1, "Shang" is extraordinary and ostentatious. On the one hand, China people want to save face, on the other hand, they want to encourage their children to be diligent. I often say, look at how hard their children work, how good their exam results are, and what prizes they have won. This is the most resolutely put an end to. What's more, I often say it in front of many people. To put it mildly, the child didn't do well in the exam, just because you inherited it badly. Every time I compare my child with others, it only brings him more dissatisfaction and pain, which doesn't help anything.

2. Ignoring the child's privacy protection and dominance, parents need to knock on the door before entering the child's home, and they need his permission to move or use the child's belongings. All decisions involving children should be discussed with them first. We should attach importance to the child's complete control and treat him as an adult. This concern gradually changed with the birth of urine pad. Before changing diapers, kindly tell him that it's time to change diapers for the baby, apologize to him and ask him to bear with it. The spiritual essence of this concern is what people lack in social development, which leads to the lack of service items and awareness of concern in social development. People who are not valued will not know how to respect others in the future.

3. Let the children take the road paved by their parents. Many parents put their life's shortcomings on their children. Always force children to take the road they think is reasonable. Even if the child is not suitable or doesn't like it very much, such as learning the piano, such as studying abroad. Under this kind of burden, the family is increasingly unhappy, and the happy years of parents and children have become a struggle. Give up the harmonious relationship between parents and children and let children pursue perfection. Some parents idealize for no reason, which may not be appropriate. When children grow up, recalling their childhood is not an unforgettable memory, but what some unsuccessful parents did.

4. blindly follow the trend and strive for exam results. Many parents think that college grades mean everything. The overall goal is clear, and the rest of parents' work is to beg for help with all threats and inducements to achieve this goal. This outdated consciousness left over from the imperial examination period still exists deeply in my heart. In fact, the filing of colleges and universities does not mean everything. On the contrary, all-round working ability (charm, perseverance, temperament, etc. ) is the main factor that harms their lives.

5. Getting up in the morning is physically and mentally healthy, and falling asleep is the quality of sleep that children must have in the development of laziness. At present, group crimes spread all over the country, taking away children's sleep time and destroying the physical and mental health of the Chinese nation. Many children wake up at 6 o'clock and don't get enough sleep for 8 hours a day. The wrong idea that getting up in the morning is the only way to be physically and mentally healthy is still being marketed and publicized all over the country. Lack of sleep will harm growth and development. The brain will shrink. Everyone's children should have enough sleep quality.

6, love is the best excuse for men and women, love is not an excuse to run amok. Maybe it's because there are too many TV plays. Many people think that love can be an excuse for everything. Many parents always say to their children: everyone did it because of love. Nice to meet you! It's ridiculous to stop the children's argument if you want to say this. Unscientific rules are unscientific.