Later, it was discovered that parents were anxious and their children were unhappy. Especially in English, because I read English picture books, because I don't read the designated picture books, my father tore up books, and there are war at home every day.
Later, I studied positive discipline and many psychological books. The way to help children now is no longer the strong oppression before. It is a silent guide to moistening things.
First of all, I asked her to participate in making a study plan. Let her feel: this is my own order, I can lead. So you won't be disgusted with the plan from the beginning.
In addition, in life, I pay more attention to cultivating children's independence. For example, dress yourself, eat yourself, brush your teeth yourself, and now slowly let him take a bath by himself.
Secondly, I will accompany her for three weeks and carry out the plan together. According to some surveys, it takes 2 1 day and 2 1 day to cultivate a habit. This kind of companionship can't make children feel compelled, but make them feel that their mother is studying with me. In terms of children's learning, let him form the habit of learning. My child hasn't gone to primary school yet, but I will let him do some homework, math, Chinese or English every day when I go home. But this is not mandatory. Generally speaking, it is based on his own interests. I found that some mobile apps are still worth using, which can make children interested in learning.
It is very important: let the children have a sense of accomplishment after the plan is completed. Break down the plan into small, phased tasks, and encourage her once in a ceremony every time she completes a phased task. You can take her to eat delicious food, or go to the playground.
Finally, plans can never keep up with changes. If children's interests, environment, etc. have changed, they should be adjusted in time.