At this time, the baby's mood is very calm and stable, and he will cry occasionally. The reason may be that he is not satisfied physically, such as sleepy, hungry or unwell, so the comprehensive care of parents is the most important thing to make the baby feel safe and comfortable. Establish a normal routine, and the baby's mood will not fluctuate too much.
Avoid fear
But pay attention to one thing, that is, to avoid the baby from being scared, such as shouting or sudden loud noise around him, which will make him feel helpless, afraid of what he doesn't understand and produce fear.
Overcome fear
If the baby is in fear, parents can make contact with the baby's body through touching and hugging, so that the baby can feel the attention and love of others and gradually calm down. In addition, babies in this period also have the desire to explore unfamiliar surroundings. Don't take him out, know what's going on outside, and don't protect him too much and delay his study progress.
One to two years old
Babies in this period, no matter how you persuade them, are easy to cry and lose their temper. The best way to calm his crying is to ignore it.
diversion
The best way for a baby to threaten you with crying is to distract him. For example, if you put a toddler on his high stool at dinner, he may lie there, waving his hands and screaming. At this point, you'd better let him down first and distract him with some interesting things. Coax him to forget that he doesn't want to sit in a chair for lunch. Later, when you put him in the high chair again, he is likely to cooperate.
No matter how difficult the discipline problem is, you can find that the most effective trick is to distract the baby. When babies are young, their attention often doesn't last long, which is why when they see interesting things, they immediately cry and laugh.
Free performance
However, when teaching babies of this age, you must pay attention to one thing, that is, don't expect him to do anything to please you. For example, most babies like outdoor activities. He likes to run and jump freely to learn new and interesting things. At this time, parents should be patient and don't rush him. If you have to interrupt him, walk around in front of him or try to attract his attention, he will come to you soon. However, the baby is likely to resist the touch or cuddle of his parents and is unwilling to accept their control. It's best to relax and then tighten when disciplining a baby.
To sum up, it is not easy to discipline a baby of this age.
One of the best ways to discipline is to allow (but not comment on) the baby's normal emotional venting, which will bring great support and comfort to the baby, such as sucking his thumb or nipple, taking his beloved blanket with him and giving him a kind of spiritual comfort.
Two to three years old
When the baby is about two years old, he doesn't need so many discipline skills. However, when they were two and a half years old, they entered a dark period of upbringing, which made their parents break their brains. Surprisingly, however, babies of this age are very similar, and simple discipline skills can make them obedient.
Coping with tricks:
1, parents should be good at using their baby's habits. Plan a good schedule for him. For example, if we can cultivate good bedtime habits for a two-and-a-half-year-old baby, we can solve the problem of telling him to go to bed every day.
Such habits also include helping him undress, taking a bath, wearing pajamas, brushing his teeth, swinging at the door, taking him into the bathroom, going to bed, telling him stories, hugging and kissing good night before going to bed, and finally turning off the lights for him; These things will take up a lot of your time, especially when you are tired. But once they become routine, you may put your baby to bed instead of perfunctory or forcing him to go to bed.
Two-year-old baby likes to stay the same, he likes to do the same thing over and over again, and any change is hard for him to accept; So let him put his toys or personal belongings in the original place as much as possible, and put the furniture where he wants. A child of this age requires that everything should be put in the right place at the right time, and he also requires a certain order in his daily life. In a word, he likes to keep everything the same.
2. When ordering food for your child, try to save face for him. Don't force him; For example, you should avoid saying "You must pick up all the toys before lunch", but suggest "Now let's pick up these toys together". If he doesn't want to, you don't have to force him to agree. The best way is to change the subject or leave the scene and try to avoid coercion. When he doesn't want to, and you insist that he obey orders, the last loser will often be you. In such an argument, you might as well distract him.
For example, if a baby doesn't like to dress, you should avoid a fierce conflict with him whether he wants you to dress him or not. Maybe you can put him in a high place and help him get dressed quickly, while talking about what will happen in the future.
A two-and-a-half-year-old baby is easily distracted. Just talk to him. Talking to a one-and-a-half-year-old baby at ordinary times may confuse him. But chatting with a two-and-a-half-year-old baby, even if he doesn't fully understand it, can attract his attention, at least to divert his attention from the previous dispute.