The child didn't cry on the first day of kindergarten, but turned to comfort his mother, which was enviable.
I once heard that Ma Bao has a pair of children. The age difference between the two children is 3 years. Parents are loving, grandparents are kind and loving, and adults at home are educated with leniency and strictness. Growing up in such a family environment, the two children were cultivated into a good character and good upbringing that everyone praised.
Although my son is more sensible than his peers, when he first went to kindergarten, his parents and grandmother couldn't help worrying that he was afraid of crying separately, and even thought that the whole family would send him to school, but Bao Dad advised the old man that there was no need to make such a fuss, and his parents would just send him.
As expected, the kindergarten on the first day of school was full of crying children. Bao's father and Bao's mother can't help comforting their son in advance. Unexpectedly, his son was calm and didn't cry at all. But to comfort parents not to worry, he will take care of himself. As he said, his son and teacher praised him all day for being particularly smart and sensible, which made people worry.
The daughter is a little princess held by the whole family. I usually like to cry and spoil my family. However, on the first day of kindergarten, she didn't cry like her brother, but took the initiative to hug her red-eyed parents. A pair of children performed very well on the first day of kindergarten, and many parents envied and asked Ma Bao's secret recipe for parenting.
What are the manifestations of children's separation anxiety at school?
(1) Shut yourself off.
A child's anxiety of separation is that he is afraid to communicate with others, so he will lock himself up and not talk to other children or teachers, but just hide in the corner and play by himself.
(2) Cry and make a scene
Children's anxiety about being separated from school is that they are afraid that their parents will abandon them from now on, so they will cry and make a scene to resist or make their parents "change their minds." In short, the louder the noise, the better.
Why do some children never cry when they go to kindergarten? Senior kindergarten teachers: often from these three families.
A senior kindergarten teacher once admitted that children's separation anxiety has a lot to do with their families. Children who never cry in kindergarten are basically from these three families.
(1) A well-educated family
This kind of family has carried out school preparation education for children, that is, training children to obtain enough self-care ability and let them achieve a certain degree of spiritual independence. Children will not be so resistant to admission.
② A family surrounded by love.
This kind of family atmosphere gives children a great sense of security, and it is likely that they will not associate school with their parents abandoning themselves, but treat school with the mentality of making friends and playing games.
3 families with strong trust.
This kind of family makes children trust their parents very much. Parents will naturally prepare their children psychologically in advance and often tell them all kinds of benefits. Children will naturally believe it and accept it without crying or making trouble.
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The first day of school means that children will enter a strange environment. People's instinct for strangeness is fear, and it is understandable that children are sensitive and fragile and act violently. At this time, parents should grasp the time of hugging and letting go.