Xu Huanshan's wife, Gu Jia, takes good care of her husband and children in her life.
In the pattern, she resigned from a foreign company for her family and encouraged her husband to resign and start a business, which led to Xu Huanshan's fireworks company.
In business, while suppressing and dismissing the female subordinates who plot against Xu Huanshan in the company, she smiled and apologized to the customers.
In her career, she can pull her face down, endure grievances, go to the wife circle, pull the list, find business and seek development.
It can be said that Gu Jia, who has face, talent, courage, willingness to pay, willingness to sacrifice and exquisite pursuit of life, has met the requirements of all men behind her for women.
However, Xu Huanshan was derailed in his early twenties, with a plain appearance and average ability, and Lin Youyou, who just wanted to have fun.
Lin Youyou was able to capture Xu Huanshan, thanks to two dinners.
For the first time, Lin Youyou and Xu Huanshan ate crayfish together. During the dinner, Xu Huanshan said that he fasted at the request of his wife Gu Jia because he had fatty liver.
Lin Youyou laughed at Xu Huanshan and said that people who listen to their wives are really rare these days. Later, he used the story of "cicada on the eighth day" to persuade Xu Huanshan to break the precept: cicada worked hard underground for three years, and only had seven days to live after breaking ground. People should be like cicadas, preferring to sing wildly and live only for seven days, rather than being a lonely cicada who bows his head and keeps silent and accumulates strength until the eighth day. ...
Finally, did Lin come to the conclusion that a long life is boring and you can enjoy innocence?
The second time, Lin Youyou put all his eggs in one basket and resigned and went to Xu Huanshan. Xu Huanshan indicated that he was married and they should never meet again.
But Lin Youyou didn't give up, and she began to provoke the relationship between Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia.
She said that under the control of Gu Jia, Xu Huanshan was a person trapped in a shell:
"You can't fight, get wet in the rain, get sick, have dinner, even if you drool ... every floor is imposed on you by your wife ... Have you ever thought that maybe you and your wife are not alone at all, you are just playing the role of a person she gave you."
Later, Lin Youyou compared Xu Huanshan to his favorite fireworks and compared himself to an open flame. Fireworks can only be gorgeous if they are lit.
After returning home, Xu Huanshan's mind kept flashing words brainwashed by Lin Youyou. He resolutely refused to drink juice at dinner and insisted on eating noodles, which violated the abstinence rule required by Gu Jiajiao.
Subsequently, Xu Huanshan derailed the forest and the whole person fell down.
For Xu Huanshan's derailment, the audience shouted that "the forest of 100 is not as good as Gu Jia of 1", but this kind of plot did not only appear in film and television dramas.
Three men who cheated in real life told the truth about most men cheating.
0 1, always thought that you can have your cake and eat it.
Mr. Xu, aged 36, has been married for 12 years and has a son with his wife. After a year of infidelity, his wife filed for divorce.
"After a year of marriage, my wife was pregnant. Because she was in poor health, the doctor suggested bed rest, and her wife resigned. After the wife gave birth to the child, because the elderly on both sides were in poor health, the wife simply took care of the children herself, and the pattern of the male and female masters at home stabilized. " Mr. Xu introduced.
Mr. Xu said that at first, they were very satisfied with this arrangement.
The wife takes care of the children and pays great attention to the study of parenting knowledge. There are methods for early education, and children are both smart and sensible.
Moreover, the smart wife keeps the house in good order, taking care of Mr. Xu to make ends meet, and the clothes are within reach, which is very comfortable.
When other men suffer from conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, child-rearing wars and frequent replacement of nannies, xu teacher will be extremely happy and proud to say, "You can't handle one child, and we are all going to have a second child."
But gradually, Mr. Xu began to dislike his wife.
"What she told me will always be children, children, children, and children crying and laughing. Let me take a picture. When the child leaves, she will video with me. If she misses that moment, she will have a big fight. Even if the child farts and shits, she will ask me if I am different ... Other than that, there is no topic. " Mr Xu shook his head and sighed.
Another thing that Mr Xu Can can't stand is that his wife is frugal and always simple.
The hard work of raising children, coupled with heavy housework, has even made his wife who has slept for a long time ten years older.
On one occasion, the husband and wife were mistaken for brothers and sisters who were ten years apart, but the actual situation was that Mr. Xu was five years older than his wife.
What makes Mr. Xu even more ashamed is that he went out with his wife.
Once a colleague of Mr. Xu's unit got married, and his wife insisted on going with him.
"Seeing a few pale white hairs on my wife's head, sallow face, worn-out clothes and a huge invisible mother bag, I instantly felt that I was not bringing my wife, but a nanny." Mr. Xu said frankly.
What makes xu teacher extremely angry is that other female colleagues at the dinner table are talking about the workplace, makeup, and women's growth, while his wife is telling people about parenting knowledge, bargain guides, channels for buying diapers and milk powder, and the pain and embarrassment when giving birth, and the importance of children's defecation. ...
When Mr. Xu advised his wife to improve herself, she always replied confidently: first, there is no time; Second, there is not enough money; Third, I insist that I am excellent.
Finally, when his wife was pregnant with a second child, Mr. Xu successfully derailed a young, beautiful, exquisite and talkative female subordinate.
This mistress, behind closed doors, is pleasing to the eye and takes it outside, radiant.
However, this wife's life did not last long. Mr. Xu's wife filed for divorce on the grounds that she could not support herself, leaving two children aged 10 and three years younger to Mr. Xu.
In addition, Mr. Xu is left with his father who has been taken care of by his wife for more than 8 years and has sequelae of cerebral thrombosis, as well as his mother who has varicose veins and will be in a wheelchair when going out.
I heard that Mr Xu was going to marry her, and San Xiao ran away.
02, always eager to get more respect and recognition.
Mr. Mei, 40 years old, married 17 years. After the extramarital affair was discovered, the wife immediately filed for divorce.
Mr. Mei's wife is a teacher in a training institution. She is serious, unsmiling and strict with Miss Mei.
"I smoke, she said that I am selfish, enjoy it alone, and the whole family suffers; I drink, and she said that I was sick or had an accident because of drinking, and she definitely ignored me; I was socializing outside, and she said I was grovelling. When I went out to travel, she said that I only cared about my own happiness, regardless of the food and drink of the whole family; I played a game and she accused me of having no sense of family responsibility. It is better to do housework and spend time with children than to play a ball ... "Mr. Mei vomited.
Later, his wife was upgraded from an ordinary teacher to a franchisee of an education chain, and her income soared. She is even more disgusted with Miss Mei's dead salary, excessive consumption and lack of progress.
On one occasion, Mr. Mei's family had dinner with their parents and eldest brother.
During the dinner, Mr. Mei's parents suggested that they were too old to live alone, and they wanted their two sons to live in turn. Their old house was divided equally between the two brothers.
Mr. Mei's wife disagreed, and she proposed other ways of providing for the aged. If the uncle's family can let the elderly live permanently, she is willing to give up half of the inheritance rights of the old house, and other filial piety will not be less; Or rent it to two old people in their own community. In short, old people can't live with Mr. Mei and his family.
Mr. Mei and his wife had a big fight, but his wife insisted that she paid the down payment and mortgage of their house, and she had the right to decide, which deeply hurt Mr. Mei's heart.
Later, his wife and in-laws rented in the same community, and Mr. Mei simply moved in and began to separate from his wife.
The appearance of a third party is exactly what Mr. Mei wants.
First, he has the heart of revenge on his wife; Second, this third party is full of praise and respect for Mr. Mei, which is "just needed" for Mr. Mei.
"In her eyes, I am mature and humorous. I smoke and drink, and she says it is a necessary habit for a capable man. Good communication is a sign of good popularity; She likes listening to me talk about my trip; When I was playing, she prepared towels and water to cheer me up, which provoked a group of golfers to boo and express their envy. She also made no secret that I have the best skills and the best figure ... With her, I feel young 10 years old. " Mr. Mei said.
Soon, his wife learned of Mr. Mei's affair and immediately filed for divorce.
Because Mr. Mei was on the wrong side, and for many years, his family expenses and the purchase of the RV depended on his wife's income, so Mr. Mei left home almost cleanly.
"That woman is in a hurry to marry me now, but she has no job, no savings, and can't even do housework neatly. Her old man's house is counting on me to raise it. My brother is getting married and wants me to chip in. Even the work of relatives in the country is counting on me to solve it. How can I have the ability? I just laid my cards on the table, broke up and eliminated the disaster. I am alone now, and I deserve it. " Mr. Mei really regrets it.
I always feel that cheating is not a big deal, and I have never treated her badly.
Mr. Jin, 45, has been married for 22 years. After 7 years of derailment, due to his wife's insistence, he filed a lawsuit for divorce.
Mr. Jin's family has always been a traditional model in which the man is the master and the woman is the master.
After marriage, my wife has been a housewife for more than 20 years because of having children and taking care of the elderly.
It is precisely because of his wife's contribution to the family that Mr. Jin's two children have excellent grades and are smart and sensible; Mr. Jin's father has been in bed for more than three years because of cerebral thrombosis, and Mr. Jin has never stayed overnight; Because of diabetic complications, Mr. Jin's mother went to the hospital all the year round, taking medicine, giving injections and nursing. Mr. Kim has never had a heart attack.
Mr. Jin is a successful man in business. There are too many temptations around, and the heart is not firm. He never thinks cheating is anything important.
When he is on a business trip, he may find a woman at random or bring a woman with him. In the permanent city, there are also fixed third parties.
With the increasing number of infidelities, Mr. Jin feels that his wife has long been indifferent.
At first, the wife will want to live and divorce, but gradually, what the wife wants is more specific.
As long as the clues of his derailment are found, the wife will make specific requirements, which may be to pay a down payment to her parents-in-law; Probably to collect money to do business for his wife and brother; Maybe it's his wife's insurance, jewelry ...
"In short, sometimes, I even feel that my wife is willing to cheat me and then compensate her for what she needs. I have never wronged her. I have solved all her problems. Everything she eats and wears is mine, so she should be satisfied. " Mr. Jin said.
However, on the day when his youngest daughter finished the college entrance examination, Mr. Jin received a summons from the court, and his wife sued for divorce, providing a lot of evidence of Mr. Jin's marital infidelity and telling all the facts to his two children, which caught Mr. Jin off guard.
"I never thought that a wife who has no knowledge, no education, no job and no income dares to divorce me." Mr. Jin can't figure it out
But for the wife, more than 20 years of humiliation and sacrifice, in exchange for long-term betrayal, children grow up, and finally can get out of trouble.
Now Mr. Jin and his wife are separated, the old man is ill in bed, and even the third party is avoiding him like the plague.
Therefore, whether in film and television dramas or in real life, men are always so selfish and self-righteous.
Once I divorced, I found that the pillar of my family was broken, and that pillar was never myself, but my wife who paid silently.
I hope everyone will quit as soon as they listen!