Touch is what everyone needs, and adults also need to shake hands and hug, which is more necessary for infants. It can not only develop children's tactile ability, promote their growth, but also convey their parents' love, so that children can have a good emotional experience and cultivate a healthy mentality. It is an excellent means of parent-child communication. Touching should be done when the child is awake. Parents must wash their hands and take off rings, bracelets, watches and other accessories to avoid scratching their children. Gently touch, not too long, five or six times a day, three or four minutes each time. )
Second, the wonderful voice makes the baby smarter.
Everyone wants their children to be quick-thinking and articulate, and to train and cultivate their good listening skills as soon as possible, which is very beneficial to the development of their language level and the improvement of their intelligence. Normal infants are born with hearing ability, and listening to the source of speech is the main training method. Talking softly and kindly to children repeatedly can store a lot of language information in the baby's mind. Children especially like fast-paced, short and cheerful children's songs. You can read them to him more. However, it should be noted that the listening training time should not be too long and the volume should not be too large.
Third, enjoy the world, the baby is well informed.
Newborn babies have poor eyesight and can only see things at close range. With the increase of months, you can see things five or six meters away in three months and things far away in six months. Therefore, visual training should be gradual, children are more sensitive to bright colors (especially red), and colorful items can best stimulate the baby's interest.
Fourth, the sports baby is healthy.
Exercise not only makes children healthy and strong, but also contributes to the all-round development of children's various sensory abilities, cultivates his good sense of direction and balance, and makes children smart and lively. However, when doing exercise, it is necessary to combine the child's own physique, the amount of exercise, intensity and difficulty should be moderate, and the child should not be overtired.
Fifth, the baby loves to imitate and has made great progress.
Infants and young children have amazing learning ability and strong thirst for knowledge, and are "greedy" like sponges. Parents should help their babies know things around them purposefully and in a planned way. It is necessary to observe carefully, discover children's needs and interests in time, and teach patiently and tirelessly. Never be blunt and impatient, and dampen children's enthusiasm. More importantly, we should pay attention to "teaching by example" and create a warm atmosphere and cultivate a happy mood for our children with cordial attitude, considerate care, patient repetition and constant encouragement. In this way, children will form a healthy attitude, enthusiastic and confident personality and optimistic quality, so that children can benefit for life. Lead: Family education is very important for children's growth, and parents should take it as the top priority. So what do parents need to pay attention to and understand when educating their children? Let's look at the 20 "golden rules" of parents.
One: Parents must remember that in family education, emotional education is always greater than rational education.
Two: preschool education should pay more attention to the development of children's good habits.
Three: it is always more important to cultivate what kind of person a child will become in the future than what kind of achievements a child has now.
Four: Good habits are the capital stored by children, which will continue to increase in value, and people will enjoy its interest all their lives.
Five: a behavior repeatedly forms habits, habits repeatedly form quality, and quality changes fate.
Only when parents and teachers form good educational habits can your children or students form good habits.
Seven: The education of children should not only focus on intelligence and scores, because it is often not the knowledge level that determines the success or failure of life or happiness or pain, but the health level of personality, and behavior habits are just one of the key factors that affect personality development.
Eight: loving children is not necessarily understanding children. Only by making friends with children can education play a role.
Nine: Parents should give their children room to grow freely, guide them in the wrong direction and encourage them in the right direction.
Ten: Parents had better learn to teach themselves before they become family educators.
Eleven: Young parents in China spend thousands of dollars to learn to drive or send their children to kindergarten, but seldom attend family education and training.
Twelve: Parents should not pin all their education on schools and teachers, because children spend half of their time at home, so family education is as important as school education, or even more important.
Thirteen: 80% of children's bad habits are formed at home.
Fourteen: Parents should not do everything for their children and deprive them of the ability to live independently.
Fifteen: If parents want to cultivate their children's healthy personality, they must create a relaxed and harmonious family.
Sixteen: children are picky about food, starting with which one their parents say is not delicious.
Seventeen: Beating and cursing can't solve children's education problems, but can only vent parents' impatience.
Eighteen: Parents should prepare a notebook to record what happened with their children, or the problems found and the confusion caused. The process of frequent recording is actually a simple process of self-reflection.
Nineteen: Parents and children try to maintain an equal position at ordinary times, and ask their children for advice when something happens.
Twenty: When parents are confused about their children's education, they can try to consult teachers, neighbors or education experts.