How to cultivate children's social skills and set an example for children?
Parents who remember other people's birthdays, arrange friends' parties, and tell their children how to establish friendship with friends with their own words and deeds. Children will learn a lot from the interaction between parents and friends. In many families, listening to others' opinions and caring for others is a family motto passed down from generation to generation. In addition, praise children for their positive communication. Praise is like sunshine. In the face of children's positive communication behavior, we should praise them loudly without hesitation. Only in this way can children understand what behavior is right and what behavior is good, and continue to consolidate and continue.
Respect the differences between children
Children have different social needs. Not every child needs many friends around, and the number of friends is not equal to the quality of friends. For some children, it is enough to have one or two good friends around.
Give children enough choices.
Children need the guidance of adults, but they also need to decide some things by themselves, such as clothes and hairstyles. As long as it's not out of line, it's best for them to decide for themselves. Another example is choosing friends. Although both parents agree to let their children make more friends, they don't want their children to make bad friends. In fact, unless the child is in danger, it is best to let the child distinguish who is his friend and who is not.
Let children have more contact with friends.
Only when children are often with friends can friendship be enhanced. Therefore, parents should match their children's dating activities.
Cultivate children's extensive interests and enhance their self-confidence
If you can't swim, you won't be invited to swim; If you can't dance, you won't be invited to the dance. When a child is good at something, he has self-confidence and provides him with opportunities to make new friends. If your child doesn't have many friends, cultivate his broad interests. So that he can establish friendship with his playmates when he takes part in activities.