Children begin to have gender awareness when they are around 3 years old. Gender education at this time is very important.
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Many parents' methods turn a blind eye to children's sex education. For example, when children have gender awareness, many people don't care, and even make the above jokes. So how old is a child to be gender-aware?
Children begin to have gender awareness when they are around 3 years old. When a baby is born, there are physical gender differences, but it still belongs to a blank area psychologically. The concept of gender is difficult for children to understand.
1 year-old, children can recognize their parents and subconsciously distinguish between male and female voices and images. Until I was 3 years old, I began to be curious about my body. Contact with children of different genders will lead to curiosity, and I will compare the differences. Coupled with the distinction between men's and women's clothing and going to the toilet, we began to have a sense of distinction between men and women. This time is extremely important for children's gender education.
Popular science: scientifically establish children's gender awareness. Look at three years old and look at the old at seven; In terms of sex education, children should start to give correct sex education at the age of 3, so that children can understand sex and identify with their own gender. To put it bluntly, it is to establish a correct sexual orientation in life.
1, clothing appearance distinction
Exposing children to mainstream social consciousness from a secular perspective can help them better understand gender differences. For example, let boys wear blue pants and girls wear pink skirts; Let boys have short hair and girls have long hair. By adapting to reality, it is easier to understand gender differences.
2. Personality hobby guidance
Boys can take part in challenging sports, such as playing football, climbing mountains and other slightly difficult and challenging activities. Toys are cars that cultivate boys' strong and competitive character. Girls can be allowed to kick shuttlecock, bungee jumping and other weak events. Toys are dolls, which can cultivate girls' gentle and gentle personality.
The father bathes his son and the mother bathes her daughter.
Children are advised to be curious about their bodies from the age of three, especially when taking a bath. It is suggested that close relatives of the same sex can bathe their children, so that boys can know that their bodies are the same as their fathers and their daughters are the same as their mothers, so as to avoid confusion and misleading.
4. Early education of sex education
We can make use of children's curiosity to let them read picture books, comics and so on. With regard to gender education, let children contact with sex education knowledge more intuitively, scientifically and reasonably.
Therefore, children's gender awareness is earlier than we thought. As parents, we should not blindly ignore it. We need to guide children to learn gender education in life and establish a correct gender concept for children!
I remember that there are men and women in the second grade, and they are stronger in the second grade. When I was a sophomore, I fell in love with my classmates, and then, then, and then I lived together. Don't spray me, I'm telling the truth.
At what age do girls start to have gender awareness?
Girls generally begin to have gender awareness at about 3 years old.
Girls around 3 years old can generally know men and women, showing self-esteem, sympathy and shyness. Children's gender awareness is established through acquired learning on the basis of biology. Therefore, parents must carry out gender confirmation education before the girl is 3 years old, and guide her children to correctly confirm their gender from an early age, so that sex, gender and gender roles are consistent. At the same time, it is necessary to conduct preliminary sex education for children, learn to identify unsafe environments, and improve children's awareness of self-protection.
If girls like fierce fighting games and activities, prefer to have male companions and refuse to squat and urinate, parents should be vigilant, give correct guidance, avoid abuse and irony, and go to the hospital psychology department if necessary.
Once a girl is sexually aware, she may ask her parents about some sexual knowledge. Parents should not avoid their children's questions or give them some wrong answers. The answers to children should be easy to understand and fit the correct answers, so that children can establish correct sexual concepts from an early age.
This content was reviewed by Zhang, the chief physician of beijing ditan hospital Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology affiliated to Capital Medical University.
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I want to say that I am a boy. When I was in primary school, I found a female classmate in our class. There are two bulging things in front of him, and then I go to Baidu after school. It turns out that his name is Mimi.
When my grandson was five years old, he knew that people pee standing and squatting. Boys and girls in kindergarten go to the toilet separately. But sexual awareness is not yet. But I think it's convenient to play with girls and pee far behind the wall. I know he knows the difference between men and women.
It depends on what environment she was in, some early, some just came to Hong, and the growth environment also had certain factors.
I think it's time for menstruation, and I'll understand it slowly.
The early-maturing and late-maturing varieties are different, and the time is hard to say.