3 years old is an important stage of children's growth. Child psychologists and educators call the period from birth to 3 years old as infancy, which is the fastest period of children's physical and psychological development. In addition, they also found the following growth laws:
1. Personality: A child's adult personality has basically formed before the age of 3, and it has not changed much after the age of 3;
2. IQ: Children's brain cells have completed 60% before the age of 3, and children's brains in this period have strong absorption ability;
3. Learning: Before the age of 3, it is the most sensitive period in the formation of children's feelings, memories and thinking. Learning activities before the age of 3 will get twice the result with half the effort.
4. Height: Before the age of 3, it is the most critical stage for children's height development, and the damage to height before the age of 3 can never be made up.
Child psychologists and educators call the period from 3 to 7 years old preschool. The so-called "seeing the old at the age of seven" means that children's personality tendency begins to form at the age of seven, and after that, it is basically
It's hard to reshape.
Of course, a person's personality is not completely impossible to change after adulthood, but this kind of situation is rare after all, and it needs a lot of energy to change. Therefore, parents need to do early education so that children can have the ability and capital to struggle at the starting line for a lifetime.
Professor Casbi once emphasized that at the age of 0 ~ 3, parents' expectations, behaviors and some living standards will be internalized by children into their own expectations and rules. In other words, at this time, the parents' code of conduct is the template, which directly determines the code of conduct on which children live all their lives. At this time, parents should not only pay attention to their children's behavior, but also pay attention to their own words and deeds.
"Looking forward to children's success" is the common wish of every parent. At present, most parents pay more attention to early education, but more people only pay attention to the cultivation of children's knowledge and ability, rather than the development of children's psychological model or the formation of personality, which leads to the opposite direction of early education.
Psychology believes that a person's life is a complete psychological development process, from birth to death. In this development process, the psychological development of seven years old is particularly important, just like the basic part of a building, which directly determines the style and height of the building. If parents can seize this critical period and give their children a good education, they can lay a solid foundation for their children's lives.
Looking big at the age of 23: parents should pay attention to early education.
Judging from the changes in life, adaptability to life, conquest of the outside world and achievements, the role of people at the age of 0-3 is actually longer than the sum of all stages from 3 years old to death. From this point of view, parents' education for their children in infancy exceeds that received at any stage of their lives. In order to let children win at the starting line, parents should educate their children as soon as possible.
Pavlov, a famous Soviet psychologist, once said: "Education begins on the third day of the baby's birth, two days late." Although his words are exaggerated, they are obviously early.
The importance of early education. Nowadays, social competition is becoming more and more fierce. Parents should cultivate their children from an early age and let them grow into competitive talents.