Parents should not say that there is no way. This is very irresponsible. If the child is ill, he can't recover without taking medicine and injections. Will you not treat him because he doesn't want to take medicine or injections? Definitely not. Such a small child relies heavily on mobile phones, which is no less harmful than getting sick. In any case, parents should change this problem.
1, which affects children's language function.
The child is one and a half years old and can't speak yet. For this one-month-old child, his language ability is a little weak.
Before the age of three, children are sensitive to language, especially when they are one to two years old, which is the most critical stage for children to learn language. Speaking sooner or later is related to the language training received at this stage.
If you want a child to speak, you must have input before you can have output. Watching cartoons on mobile phones or TV is only a one-way input, and children only listen, without the desire and opportunity to say. Being in this state for a long time, family members rarely communicate with their children, which will lead to the slow development of children's language ability and have a far-reaching impact on children.
2. Affect children's brain development and intellectual development.
Before the age of three, the child's brain is in a period of rapid development, which is also the golden period of the child's brain development. It needs external sensory stimulation such as vision, hearing, taste, touch and smell to promote children's brain development.
Watching cartoons on mobile phones all day, children's sensory perception is lacking, and the information they receive is also very occluded, which will hinder their brain development and affect their intellectual development.
3, seriously endangering children's vision health.
The ophthalmologist's advice is that children under the age of three should try not to look at the electronic screen, but should look at it moderately over the age of three.
Why should we strictly stipulate the age? It is because the younger the child is, the less developed the eyeball function is and the more vulnerable it is.
Children looking at the screen of mobile phones for a long time will damage their eyesight. Once they suffer from myopia, it is irreversible.
4, affecting the child's physical development.
Watching TV for a long time, not exercising and not going out will also have an impact on children's physical development. Proper exercise, especially outdoor activities, can promote children's physical development, help their height and protect their eyesight.
One-and-a-half-year-old children still watch their mobile phones in the middle of the night without sleeping, which will lead to insufficient sleep. Sleep is very important for children's growth and development, which not only hinders the secretion of growth hormone, but also affects their height. It also hinders the development of the brain.
1, adhere to the principle of prohibiting children from touching mobile phones.
Parents must make up their minds that even if the child is crying, they are not allowed to watch it. Keep your mobile phone away from children.
If we don't change it now, it will only get worse. Habit formation is not a matter of one or two days. It is also a long-term habit for children to rely on mobile phones. Parents need to be patient and correct.
Parents should take care of themselves and don't play mobile phone in front of their children.
Because children have been so dependent on mobile phones and influenced by parents, parents must deal with their own problems first.
Work is not as important as children. Put down your mobile phone when you are with children.
3, high-quality companionship, keep children away from mobile phones.
Many children who like to watch mobile phones also lack love. The long-term neglect of parents forces children to seek happiness and comfort in mobile phone cartoons.
When I am with my children, I will accompany them with my heart, play games, toys, read books together, and go out for outdoor activities when the weather is good. When parents give love, children will feel that they will not choose a mobile phone with their parents.
I once knew a child. He said he hadn't watched TV for ten years until he got sick and was hospitalized some time ago. Being bored, he turned on the TV in the ward. But after watching it for a while, he found that TV was so boring that he couldn't understand why others loved watching TV so much.
He reads books in the ward every day, and he feels that he has lived a full life. He said that they never turned on TV at home, and neither did their parents, so he didn't watch it either. Every night, the family just reads books, listens to songs and chats.
From his story, we can know how important the family environment and the role of adults as role models are.
Children rely heavily on mobile phones when they are only one and a half years old, which has a lot to do with their parents. In the future, parents should put away their mobile phones and don't watch them in front of their children. After a long time, children will get used to it.
Our children are three and a half years old and are curious about mobile phones. However, my husband and I agreed to put our mobile phones in the cupboard every night when we go home. Do not play with it. If something really happens, take it to a room where the children can't see it.
I have a habit of asking more questions and asking less questions. When I know why, I know what to do.
Children love to play with mobile phones. Parents should not ask what to do. Ask children why they like to play with mobile phones first.
Do parents always play mobile phones? The child is curious? The answer is almost yes.
So, let's start with parents. All the problems are rooted in children. Next time you encounter this kind of problem, look for the problem from the parents themselves first, and it will be easy to think of a solution.
Put on the password, take her to play, empty everything in the phone, and turn off the network. There are many ways. My baby started talking on his cell phone and watching TV when he was 3 years old. Later, a relative's child came to play in the summer vacation and brought my baby in. But fortunately, I show him my mobile phone for 20 minutes every day, not more than half an hour. After the end of this year, his addiction to mobile phones increased, and he was less than five years old. He kept pestering me and stole my mobile phone. Then I got angry and changed my password. He refused to forgive me, and finally threatened to smash his cell phone if he didn't play. I dropped my mobile phone before he could speak (I bought 6 thousand mobile phones at that time). I told him clearly that if you continue to make trouble for 20 minutes every day, it will be a big deal for me. My idea is that if he is still obsessed with mobile phones, I will not hesitate to change to an old man-machine machine. I don't believe that I can't subdue a child.
It's not natural for children to watch mobile phones. The child is a blank sheet of paper, whatever color you paint it, it is what color.
My baby was brought up by my grandparents before she was 3 years old. In rural areas, the elderly don't have smart phones or even wireless TV. She only has an early education machine, and occasionally looks at the content. There are several episodes of Logger Vick's cartoons. I go back to see him once a week. I had hardly seen a cell phone before I was two and a half years old.
When I was about two and a half years old, the company organized a trip, thinking of taking the children out to broaden their horizons, so I took them with me. I was afraid that he would make trouble on the road, so I gave him my mobile phone. Since then, it has been out of control. I watched the cartoon "Super Flash" when I was staying in a hotel, and I couldn't stop later. What I regret most is that I gave my mobile phone to my child to save trouble.
Later, when I went home to see him, I realized that I needed a mobile phone. Cry if you don't give it, and then you can't control it.
When I was three and a half years old, I took him back to kindergarten. Every time my husband takes him home, he shows it to a mobile phone, which saves trouble. At that time, the mobile phone never left its hand, and it cried if it was not given.
Later, when my husband was on a business trip, I made up my mind not to cry. I gave him my mobile phone and I stayed with him until I stopped crying. I didn't get my phone anyway. It took several days to correct it.
Later, I slowly guided him, watching TV occasionally, touching his mobile phone less, and watching his mobile phone less in front of him. Read with him after dinner and play with him more before going to bed.
Behind children's behavior habits is the result of parents' actions. You give him a book to read, you give him a mobile phone to read.
My children seldom need mobile phones now, but they don't need them in front of me. Being with me is to let my mother accompany him to read or play.
As parents, we should give our children more company, put down their mobile phones, and children will put down their mobile phones.
For children with 1.5, what parents should do is to spend more time with their children, be more patient, don't let them rely on electronic products, and don't use mobile phones as nannies.
Congratulations, you have a smart and healthy child!
Don't worry, let him see it if he wants to. You don't need to teach anything. You can learn a lot from watching cartoons, and you can also play games. And he's a master of games.
Little nephew started playing mobile phone at the age of one and a half. At first, I bought him a toy mobile phone, which had no screen, only buttons, and could listen to songs, music and stories. It broke down in a few days.
The second one is a fake screen for him. In fact, he will still listen to songs and stories. After playing for another month or two, I stopped playing, and then I robbed the adult's mobile phone. At first, I asked him to watch cartoons or listen to songs, and before he knew it, he played a little game.
I used to play with a toy cat named Tom Cat. One day, he found a small program of Tom Cat on his mobile phone. I played with Tom Cat for over a year. I feed it, wash clothes, cook, bathe, change clothes and take it abroad every day. Not to mention, I really learned a lot. I really know a lot when I really travel by plane. For example, I was very cooperative when I passed the security check. In the past, the security check was also to help adults pack their bags. I'm like a little adult.
Unconsciously, I am now four and a half years old, and I have long been an expert at games, competing with some primary school students in China. Although I have lived abroad for a long time and haven't learned a few words of Tang poetry and Song poetry, my English is very good. The cartoons I watch every day are all in English.
Now people can not only play games, but also install and uninstall games. It's amazing. We can't play many games. Because I broke two mobile phones while playing, I couldn't get through at first. I asked his father. Sometimes his father is not at home and asks us, and we don't understand. So I broke my mobile phone in a hurry, but it didn't work once. I had to pick it up and drop it again.
In fact, it is not a bad thing for children to play if they want to. You can learn a lot on your mobile phone. Just give him some time every day and don't play mobile phone for more than an hour. You can take him to play with other toys as appropriate. Just alternately playing with mobile phones and toys.
In addition, take him to the hospital to have his eyes examined regularly. If not, stick an eye chart on the wall at home, take a look at the eye chart every day, and remind him in time if you find any problems. Over time, he will take the initiative to check his eyes with an eye chart. He will also take the initiative not to play with his mobile phone when he finds it blurred.
No, my nephew is addicted to fitness and dancing recently. He didn't go to cram school, but he learned it from his mobile phone. Some pieces of Tik Tok can be connected by many kinds of dance pieces, which are self-contained and very similar to music!
Now I go to school for half a day every morning, play in the gym for more than an hour in the afternoon, dance, play with toys, watch TV and play with my mobile phone for a while, and arrange my own work every day, leaving adults alone. Just take care of the children, eat and drink well.
A generation has its own way of life.
The childhood of our generation is "upstairs and downstairs, there are lights and telephones" and "every village is equipped with wired speakers".
The childhood of our generation was "TV" and "repeater", trying to learn foreign languages. "It is better to have a good father than to speak a foreign language."
The little nephew's childhood was a mobile phone and a computer, running around the world.
We don't know what will happen in the future.
Hello, I'm glad to answer this question. I can tell you decisively that children's infatuation with mobile phones is the reason for adults.
My daughter is four years old this year. She usually controls the time of watching TV and mobile phone, saying that after watching some cartoons, she will turn off the TV or take the initiative to return my mobile phone to me. This is a habit developed since childhood.
At home, grandparents and parents never watch mobile phones and TV in front of her. As parents, we can't watch our mobile phones by ourselves, and it is impossible to ask our children not to watch them. Especially when children are young, this stage is the imitation stage, and everything is imitation and curiosity. Imagine that it is difficult for us adults to control playing mobile phones, let alone children.
To sum up, I would like to give you the following suggestions:
First, it's so late, and the children don't sleep. This will affect his health. He needs to sleep more at this time. Deep sleep can make the brain develop well and benefit all organs of the body. Children can't stay up late.
Second, if it is said that the media has influenced your family and even educated your children, then I suggest you either give up or don't let him see it when watching your mobile phone.
Third, guide him in other ways, and don't watch him obsessed with mobile phones for a long time. Parent-child reading, going out to play, playing games and so on …
4. Take compulsory measures. Don't think a child is smart just because he can play many games. Don't forget that her eyes are not well developed at this age, and the damage to her eyes is great and irreversible.
About the author: Qinghe, a former top 500 enterprise in China, worked as an administrative manager. Later, in order to take care of children, he joined the education industry and became a calligraphy teacher. A teaching video has been recorded. Welcome to watch. Holding the baby in one hand and writing in the other, sharing life and recording feelings. Thank you for your attention.
First, parents set an example by playing less or even not playing mobile phones in front of their children.
Second, accompany the child attentively, tell him stories and play games with him.
I have children of my own. My mother usually brings it to me at work. Every time I go home, my mother will give me a reaction that a child will not let go with a mobile phone. However, every time I go home, as long as I say, son, put down your mobile phone and I'll play with you, he immediately puts it down and looks at me thoughtfully: Mom, play with me.
So I think the child is too lonely, no one can talk to him, no one can play with him, and the mobile phone is the most interesting thing he can touch, so he will naturally be interested in playing. However, if parents are willing to spend time and patience, children can completely avoid playing mobile phones.
My child is 3 years old now, so far, it has always been like this. As long as we adults say, put down the phone, I will play with you. He will come soon.
You can take him out to play, see the scenery, meet small animals and so on, instead of playing with his mobile phone.
Third, when a child comes into this world, it is a blank sheet of paper. How to describe this paper really depends on his parents.
I am the only one in our family who takes care of the children, and I have to do some housework every day. When the child is over one year old, I will also show her some cartoons, so that she will not make trouble and I can take the time to do something.
After watching it for more than an hour, I quickly took her out to play and came back to let her take a nap. It is easy for her not to watch TV, that is, parents should accompany their children, take her out or play games at home.
I never play with my child's mobile phone, which is harmful to her eyes. You can watch TV no matter how noisy you are, and you can't play with your mobile phone, as long as your parents stick to their principles. The child cried, and it was too late to make any noise.
Now the child is two and a half years old. She can play with toys without watching TV. She still watches cartoons for a while every day, and then tells her that watching TV for a long time is bad for her eyes and she will listen to me.
Sometimes she will take my mobile phone and throw it away, frowning and saying to me, "Mom, don't look, it's not good for your eyes." Nothing can be done with children, but it is more important than anything else.
If I want to do my own thing, I will either get up earlier than my child and take a nap while she is around, or wait for my husband to take her after work before I have time to do my own thing.
That's the parents' fault. Does he know how to play anime at his age? I'm sure my parents sometimes want to save trouble and show him cartoons directly. After a long time, they become dependent.
My child is almost one and a half years old. We seldom watch TV when he is awake. He wants to play with his mobile phone, and we won't turn it on. If he can't turn on his mobile phone twice, he will lose interest.
Also, basically it is better for children to take it out to play than at home. Children like playing outside very much. Taking part in outdoor activities is also good for character development. Playing mobile phones every day at such a young age will make you like playing more and more in the future, and then you can't pay attention to him.
The most important thing is that it is not good for children's eyes. He is now in the developmental stage, and it is certain that his eyes will be deformed for a long time.
And/kloc-I'm still playing with my mobile phone after 0/2 o'clock, and my schedule is too bad. My baby usually sleeps with him before 10. When the lights were turned off, I rolled on the bed with him and turned over and fell asleep. Basically sleep at 9 9- 10-0, and occasionally take him out to play late on weekends.
I think parents should reflect on themselves. How do children know that mobile phones can watch cartoons? They are not self-taught. You can't take your children out for activities. Bring some toys from home to play outdoors. If the weather is too hot, go to the mall or supermarket. The child is two and a half years old and watches cartoons on Saturday and Sunday. Father has a rest time when he has a holiday. He can only watch it twice a day, one hour at a time, and it will be closed when he gets to the store. Go out for activities at 8: 30 or 9: 00 a.m. from Monday to Friday, usually play until 1 1: 30, go home, take a shower and eat, and study just after eating and don't want to sleep. Now you know all the numbers from 1 to 20. Men know five people, sing and draw pictures, and then go to bed at 1: 30, usually for an hour and a half. After getting up, go cycling outdoors. In short, parents can take their children to play and have different fun every day. I also take care of the children alone. I want to cook, wash and tidy up, make reasonable arrangements, spend as much time with my children as possible, and I can't pretend to be with them.