Ma Bao, you should pay attention.
Especially if Bao dads, after attending the parent-teacher conference, all these States appear.
That's more important.
It is an "excuse" for parents of the opposite sex to make friends in private.
WeChat improves the communication efficiency between people, and WeChat group makes the communication between teachers and parents faster.
Many teachers assign tasks to parents directly on WeChat.
This group is called "parent group".
Originally, this group should be pure, composed of teachers and parents, aiming at children's study and life.
But some parents gradually changed it.
In addition to some wonderful activities, such as parents' excellent display, showing how excellent their children are, or being attentive to teachers, calling for expensive gifts for teachers in groups, and so on.
Some parents with ulterior motives have created new moths.
In particular, some parents of the opposite sex make friends with each other under the pretext of "exchanging parenting experience" and develop an unexpected spirit.
Recently, when cleaning, a treasure mother accidentally turned on Bao Dad's mobile phone, which happened to be the interface for Bao Dad to chat. She is familiar with the two avatars of chatting, but she can't understand why these two avatars communicate privately.
Quickly sliding the phone to check, I found that Bao Dad didn't know when to add a single mother's WeChat to the children's class.
At first, the conversation was normal, and we asked each other about the children.
But the latest information is completely wrong.
These conversations are full of emotional temptations, not like communicating about parenting, but more like communicating feelings.
No wonder Bao Dad has been particularly active among parents recently and started reading some parenting books at home.
She also said that it was wise to let Bao Dad attend the parent-teacher conference this time, and finally let the father of the child begin to have the responsibility of parenting.
I didn't expect that. I didn't expect that. Dad Bao played this game with her.
Then things got serious, and the two families made a mess.
The teacher said in the group: it is irresponsible and selfish for parents to become friends. Please keep the group pure.
It also sounded the alarm for parents.
Parents' deliberate emotional rift will cause children's psychological obstacles.
It is said that parents are the harbor of children.
Literally, we can accurately describe parents as the "comfort zone" for children.
From birth to growth, every step has the participation of parents, and these two people constitute the emotional foundation of children.
For young children, once this foundation is cracked, it is tantamount to experiencing a spiritual earthquake.
What's more, those treasure dads or treasure moms who are actually "making friends" under the guise of "parenting" have personally caused trouble for their children.
Once the spouse finds the clue in the mobile phone, how to settle it?
A family crisis, big waves.
Children are the biggest victims, and they will cause strong psychological barriers.
First, incomplete families cause inferiority and jealousy.
People are pursuing honesty, so is the family. Once parents have emotional problems, children are very worried about family breakdown. Therefore, they will envy their parents' loving and affectionate families, which will lead to inferiority complex.
Second, it is easy to form a likable personality.
Parents don't live up to expectations, and children don't quite understand the family problems brought about by "making friends". But they will think that as long as they work hard, they can save the integrity of their families, please everyone constantly, and behave like a good baby, but only they know the scars in their hearts.
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For children, parents are heaven and earth, and their hearts are so big.
The teacher said that to keep parents pure, parents should not be allowed to "make friends" in private. Once something happens, the child will suffer.
Please love the people around you and cherish the happy life you have.
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