Why do you play the piano?
I studied ukulele with Bauer for two months, but I just feel that life without music is too eclipsed. Besides, playing a musical instrument in primary school is really an exercise of will and a rare memory.
Moreover, according to the baby's current lifestyle, it is too idle to go home from school. How to connect young and young, first of all, he must be busy and have something to do.
I didn't mean to let him choose the piano, which made my second room smaller and more expensive. However, he has a soft spot for piano. After two years of hesitation and textual research, he finally chose the piano.
Playing the piano for what?
To tell the truth, this question is exactly the same as the one I was asked when I paid a lot of money to enroll him in an early education class, and it is also the first question I asked. I really don't know why. I never expected to say how this piano would change his life or fly to the branches to become a phoenix, and I had no other idea that he would become a A Lang Lang. To say the reason, it is very simple, just a step of parenting. In order to make him grow better and grow better. So you grow up after playing the piano, okay? No, playing the piano is just a medium. There is no comparison or difference between musical instruments in this link. It's just a tool.
So if you want him to grow up better, what is better? Just recently, I read a book about the mind, that is, while meeting the material needs, I can have an interesting soul, know how to persist, know how to endure hardships, know how to be happy, know how to be happy, dare to experience all kinds of tastes in the world, and live well.
If there is any utilitarian heart, it is two words, perseverance. I have seen the rise of too many super-individuals, and really told me that cheap things will eventually be valuable over time. Besides the college entrance examination, I actually didn't have an unforgettable time to experience this unique learning method.
How to choose a teacher?
If you follow the map and have a clear purpose, you will naturally find the most suitable one among various institutions and information. Because what I want is perseverance, and the beginning of anything is often crucial, so the first requirement for me to choose a teacher is strictness. I have done early education for several years, and I have also listened to several institutions. What I fear most is that those words that cater to my parents are too obvious for sales. I don't need to listen to good words in education, what I need is strictness. So I gave up the music store.
It happened that a student's parents recommended me in the class, so I found the self-employed teacher Wu now. Teacher Wu is also very proud, and the audition class is still 200 yuan. Teacher Wu's experience is also very enlightening. In the early years, she started with a few students, but now she is overcrowded and people have been transferred to other schools. In fact, I believe that a teacher has the power of aura and can exert its role subtly. People who have requirements for themselves will not handle any work casually and will not waste any hard work. Of course, Mr. Wu is also very cool, can talk, has an investment vision and lives a colorful life. I believe that a person who can arrange his life reasonably can't be wrong. So without any hesitation, I immediately picked up the piano and started.
What do you need to prepare for learning the piano?
Several colleagues have asked this question and said: expensive. Piano is expensive, but learning piano is expensive. But this is not a problem. A hundred thousand can't solve it. 200 thousand, there is hope for making money hard. Generally speaking, the money invested in people is the most worthwhile.
The terrible thing is time+patience. My best friend even told me their magic capital. The parents of the students who attend the English training class with his boy are all doctors, but they would rather spend money to attend the class than teach it themselves. One of the reasons is that they have no time and patience. Many remedial classes of various concepts are so popular. To put it bluntly, they just buy their parents' time and patience.
Now I'm in the mood to write stories, but in fact I've had a hard time. After learning the piano for so long, every week's homework is guaranteed to be completed, and there is no reason for grace and delay. Now let the boy play the piano, and he will sigh, but don't tell me so much. By the tenth week or so, the most difficult part of learning the piano, the first content is a bit difficult, and the second one loses its original interest and discovers this hard truth. Third, I'm tired of this boring exercise. That time was also my most popular time, so I deliberately took out my family's sword and the ruler I bought a few years ago. My hand was beaten many times, and my tears flowed many times. I was very angry. I even said that I should never learn to play the piano again. But I still stick to my original intention. I have to study for a year, and I can give up, but I choose actively after persistence, not passively give up. This is the result of my unsuccessful work for many years.
Actually, I learned a lot. First, the angrier he is, the more mistakes he makes, and nervousness will hinder his attention and energy. So I feel very angry now, so I will avoid it and go out to calm down.
The second parent-child * * * learned to reduce boredom, which also made this matter really play the value of life. Before, I bravely stayed and practiced with him. Later, I found that two hours of practice every day, at least at present, is not available. Later, it degenerated to the point that at least I had to follow him to understand, not to be fooled by him, and of course I had to prepare for the old age study and the second child study. A few weeks ago, there was a four-handed joint play assignment, and I only had the opportunity to practice with my teacher when I went to class. As soon as I thought about it, I took the initiative to learn. I didn't expect to be interested at all. I play tricks, but I can't talk about that dress myself. I asked him to talk about the part where he accompanied me. As a result, he was very happy and constantly challenged the difficulty.
Third, we should be prepared for long-term persistence. We have been studying since we were two years old. Now we can throw him away so that we can understand and understand Harry Potter. I thought that such a short period should be on the road in half a year. After all, it's time for the second child to close the bone, but I still overestimate the status quo. I let him practice by himself several times intentionally or unintentionally. As a result, I checked the next day and there was no progress at all. The speed at which I accompanied him made the basic new lesson fluent on the third day, and I became proficient and fluent on the fourth day. I'll just practice by myself. It's a mess. If you don't reward yourself, you will be rewarded eight times out of ten. If I don't skip a few times, I will be in a hurry and the speed will be chaotic. From this, I found that he was talking about the piano and I was carrying a bundle.
Where should I think about the future?
I don't want to talk about the distant future, but I can't live without it. At least the goal for the next six months is to gradually let him practice the piano by himself. Now I'm listening while I'm sleeping, and I'm counting him one, two, three, four in a daze. After all, you should exercise your old bones. Persistence is his business, and I can only lead him on the road. But this matter should not be rushed, and it should be done step by step.
Then we must adjust the time. It's too late to go to bed now. A child sleeps too much at twelve o'clock every day. But every day he must be neurotic to have fun+play the piano+read books+talk about books. Relax a little in the middle and go to bed at ten o'clock, which is too much for me.