Mothers should grasp this well, and then make use of their children's personality characteristics to make arrangements for regular life and prepare for kindergarten admission. Here are my suggestions.
1. Summarize fixed events such as sleeping and going out, and estimate the approximate time. For example, count the things that children must do every day, such as sleeping, washing, eating and going out. Usually these four things are essential.
Principle: Regularity, as fixed as possible.
Method:
Record-Statistics-Adjustment
Children aged two and a half sleep at least 1 1 hour every day, including taking naps. Mothers can evaluate their children's sleep and let them go to bed early or get up early to make adjustments.
When children go out to play, they leave the closed space, go to the community, go to the park and so on. It is said that if children are not nearsighted, they have to go out for 2 hours every day. We usually go out twice, once in the morning and once after dinner.
Children can learn to eat by themselves when they are two and a half years old. Mom estimates the time by combining breastfeeding and eating by herself, so that three meals a day will probably estimate a time. Guess what, 1-2 hours.
As for the washing time, I estimate that it should take half an hour to get up in the morning, go out and get dressed. My mother can get the children's clothes and toiletries ready the night before yesterday, so there is no need to worry in two days. Take a bath for about 30 minutes at night.
Total time: 15- 16 hours.
2. Participate in early education activities and plan the time. Picture books, handicrafts, sports, English learning, etc. The kind that mothers want their children to learn, they can intermittently insert fixed events, and then form a habit, giving children a hint about what to do first when they get up, what to do later, and what to do first after meals. ...
Take your own home as an example:
After getting up and washing at around 8 o'clock, read the picture book first.
Mother will accompany her when she is free, and the children will watch it by themselves when they are not free. You can buy some educational toys related to picture books, such as stickers, to exercise his understanding of picture books and his hand-eye coordination ability.
At this time, mom takes the time to wash or eat breakfast.
Then, half an hour passed.
At 8:30, the children drink milk by themselves, and when the mother is busy with other things, she takes care of chatting.
At about 8: 50, breast-feeding began.
Steamed eggs to eat, boiled eggs need to be broken and fed, and then fed porridge.
Eat, wash and get dressed around 9: 30.
Children play with toys by themselves.
Mother washes the pots and dishes and throws the clothes into the washing machine.
/kloc-Go out at 0/0: 00 and let the children pack their toys by themselves.
From Monday to Friday, the children decide where to go by themselves, just follow them and pay attention to safety.
Usually this time will be played until 1 1: 30 to 12: 00.
He will choose the sports ground in the community, the crosswalk outside the community, the park and the game machine next to the shop. At this time, his mother should consciously guide him to go to the park to find children to play, and then come back to play 1-2 games, even without playing games.
11:30-12: 30 to go home and cook.
Take off your shoes, change your shoes, wash your hands and put your toys in the door.
Cut fruit. Just when the child can eat with a fork, the mother can cook.
After eating fruit, their children will fiddle with their bookcases and sometimes turn them upside down. They will take down all the books, flip through them and play with building blocks or other toys for a while.
Sometimes when a child is sticky, he will be asked to take down the mini toys in the kitchen, move a small bench and table at the door of the kitchen and cook with his mother.
12:30- 13:00? have a meal
Sometimes it will be fed until around 2 o'clock, but it is usually not too frequent.
13:30 Xiaoshi, play with the children for a while.
Sometimes let children watch TV, listen to children's songs or learn English, all in the form of animation.
14: 00- 17: 00 began to sleep. It takes about 3 hours from waking up to waking up.
Wash and prepare dinner during the period.
17:00 for dinner.
/kloc-Go out for a while at 0/9: 30.
Come back at 20:30 to wash up and get ready for bed.
2 1:00 parent-child reading and other quiet activities, sleep. Paper-cutting, jigsaw puzzles, Lego bricks and so on can be done.
Fall asleep at 22-23:00.
Adjustment-according to the season and future life, the kindergarten is about to start school. It is very important to learn to dress and go to the toilet, go to bed early and get up early, and take a nap.
My baby just takes a nap too late, which affects the evening time.
1. Start the early wake-up plan in the morning. Go ahead from 8:20 and get up every day 10 minutes.
2. Get up early today and tell the children what the general arrangement is?
3. I went out to play 30 minutes earlier in the morning, from 10 to 9 o'clock, and came back a little early; At the same time, increase children's physical activities such as big sports.
4./kloc-Finish lunch before 0/2: 00.
Go to bed before 5. 13:00.
6./kloc-Finish your meal before 0/8: 00.
Increase mental and physical interaction before 7.20: 00.
If you go out, ride a bike or jump, etc. If you are at home, you will increase your mind games.
8, 2 1:00 parent-child reading 10 minutes, turn off the lights and tell stories.
Tell yourself that you don't have to be a good mother all the time. Your child had better ask your family for help. Usually two and a half-year-old babies begin to have social tendencies and prefer to play with other children. In the evening, he can take his children to other children's homes and find him some regular playmates. I began to like exploration and novelty. Father's natural character strengths will give children more courage and surprise. Give it to dad.