try to create an atmosphere for their children, often coach their children, and often take their children outdoors to play with them, which can also achieve the same effect. If you really love your child, stay with him in kindergarten for one more year at night!