Parents are "important people" in children's growth period, which has a great influence on their physical and mental development. A large number of studies show that children with high-quality parent-child relationship have higher academic performance, stronger social skills and fewer problem behaviors.
1、 ? Sensitive period can not be separated from the company of parents.
Children with parents have happier childhood; You will learn more knowledge and improve faster.
Ability to do things; Children who grow up around their parents tend to have higher emotional intelligence, better skills, stronger sense of right and wrong, and stronger sense of security and happiness.
2、 ? With children, parents cannot be absent.
Some experts pointed out that with parents, children will establish a positive family outlook. Parents spend time.
Sometimes I read books, play games, listen to music, watch football games and accompany my children to school. It's good for children to know his little friends. These parent-child interactions also have a positive impact on children's adolescent growth, which can reduce children's potential dangerous behaviors. Conversely, the happy growth of children and harmonious family relations will also enhance the feelings between husband and wife.
? Old people, nannies and custodians cannot replace the communication between parents and children, and neither can early education institutions.
3、 ? Companionship is not a physical concept.
It is not enough to share a room with children, but also to communicate with them.
The so-called high-quality family time is to spend meaningful time with children and be with them.
Children have in-depth communication, such as playing games with children, talking about interesting things happening in school and life, and talking about his favorite friends and teachers. Instead of just sitting beside them, watching TV silently, or playing Ipad separately, people and children are together, but their hearts are completely immersed in their own world.
Recommend parent-child movies:
Hugo, Happy Feet, Ice Age, Peter Pan, Toy Story and The Wizard of Oz
Parents recommend reading materials:
Chi Li, I love you enough.
Recommended children's books:
Charlotte's net (novel), dad, why do you love me (picture book)
Meitu:
At some point, I really want to stop going to school. I will sit on a park bench with Zhezhe, watching nature and reading story books until the sun goes down and go home together. I even imagined how wonderful it would be to ride to school side by side with him and cross the park together when he was in grade four or five.
Zhezhe's little hand stretched out to the horizon: "Dad, look, how beautiful the horizon is." Sure enough, at the moment when the sun just went down, there were red clouds and sunshine everywhere, birds swept by, the breeze was blowing gently, and there were few pedestrians on the avenue, which had the charm of Ma Zhiyuan's "Qiu Si on a clear day". So, stop the car and watch the sunset with him. The sunset is really beautiful.