When you have children, you are no longer you, and your name becomes, whose mother are you? For example, Yiyi's mother, Mei Mei's mother, Hao Hao's mother and so on. Whether you like the name or not, your family, friends and school teachers will call you that. Slowly, you no longer have your own name, and the name is directly replaced by the child's name. Slowly, you become a habit, even become a full-time mother of your children, and start your new life.
After getting married and having children, women have an extra role, mom. From parents' daughter, husband's wife, promoted to children's mother. Xiaoman is such a mother. When her daughter 1 year-old, she decided to quit her job and become a full-time mother. At first, she couldn't even make milk powder or change diapers. Before, she went to work and her mother-in-law did it. Mother-in-law went back to her hometown, and everything related to her children was done by her alone.
Xiaoman's husband is a code farmer and works overtime every day. He basically got home at night 10, and the child fell asleep with her. It is unrealistic to need a husband's help to take care of the children. Being a full-time mother is not easy at all. She gets up after six o'clock every morning, cooks for the children, and then cleans and cleans the floor. Feeding the children, going to the market to buy food, cooking, eating again, cleaning the house, feeding the children complementary food and early education, Xiaoman became an omnipotent full-time mother.
For the sake of children, mothers can give up their high salaries and stay at home as full-time mothers. You must have a full-time mother and a novice mother who are as versatile as Xiaoman. You must make a decision after careful consideration for your children and give more tolerance, understanding and support to all stay-at-home mothers. Life will be better.
Many people can't see what stay-at-home mothers do, such as cleaning and cooking at home. For example, when you get home, you can clean up as soon as you enter the door, and there are delicious foods; Also, clothes are always neatly folded; After a long time, you will feel taken for granted.
Recently, a mother committed suicide with two babies. Every time I see such news, I feel particularly sad. How desperate this stay-at-home mother chose this way to end her child's life.
Many times, what we hear and see is condemning the mother. How desperate and helpless she is to take this road.
Please respect your stay-at-home mom. If your wife gives up her high-paying job and returns to her family, she will pay silently.
Please take good care of stay-at-home mothers, who also need the warmth, care and support of their families.
Please be considerate of stay-at-home mothers. Every stay-at-home mother is trying to grow up and keep learning.
Please support stay-at-home mothers, because stay-at-home mothers are not suitable for everyone.
Please help stay-at-home mothers. When free, family members should also participate in the growth of children and grow up with them.
Every child's growth is inseparable from his mother's efforts.
Full-time mothers are different from nannies and need to be paid every month; Many stay-at-home mothers are unpaid, hardworking and selfless.
Mom is great. For the sake of her children, she gave up her job and her familiar workplace. Take care of the baby wholeheartedly. Many people are brought up by stay-at-home mothers.
Some time ago, a divorced stay-at-home mother asked her ex-husband to pay her salary, because she had done all the big and small things at home for so many years, and the court supported her. This incident shows that more and more people are beginning to pay attention to the special career of stay-at-home mothers. As a stay-at-home mother, her contribution to the family is indelible.
If you are a stay-at-home mom, you ask your husband to pay you 3,000,5,000,8,000 yuan a month, and senior nannies at least 6,000 yuan a month. First-tier cities are higher, will you still ignore the value of stay-at-home mothers?
If someone takes care of the children at home, the mother can go out to work at any time, and the mother can also earn money to support the family, but more often, the mother chooses to accompany the children. Motherly love is innate. If a man's income is relatively high, it is usually a man who works hard outside to give a stable happiness to a family.
We can't take the quiet efforts of stay-at-home mothers for granted. We need to give more recognition and encouragement to stay-at-home mothers. Please say thank you to your stay-at-home mom. You have worked hard for so many years.
They are not only stay-at-home mothers, but also your wife, the mother of children, the precious daughter of parents, your family and your lover. Please cherish her, care for her, respect her and support her. ............