Full-time nanny, who doesn't go to work every day and takes care of her children by herself, is often labeled by society. There are too many stories to finish. So are stay-at-home moms really that miserable? Wrong, the treatment in full-time nanny is also graded.
The first kind of full-time nanny: Doing this big business at home, women don't have to consider going to work to earn those hard money after giving birth. When I was pregnant and gave birth to a baby, I hired a nanny at home and went to a high-end month center after giving birth. For them, it will be fine after giving birth to the baby, and there will be no back pain and back pain caused by staying up late to coax the baby. In-laws will give different amounts of rewards to children, whether they are boys or girls.
After the end of the month center, they began to look for high-end postpartum repair centers to restore their bodies to their previous state. It seems that he has never had children. Then go shopping in buy buy. When the children are older, they begin to consider enrolling in various early education classes. They compared the early education classes that can help children to better develop their intellectual and physical coordination skills.
As long as you see it in the community, you will find that this full-time treasure mother occasionally comes out to walk the baby, and does not hold the baby for a long time at all. Once in a while, it's just Doby's baby, and then ask one or two of the same treasure moms to go shopping, and you'll see that children are aunts all day.
The second kind of full-time nanny: get in touch with them more, and you will find that this kind of nanny is the most worrying. Usually, their parents-in-law have jobs, they are not old enough to retire, and their families are working-class. They don't pay thousands of dollars a month to ask a nanny to take care of their baby. Then a woman can only take care of her baby after giving birth.
This kind of treasure mother usually complains that she is tired of taking care of her baby alone. But the face is still sunny and the baby is in a good mood. Eva's clothes are relatively clean and tidy, while bow wow's clothes are mostly casual and comfortable. Usually you can't see it in the community on Saturday and weekend. The whole family will go out to play, or someone else will take care of the baby.
The third full-time nanny: You will find that they are usually grumpy, haggard and depressed. This kind of nanny wears big dark circles, her hair is often pulled casually, and she is not neatly dressed. Speak quickly and loudly, and the baby will be disobedient. If he is naughty, he will yell at the baby. Walking faster, hunched back and thick shoulders, they all look like middle-aged women.
Most of these full-time nannies are parents-in-law, unwilling to help with the children, and the husband makes money at home alone. Moreover, many parents-in-law are in their hometown in the countryside, unable to make money and unwilling to take care of their children. They think it's time to have a rest and don't want to help with their grandchildren.
This family life is very stressful. I take care of the baby alone, and every day I wonder if I can find another part-time job, earn some money to buy a diaper for my baby and buy myself some meat to improve my food.
This kind of treasure mother usually has few smiles on her face. More importantly, you will find that children are not well dressed. They are all old clothes and sometimes they are dirty, but these children look healthier and stronger.
This is the difference between a full-time nanny who I have been looking for in the community for more than a year and a full-time nanny. Although both of them were pregnant in October and experienced labor pains, their living conditions are far from each other.