A mother found that her son had changed recently and began to collect change, ask for a math problem and help with things, just because she took her child to the vegetable market on a whim. Teach children to communicate with vendors themselves, and later learn to use their brains and do some simple accounts.
The vegetable market is like a "small river and lake". As long as parents have the heart, they can teach their children cognitive ability, social ability, artistic perception and interest in mathematics here.
However, cultivating children's growth rivers and lakes is by no means limited to the vegetable market!
Children's growth is unconscious, which further fuels parents' anxiety. Children's unconscious growth is the goal of parents' education KPI planning. Time, nodes, efficiency, benchmarking ...
Even those educational methods that are only effective for individual children attract many imitators.
Educational resources are scarce, lack of socialization, busy work and lack of companionship. Just as parents are worried about these educational problems, the country has gradually popularized the 12 compulsory education reform system this year. What does this mean for parents?
In the long run, it must be good. The distance between "vegetable school" and "cattle school" has narrowed, and it is no longer necessary to race against time to educate children. Cultural achievement is no longer the only indicator that determines a child's life. What really affects children's future achievements is quality education, such as personal charm, social ability, mobility and creativity. These irregular abilities are not brought by the qualitative textbooks of cram schools.
Just like the previous "vegetable market education", the essence of quality education is to exert a subtle influence on children's personality, behavior and cognition through the environment.
From the vegetable market to the eye of the sky,
Children can "go to heaven and go to earth" like this
"Small shells also contain unlimited imagination and creative space."
-Hawking
Therefore, not only the vegetable market, but also many places and activities can stimulate children's various potentials.
For children, a flower and a tree are the world, and every brick and tile is dry.
Now there are many early education and game institutions to let children experience their future careers, such as doctors and teachers, so that children can experience the hardships of each profession and the responsibilities and responsibilities of each profession in the game.
Children from a community in Rongchuang, Guizhou participated in a journey to explore the sky during the summer vacation. Children have become future professionals, and "farmers" have finished farming for the first time in their lives. In the experience, they can let children know how to cherish food. The "designers" created "independent design decoration" with brushes and tie-dyeing techniques, and the "gourmet" beef burger was delicious and attractive. When you think they can't do it, they give everyone a lot of surprises.
In addition, it is also a good choice to take children to participate in offline activities such as the Expo. This type of activity is not only conducive to cultivating children's ability to communicate with others and practice, but also the most important thing is to let children who are used to taking things understand the significance and happiness of active dedication.
During the summer vacation, the water park is also a good place to raise children. Don't just play, learn to be brave, strong and teamwork in play. Feeling in play is a life lesson that children can't experience in cram school.
Usually, it may be mom and dad's world. Here, it was Mengwa who started an interesting water adventure with her parents. If you are a shy child, faced with so many novel challenges that you have never seen before, you can't help but join the game happily.
In addition to professional experience, water parks, love fairs and other activities, parents can also take their children to see children's musicals, broaden their baby's world vision and discover their interest and talent in art.
Children who are impatient should take part in more static activities. For example, when practicing calligraphy, as the saying goes, "Words are born from the heart", while practicing calligraphy, you can feel the profoundness of China culture and cultivate children's patience.
Active babies can also take them to football summer camps, rock climbing and so on. And further tap their competitive spirit.
Children's growth is as unpredictable as parents' aging-maybe after a summer vacation or an activity, you will find that children grow up in an instant.
As a parent, in the face of children's growth, you should not chase after them desperately, nor encourage them to pull out seedlings to encourage them, give them a growing soil, find a group of growing companions, and choose a paradise suitable for growth.
Parents who want to explore the "lilliputian country" can only protect their children's courage, desire, kindness and consciousness.
Parents' sense of existence,
Depends on the child's sense of participation in growing up.
When one day, parents are just children's "meal tickets", "cash machines" and "washing machines" ..., parents' sense of existence cannot be "brushed" back with no amount of money.
The only way to participate in children's growth is to grow up with children. A good environment can not only stimulate children's unlimited potential, but also allow more parents to participate in children's childhood stories.
After 90, novice parents have also become the main force of the times, and it is easier to be at a loss if they have insufficient parenting experience. For example, they don't know how to accompany their children, where to find opportunities to accompany their children to grow up, how to understand their behaviors and emotions, and where to find their advantages. ...
The focus of the family is the children, but the focus is always the parents. Even if children receive high-quality educational resources, they will not grow up healthily without the careful companionship and guidance of their parents. It is better to create a parent-child interaction environment as much as possible.
If the venue permits, parents can regain their childhood "specialties", wave their arms synchronously with their children, play "table tennis contest" and "badminton contest" and so on. You can also do outdoor sports such as parent-child basketball, parent-child football, parent-child running and mountaineering. Parents not only harvested sweat, but also harvested a little girl/brother, which is an idol-like existence in children's childhood.
Play a basketball game with children and experience "father and son are fighting";
Take children to visit an exhibition, so that children's aesthetics are "online" from an early age;
Play two games on the court, so that children can see the role model on the court;
Turn around the fitness track in the community twice and tell the children that the road of life is the same-there is a "bright future" and a "sunny corner"
Remember when you sat in the corner open-air cinema with a small bench? Maybe the street corner in my memory has changed now. If your community has also planned activities similar to Sunac Five-Star Theater, please bring your baby to participate. Maybe you and your child's childhood, separated by time and the Milky Way, can also face each other on this screen!
Parents and children have a kind of growth,
It's called "spoil you without consultation"
In the process of efficient parenting, choosing the right school only makes children stand on the runway, and the soft power brought by the living community environment is the basis of educational long-distance running. A good living environment can create many interesting interactions in your childhood with your children. From community activities to community support, Sunac's park is committed to letting parents put aside their work and giving parents an opportunity to accompany their children efficiently.
For example, on the hiking trail of Versailles Garden in Rongchuang, Chongqing, parents and children enjoy the pleasant parent-child time while feeling the flowers; There is also the European Sports Park in Chongqing Sunac European Garden City. The "virtual coach" equipped for runners in the whole park sets up a running distance and direction sign every 200 meters, which not only can make parents who love sports and fitness keep fit, but also seems to be a good place to cultivate their children's competitive spirit and perseverance. And continental football club. Dad who loves the ball can customize the green plan for his baby from an early age. How he plays depends on his level.
Education is a long-distance race. After the implementation of compulsory education reform, school choice is no longer the focus. Entering the former "cow school" does not mean that you are a few steps ahead of the children in the former "vegetable school". These steps are not enough to determine the success or failure of educational long-distance running. What really determines success or failure is parents' attitude towards this long-distance running.
Every child is a unique star. What parents need to do is not to urge their children to run faster, but to help them choose the runway that suits them in a suitable environment, constantly discover, help correct, accompany him through failure, experience the joy of victory, and guide him correctly with companionship.
When you can't help but sigh "other people's children", you should look at what kind of growth environment his parents have created for him. It turns out that "other people's children" are trained in this way.