First, there is an input before there is an output.
Nowadays, children's picture books are really interesting, with beautiful patterns and interesting language. You can't guess the plot development of many picture books, and each picture book has its own painting style and language style. When the child is young, reading stories to him more can be regarded as language input. He's heard a lot, so he'll speak out. Now most parents pay attention to grinding their ears to learn English. In fact, it is equally important to sharpen your ears and Chinese.
My little Bao said that he was an Ankylosaurus baby, his brother was a Tyrannosaurus Rex, his mother was Ankylosaurus mother, and his father was Ankylosaurus father. Even after reading Miyanishi's dinosaur series "You Look Delicious", it is naturally an output and imaginative, isn't it?
Second, raise awareness.
Read more picture books and listen to more stories, and you will know many foods that are not common in life, such as dinosaurs, spaceships and helicopters. You can go to places that you might not normally go to, such as space, the Great Wall and the underwater world. Listening to stories can increase curiosity about the world, enhance interest in everything, and guide children to explore and understand constantly.
It is highly recommended here that 100-story house series picture books, a set of * * four sets, namely, submarine 100-story house, underground 100-story house, aerial 100-story house and 100-story house. This is a picture book, story, encyclopedia, enlightenment, covering nature, animals, insects, digital themes; Each book tells the life habits of 10 species of animals, and there are 40 species of animals in only four books. Among them, The House on 100 Floor contains a little mouse who knows how to read under the light, a little squirrel who is busy collecting acorns, a little frog who likes to be wet, a ladybug who likes to dress up beautifully, and a snake who plays happily together. While reading picture books and listening to stories, children learned a lot about small animals and their living habits.
Third, increase parent-child time.
I think reading stories to children is a very effective parent-child companionship. Think about it, if the topic becomes "If the child likes watching cartoons, will you watch them with him every day?" The answer is definitely no.
Children don't need you to read stories to her for a long time. When he can read by himself, he won't need you. You need you to read him stories, which is also a kind of dependence and a good time to accompany him. I like such a short time.
Father doesn't like reading books, and naturally he doesn't like reading picture books and telling stories to his children. Sometimes he will find some audio on his mobile phone to play. I think either way will do. If the child likes it, he can be helped to keep such good habits and hobbies. Children who love reading will not be bad at Chinese when they grow up.
Children like to listen to stories, and I will tell them when I have time. I am a post-50 s generation. I am old, and sometimes I have no energy. I told her with the reading machine and then told her how to use it. Now, I tell a story to my child before going to bed, and the child goes to bed after listening to the story. I think this is very good and helpful to the growth of children.
My point is:
1 Tell children as much as possible, read every day and communicate with parents.
2. Reason:
Every child has his own language sensitive period. For children who like to listen to stories, perhaps their language sensitivity period has arrived. Parents should seize this opportunity, read more books to their children, appropriately increase the amount of reading, increase the difficulty of reading, and increase the form of reading, not just telling stories.
In the process of listening, children will be immersed in the context of stories to learn languages, how to read, express and new vocabulary. He doesn't need to know how to write many words, but when he listens, he will say them naturally.
Any language has a certain period of stagnation. Parents should not worry that their children can't speak. Listen first, then speak, then read and write. This follows all the laws of language learning.
If parents don't have much time to study with their children, they can use some software, such as xx storytelling, which contains many high-quality contents suitable for children of different ages. In particular, my children love to watch many mathematical reasoning detectives, which can stimulate children to think and explore the story, not only exercise their language, but also develop their mathematical thinking.
At the same time, stories are everywhere in our lives, such as a shopping trip, an observation of an annular eclipse and a game with children, which can be used as story cases to communicate with children. Show the charm of language and thinking.
This topic is so good that almost all children like stories. When my daughter was young, I told her stories every night. When she grows up, I tell stories to my granddaughter. Be sure to say it before going to bed every night. I told the story with the editor, including the world knowledge, the truth of being a man, social phenomena and so on, and expressed it with the activity plots of various small animals. The baby loves to listen and is fascinated by it. Once she was ill and had a high fever. After taking the medicine, she said to me, "Grandpa, I feel terrible. Only you can save me now! " "I was surprised and quickly asked," what's the matter? Tell me quickly. " She looked at me expectantly and said, "Tell me a story! "Oh, I see. I'm relieved. I'll make up a story for her right away: "The wolf cheated and hurt himself". She smiled, and so did I.
I will. Children who like listening to stories generally have more knowledge reserves than their peers. Just like children who like reading, they will get more outside information than children who don't like listening to stories and reading.
Reading with children and telling stories to children is one of my favorite parent-child activities. When children follow the story, or express their feelings happily or sadly, you will find that children are so kind in nature and have such a clear ability to distinguish between good and evil, and they will express their feelings of understanding the story. You can also discuss many details such as the character and language expression in the story with your child. Through this kind of interaction, it will help you understand your children's thoughts and enter their hearts. It can also be found that some problems existing in children now can also help to get rid of some minor problems through stories.
Therefore, I cherish the time of reading with my children and share his feelings, which is a happy thing.
The father who accompanied the baby to do his homework thought: If it is before the age of three, my mother will be responsive, and I will read stories and picture books to my children every day. I am the parent of a sophomore. My daughter's grades are very good now, and the connection between young and old is very smooth. I think the biggest reason is that her mother gave her children enough sense of security when they were young, and reading increased his horizons.
So how exactly is it done? Before I was one or three years old, my mother tried to be responsive. Why?
Second, what are the benefits of reading? 2. Learning is a lifelong thing, and it is best to like learning, so that you will never be painful all your life. My daughter has been reading to her since she was six months old. Sometimes I read a book a day and read it many times a day just to listen to a little swallow, but adults are going to throw up. As long as I stick to it, children will be interested in learning. When they are older, they don't need to read.
3. Enhance the relationship between father and daughter. Every day when the child is with his mother, his father is also sour in his heart. How can we make children willing to stick to themselves? Then, he must take action to read more books to his children. Children like reading, forming a virtuous circle, and children feel good about learning from me every day. And in the long run, the relationship between father and daughter will continue to precipitate and get better and better.
Generally speaking, under the premise of safety, before the age of three, we should try our best to meet the children's requirements and read as many books as possible, even if we read a book many times a day, because we will spend a long time with our children and many things must be prepared in advance. Hello, I'm fat dad, and I'm glad to answer your question. I now read picture books to my children every day.
There are two children in my family. The eldest is 4 years old and the second is 2 and a half years old. Every day my boss will say to me, "Dad, let's read a new book." Then, two children sat next to me and listened to me read them picture books. The second child is younger. After listening for about a quarter of an hour, he told me, "I don't want to read." She can play puzzles or other toys by herself. The boss read three books from the beginning and slowly read five. At present, the daily reading volume is about eight books. I calculated that there are about 300 to 400 picture books I have read since my boss went to kindergarten.
My children prefer to express themselves by reading picture books to them. Sometimes I play house with the children in the neighborhood. They pretend to be parents and babies, and the task of telling stories to the baby is often done by my children. He will retell what he heard and saw in the picture book through his own understanding, and sometimes he will adapt the story content.
Children like to listen to stories, so I recorded the stories told by my parents on a small scale. However, children still like to listen to me read picture books to him. In fact, if you think about it carefully, this is a rare parent-child time. Children pestering their parents to tell stories, just a few years, but it is one of the best memories of childhood. As parents, why don't we cherish this time?
My children also like listening to stories. When they have time, they will tell her stories in storybooks and read them with their children. If there is no time, it is helpful for children to listen to stories in story machine.
It is suggested that having time to tell stories to children can enhance parent-child feelings, and the process of telling can enhance children's understanding ability.
Children like to listen to stories, and I will read them to him every day.
Children like to listen to stories when they are young. When the child is over one year old, I read him a book about things. He always says "read, read, read" with that book. The same is true of children listening to stories. Parents say they are tired, and the children are not enough.
Some parents don't want to tell their children. Don't do this.
1. Children's speech comprehension, speech listening, reading, recitation and other aspects are gradually enhanced in the process of listening to stories, and children often tell them stories, which gives them advantages in these aspects.
We will find that children can say the next sentence from the last sentence, and some short picture book stories have been remembered by children, which is the subtle role.
Children like listening to stories. Telling them every day can not only help them learn a lot of truth, but also help them enjoy reading after school.
As we all know, reading is good for children all their lives. In the story, children can learn self-confidence, courage, helpfulness and gratitude. Cultivate parent-child feelings and let children fall in love with reading. But some children like reading and listening to stories when they are young, but they don't like reading when they get to primary school?
Because children have other favorite things when they grow up, such as playing or mobile games. At this time, if parents do not insist on reading stories or other things to their children, or reading with them, children will gradually lose interest in reading.
When children go to primary school, parents are anxious if they don't like reading. So children like to listen to stories, and it is very important to tell stories every day. At one time, my children were told to talk about "pulling radish" every night when they went to bed. Sometimes I tell him quickly that the child knows what's going on. In fact, children already know it, but they still like to listen to it repeatedly. Say it again and again, don't dampen children's enthusiasm.
Will your children make you tell a story over and over again? How did you handle it? Welcome everyone to communicate together.
Children like listening to stories. How nice! Of course I will read it to him every day!
After learning that I was pregnant, I ordered some books at the first time, including early education enlightenment stories, which I read every day as a kind of prenatal education.
Two or three months after the child was born, he began to tell him picture books, mainly pictures. Besides paperbacks, he also bought many cave books and pop-up book for his children.
"Mom, tell me something about the circus."
Eva handed me the book and leaned against me, waiting to hear the story.
"ah! Hello! Welcome to the colorful circus world! ..... "When I finished, Eva said," Mom, say it again. " "okay. Hi! Hello! Welcome to the colorful circus world! ..... ""Mom, say it again. " "Mom, say it again." "Mom, say it again." ……
I didn't repeat it at last, but I immediately threw a book: "Mom, tell me about" Don't kiss me casually ",the story of blossoming."
I won't stop until I tell you two or three times.
When I didn't speak, the baby shook the book and grabbed my arm with tears: "Mom talks, mom talks, meow, mom talks ..."
Ask other mothers, there is a similar situation. Mother Coffee Bean said, "Let me sing" Pulling Radish ","Bunny "and" Don't be fooled by you "before going to bed every day. I am so angry that I sing over and over again! "
Well, I'm foaming at the mouth, too.
However, is it not good to love stories and be interested in books? How to refuse a little doll who loves to listen to stories?
Mother Potato said, "I look for my baby in the mud every day, and I can't let him sit honestly for a while, let alone listen to stories."
I'm just saying that it's much easier to tell the story several times.
I'm just really thirsty sometimes.
Several times a dozen times, again, several times a dozen times.
Moreover, I opened my eyes in the morning and turned out a story book without pulling the curtain and turning on the light. At noon, she is already sleepy. Let me talk. In the evening, if I don't persuade, I can talk until ten o'clock.
Show her the story I recorded in advance, but if I don't buy it, I like reading books and listening to stories. Although she can't read, she reads carefully and sometimes asks her deliberately, but she can still pick it up!
Sometimes I'm confused. I know the story clearly. For example, when I picked up Don't Eat Disorderly, she knew that the protagonist was pudding, that the pudding was eating something round and white, and that there was a sentence "I want ice cream" in it. But why does she listen with relish every time I tell her, as if it were the first time?
Sometimes when I take her out to play in the elevator, my mouth will mutter, "MengMeng chicken rushes into the elevator happily and jumps inside. Mom says don't jump, it's dangerous." When crossing the road, she muttered, "It's time to cross the road. MengMeng chicken threw off her mother's hand to cross the road. Her mother said there were too many cars and it was dangerous." The exact words of "At stake" are verbatim.
This shows that story books are not told in vain and will be applied to real life, which makes mother very pleased. Combining book knowledge with real life is exactly what I expect. Only sometimes, she says one thing and does another. For example, when she watched me climb the ladder to get something, she climbed up and said, "MengMeng chicken, it's dangerous!" " Fortunately, the ladder in China is only four levels, which is not high.
Ask the teacher in the early education center. The teacher said that her daughter is several months older than my baby, and it is common to tell a story twenty times.
Oh, my God! Which fairy tale is so attractive? Later, I checked the relevant information, and it was true that children around the age of two listened to the same story and read the same book over and over again.
Come to think of it, I seem to have had a similar experience. For example, I always watch movies like The Shawshank Redemption, The Devil's Advocate, Autopsy and Spring in Cowboy Class over and over again, and keep updating them, but I still don't fully understand them.
Then, if the child keeps repeating, is it because he has not fully understood a certain story and still has nutrients to learn? My understanding is that in the process of repetition, children's language, intelligence, thinking ability, security, knowledge of the world and expectation of the unknown can be improved to varying degrees.
For example, Eva's set of parent-child picture books about emotional intelligence and behavior management, 30 volumes, was bought when she 16 months old. In almost half a year, her understanding of that set of books is completely different: look at the cover of each book, know the content of each book, understand the story, accurately name the protagonist, further understand the story, see the same scene after learning, repeat the story, combine the book with reality, and even draw inferences.
My personal experience is that by telling Eva stories, Eva's self-management ability has been greatly improved, and her language ability has also improved rapidly. For example, maybe I told my baby that she would brush three times and five times, but she didn't cooperate, but by telling a story to tell her to brush her teeth, her mouth automatically popped up "Piggy doesn't brush her teeth, it stinks", and she was very happy and actively cooperated; The same is true for eating, and we should abide by it ourselves, and also ask us to "hold the bowl in our left hand and the spoon in our right hand"; From time to time, he pointed to my shoes and said, "Mom's shoes are round and square", and pointed to my stomach and said, "Mom's stomach is round." ...
Children like listening to stories and reading books. What a wonderful thing. Why don't parents talk more? Don't you just drink a few more glasses of water to moisten your throat? The benefits to children are endless. Therefore, be patient, be serious, be happy and enjoy the time with your children.