This probably depends on the family!
However, if we compete for the ability to "create parenting anxiety", early education institutions will definitely be much stronger than other industries.
For example:
"Excuse me, mother XX, how old is your baby now?"
15 months.
"Can the baby say reduplication now?"
"I will say it."
"Is the baby rich in overlapping words?"
"Reduplication is not much to say, but ..."
"15 months, there is not much overlap, which shows that our baby has no outstanding advantage in language compared with other children of the same age. I recommend this course package to you. There are courses specially designed to improve your baby's language ability at this stage. Yes ... "(the word 1000 is omitted here).
"Thank you, we don't talk much about overlapping words, and we don't talk much about non-overlapping words."
"But generally speaking, the standard to measure the baby's language ability at this stage is to see how many overlapping words he has mastered. Our baby doesn't say much about this reduplication, which means that the language environment you usually create for him at home is not enough, and adults need to communicate with him more ... "(1000 words are omitted here).
"Thank you, what you said is reasonable, but our child is too young now, and I want to wait until he is at least two years old before considering taking classes."
"That's late! XX mom, think about it, other people's children ... "(omit 1000 words here)
I ...
I have encountered similar conversations many times.
"then it's too late ... then!"
"By then ... it will be too late!"
"Other people's children are ..."
It seems to be thinking about the children, but after listening to some words, parents are more anxious.
Even if you buy a class package for this reason, you will sell parenting anxiety from time to time, so that you can increase the number of classes and experience their new projects.
It's like if I don't make up my mind to buy classes now, it will delay my son's life.
From the other's point of view, she is also trying her best to think of you: buy today's lottery ticket quickly, or you won't win the grand prize …
Then you bought it and didn't win the lottery.
You can't blame anyone. After all, it's your own bad luck that you didn't win.
[Cover your face]
Tucao returns to tucao.
Later, later, I bought a class bag.
Don't ask why you bought it. It is also idle to ask.
After all, I can't guarantee that every consumption I make is rational.
Anyway, it was an autumn, and my son was in a sensitive stage of walking. I take him shopping every day.
Often walking, there will be some people holding magic sticks, balloons and other small gifts, suddenly stuffed into the hands of children.
When parents react, they can only take out their mobile phones and fill in all kinds of information.
Too many times, there is always a time when the will is loose.
In this way, my son/kloc-started his first early education class when he was 0/6 months old.
I don't know if my son is really talented and smart; Or be a son, born to cheat his parents.
My son did well in the first class.
What's so good about it? I don't remember. Maybe it's really good.
In short, several teachers are praising after class.
After the praise, I scan the code ...
Why do I think about this now, and I have the impression that my son deliberately lied to me at that time?
Because I have been anxious since the second class.
This anxiety lasted about half a year. Then I became numb. I just hope to end all early education early.
As far as I know, the national average price of an early education class is around 200 yuan, and the price fluctuates according to the brand size and class package size.
And a class, generally only 40 minutes.
I have observed that 1 children in their early years can perform well if they are in a state of 20 minutes.
Perhaps, there are 1 classes in this state.
It is also necessary that the child's concentration is particularly good and can't be disturbed by other parents and classmates, and then the classroom atmosphere is very good.
But usually, as soon as one child enters the classroom, he begins to cry, or is in class, and other children suddenly want to find their mother/father (whoever is not present).
If you meet an active child and start walking around the classroom, it will definitely cause a chain reaction.
So it often happens that all the children are playing their own games, leaving only the parents to follow the teacher one by one.
In fact, the interference of other children is nothing, and it is mainly parents who affect the quality and atmosphere of the classroom.
Many families directly entrust their grandmothers or grandmothers to take their children to class after buying early education classes for their children.
To tell you the truth, that's what I planned at first [covering my face]
It's just that I found that all the children were brought to class by grandma or grandma, and this class is basically useless.
This kind of early education class actually requires parents to listen to the teacher's lectures and enliven the atmosphere together, thus attracting babies to immerse themselves in the classroom.
But you can't expect grandmothers with babies to let go of their reserve, dance with teachers and do some actions that only kindergarten children can do.
In particular, teachers are full of English that they don't understand.
Needless to say, in this environment, children can't control and obey instructions.
Another situation is that some parents are too serious.
Not every child can completely keep up with the teacher's rhythm. Children in their early one-year-olds are still unsteady in walking, and their speaking skills have not yet been introduced. Without being fully familiar with the class environment, the reaction speed is naturally slow.
Then parents are anxious and can't help but remind their children loudly. The voice is not high, but it is just for teachers and other parents and children to hear.
Early education teachers can't be as calm as university professors. There are frequent situations in the classroom, and only a handful of parents can always cooperate with the teacher. Even if parents cooperate, boys only look at their mood.
Several times, I was worried about my teacher. I have seen the young male teacher quietly look at his watch several times.
A room full of people, I should be the only parent who thinks that time passes too fast. Often before the little boy enters the state, he has reached the final stage of saying "goodbye".
A class lasts 40 minutes, and it costs 5 yuan a minute. ...
I have seen a saying that it is easiest for the rich and the poor to raise children, and people with some money are the most embarrassed.
This is probably what I said.
(To be continued)
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