Many young parents have to take care of their family and career, and often can't balance the time between them, so they will leave their children to the elders at home to take care of them. However, elders generally love children and don't want children to suffer, which will make it easier to meet many needs of children. Over time, they will spoil bad children.
Spoiling is not love, but a deformed way of family education. To correct it in time, you can communicate with the elderly at home in the following two ways:
(1) Don't directly tell the old man about the child's shortcomings and criticize him;
The starting point for the elderly to dote on their children is to hope that children can get more care and love, so that children can feel more warmth from their families. Therefore, if you want the old people to accept your advice, you must first affirm their dedication and love for their children.
Next, you can complain or tell stories to make the old people realize what shortcomings children have because of overindulgence, and what impact these shortcomings will have on their growth. In this case, the elderly will also pay attention to this problem, which is more convenient to solve.
(2) Euphemistically give the elderly some advice on educating their children, and let them know how to educate their children:
In fact, many times, when the elderly dote on their children, they don't know that this level of care has reached the level of doting. After making the elderly realize the seriousness of the problem, gently give some suggestions, so that they will accept your suggestions more easily and make some adjustments to their children's education methods.
In any case, the old man has worked hard for half his life, and the parents of children should learn to be considerate of the old man and communicate with him patiently in correcting the matter of doting on their children.