2. Pay attention to being yourself;

3. Stick to your principles;

4. Cultivate personal hobbies;

5. Participate in public activities;

6. Try to participate in communication.

Hello, landlord. From your description, personal analysis suggestions are as follows:

1, everyone will compare, but not everyone will feel inferior. Especially children, they will compare what toys I have, what good things I have at home and so on. If the child's personality is normal, this contrast is positive for the child. On the contrary, children will feel inferior.

2. The establishment of personality is directly related to children's growing environment and their direct caregivers, so parents are also requested to pay more attention, have time to learn some psychological knowledge, and try to provide a supportive environment for children.

3, suggestion: 1, if the child is depressed, parents should actively communicate, find problems, and then actively guide to help him establish a correct direction of values. 2. Encourage children in daily life. If the child can't do it, he should help him finish it, not criticize it.

Hello!

As for solving the problem of inferiority, there is a saying that it is not necessary to highlight in every direction. You can cultivate his hobby, a hobby he likes to study. When he has something he knows and knows he can do well, he won't feel inferior.

At the same time, inferiority is accompanied by isolation, and it is difficult for him to integrate into other people's circles. It doesn't matter if it is simple inferiority, but if it is isolated, it is very unfavorable to life and growth. You should observe the children's situation at school. If he is found isolated, it is more urgent to let him find a way to integrate into other people's circles.

Whether you want to integrate into other people's circles or solve the problem of inferiority, you must always have a skill. When you have a label on your body, you will naturally make friends and feel proud.

For example, it is a good choice for children to learn music, street dance and taekwondo.

I'm glad to answer your question.

In adolescence, children will have more or less the heart of comparison and inferiority complex, but this has affected their lives, which is a mental illness. I often say that mental illness is not formed at once, but accumulated by chronic diseases for many years.

In adolescence, children feel inferior because of mental illness caused by comparing with each other, that is, they feel inferior not because of comparing with each other, but because of comparing with each other. It's about to be shown.

In adolescence, children have a sense of inferiority, starting from his early education. In China, we generally ignore early education, which is not only to teach children knowledge, but also to cultivate children's healthy minds. The psychological development of early education includes emotional development, cognition, temperance, personality and thinking. Wait until it looks like this. Children's temperance is not cultivated by early education. This restraint is of course related to the education of family parents.

In infancy, children have little desires, such as a toy, a fruit and so on. And he can satisfy himself by eating. But as he grew older, his desires increased. Parents blindly only satisfy their children's desires and seem to be considerate of their children. In fact, they have hurt their children. They have not cultivated their own temperance since childhood. Once they reach puberty, they will be unsatisfied with their desires because of comparison, thus forming a mental illness.

In the process of educating children, in early education, I often make an analogy with children. Because he is a boy, he especially likes cars. His father bought him many toy cars, including electric, fuel, remote control and various small toy cars. Among them, his favorite car is the remote-controlled Ferrari sports car.

Then, I will tell my children, no matter how good the car is, can it still drive without brakes? My children told me not to have an accident.

Like this, we all need such a brake in our hearts. You can't want everything, you must get everything. Besides, you are not relying on your own ability to support yourself now. What you eat and use is given to you by your parents, so you should accept it with gratitude. It's not what you want. You have to buy it for you. Of course, if you lack something necessary in life, we will buy it for you. This idea is really helpful to my children. When he was in adolescence, first of all, he didn't have the idea of comparing with others and didn't know what a famous brand was, so his heart was not drawn by these things. So, it helped my children through adolescence.

All parents love their children very much. Even if they scrimp and save, they should give their children the best and spoil them blindly. Your child will be selfish when he grows up, and will also form a series of psychological problems such as wrong cognition and inferiority. Don't blindly think that this is a child's problem. It has something to do with family education. I hope this mother will reflect more and educate her children to have a good cognition from now on. Rebuild his confidence.

Since the shortcomings in life are inevitable, it is very important to treat them with what kind of mentality. Different mentality may bring completely different quality of life.

I hope the short story in The Analects written below can help you and your children.

There is a fable that there is a very poor girl in a small town. On the Christmas day when she was eighteen, her mother gave her twenty dollars for the first time and asked her to use the money to buy herself a Christmas present.

Along the way, she saw that everyone's life was better than her own. She regretted that I was the humblest girl in this town. Seeing her favorite young man, she thought sourly, who will be his partner at the grand dance tonight?

So she mumbled all the way to the store to avoid the crowd. As soon as she entered the door, she felt her eyes pricked. She saw a set of particularly beautiful satin headdresses and hair ornaments on the counter. When she stood there in a daze, the salesman said to her, little girl, your flaxen hair is really beautiful! If it is paired with a light green headdress, it must look good.

When she saw the price tag saying 16 dollars, she said I couldn't afford it, so I stopped trying. But by this time, the salesman had put the headdress on her head. The shop assistant picked up the mirror and showed it to herself. When the girl saw herself in the mirror, she was suddenly shocked. She had never seen herself like this before. She thinks this headdress makes her glow like an angel!

She took out her money without hesitation and bought the headdress flower. Her heart was so intoxicated and excited that she turned and ran out with the four dollars that the salesman had changed, only to bump into an old gentleman who had just entered the door. She seemed to hear the old man calling her, but she forgot, running all the way.

She unconsciously ran to the middle of the town. She heard people saying that she didn't expect such a beautiful girl in this town. She met a boy who had a crush on her again. The boy stopped her and said, I wonder if you can be my partner tonight?

This girl is ecstatic! She thought I was extravagant once and used the remaining four dollars to go back and buy something for myself. So she walked all the way back to the store.

As soon as she entered the door, the old man smiled and said to her, son, I knew you would come back. When you hit me just now, this headdress also fell off. I've been waiting for you to get it. Is it really the headdress flower that makes up for the deficiency in this girl's life? In fact, what makes up for the deficiency is her confident return. And where does a person's confidence come from? It comes from inner peace and calmness.

It is an inevitable social phenomenon that people will compare with each other. Comparing failures may lead to frustration, which is a normal psychological reaction. However, if children frequently cause "comparison" and feel "inferiority", parents may think from the following aspects:

1, whether the source of thinking mode that children are willing to compare is that adults often compare;

2. Children are prone to "inferiority complex". Is it that in the process of raising children, there are more successful models and children's self-confidence is insufficient?

3. How do children understand this "inferiority complex"?

More importantly:

1, whether the communication between parents and children is smooth, that is, whether the children can talk to their parents;

2, the child's age, whether to enter adolescence, etc. Need attention;

3. Is "inferiority complex" the norm or a certain stage?

4. "Inferiority" is everything, or a certain category, such as performance, or wearing, and so on;

5. Is "inferiority complex" common, or is it only for a certain classmate or a certain class?

In short, the above are just a few points that can be considered. We need to be modest and cautious about children's problems, analyze specific problems and find out the reasons for personalization.

I hope it helps you.

Inferiority is a manifestation of low self-evaluation. The younger the child, the more his self-evaluation comes from the outside. So first of all, families should really appreciate their children. Sincere appreciation is not to praise the child blindly, but to recognize his value and his efforts. Praise is also a science. For example, if a child helps with housework, parents don't have to say "that's very kind of you, that's great", but they can tell him "Thanks to your help, otherwise it can't be finished so soon." Comparing these two kinds of praise, the former is evaluating the child's value, while the latter is affirming his efforts.

It is normal for children to compete with others. If we want to solve this problem, we don't mean to correct them from competing with others. This is inevitable. From small to large, the most direct competition is to compete for the first place, whether to study well or not, whether to win the prize or not, and the rankings obtained in the class are mostly among parents. You want your child to be the first in the exam and then compare with others, and the child will know. It turns out that I study better than others, so as a child, having money has become a comparison between children and parents. Have such a problem, need counseling. How to make him understand that he can't compare with this? Although it is good to have money, what should my mother do if she has no money? But my mother loves you more than anyone else. I can buy him a lot of things, but my mother decided to leave the money and take you to see the world. Use this money to give you the best love. In fact, this is to let her know what is more important than money. She will tell others that although my things are not as expensive as yours, my mother loves me and is willing to give me delicious food ... It is not terrible to compare with others. The terrible thing is that children show that values are more problematic than money, so they should be persuaded in time, better than kindness, better than heart, and better than their own connotation. These are things that money cannot buy.

As an adult, we must treat these problems rationally. It is normal and natural for children to compare themselves. I think it is recommended that schools instill more awareness of "differences" in their usual education. It is necessary to tell students that the gap between the rich and the poor is the reality of the current society, and poverty and affluence themselves will not determine the level of people. Respect for social differences and diversity, and respect for every individual living in this world of differences and diversity should be the focus of current youth values education.

It is very important for parents to give their children confidence and correct guidance.