Yes! It's selfish to bring children into this world to suffer if they can't live a good life!
It is a reality and a truth not to have children without money. What kind of life a child lives in this world is a choice made by his parents for her (him). Since there is no money, why should the child be born "poor" and bring him (her) a lot of unfairness?
That's very real! Half-dead, giving birth to a child will harm the child and die faster.
Having no money to have children is harmful to children.
I saw a news the other day that a mother had given birth to eight daughters. In order to have a son, she gave birth to the ninth child, and finally her dream came true!
But before I was happy, my mother went directly to the ICU for rescue. She was diagnosed by doctors as intrauterine infection, thalassemia, hypoproteinemia, renal insufficiency and other complications. Due to malnutrition, the child has to live in an incubator. The mother and son spend nearly 10 thousand a day, but their house is surrounded by a wall, so they go online for help. Netizens saw 9 babies. I can't sympathize at all.
Why not have children if you have no money?
It is difficult to guarantee the quality of life of children.
"The poorer, the poorer." The result of this vicious circle is. Just like the family mentioned at the beginning of the article, a poor family with many children, whose children don't even have decent clothes. They usually sleep on the floor, eat mostly white water, and rarely eat meat. In such a living environment, children are raised sallow and emaciated, and some are malnourished.
It is difficult to guarantee the quality of children's education.
In today's society, it is no longer the time to feed a baby with a pair of chopsticks. It's getting harder and harder to give birth to a precious child, because all families with conditions in the city will find ways to give their children a good education, such as various interest classes and remedial classes, so as to improve their grades and let them stay ahead of others in the race. And all this, without economic strength as the foundation, is impossible to have.
If you have children, you should be responsible for their future.
Children are not the private property of parents. If they have children, they must be responsible for their future. If parents can create better living and educational conditions for their children, the pressure on children will be much less.
If the child is born again and is not raised, it will be even harder if he grows up without a good education.
Therefore, it is not impossible to have children without money, but to have fewer children, give yourself and reduce the burden on society.
Don't have children without money. If your life is uncertain, don't hurt your children.
Whether to have children or not has nothing to do with having no money for the time being. Having children is only related to responsibility. A responsible person should not be so bad.
I totally agree, don't have children without money, don't cheat children! ! This "money" doesn't have to be a lot of money, but it must have at least a continuous income, at least a monthly balance, and at least a certain amount of savings to deal with emergencies.
How much does it cost to have a baby? You don't know if it doesn't count. Come on, you'll be surprised at your ability to make money.
1. Pregnancy expenses: routine examination, B-ultrasound, folic acid, vitamins, calcium iron tablets, medical expenses, radiation protection clothes and maternity clothes. Can't you come down without 5000? Of course, this is a smooth pregnancy, not including the case of miscarriage protection.
2, the production cost: natural delivery, 3,000, caesarean section, natural delivery, 6,000, and the doctor will not accept your red envelope. Of course, this is a natural delivery, so what if there is a natural delivery?
3. During confinement: Even if you eat and drink normally as usual, you will have enough breast milk and a series of necessities, such as newborn clothes, bottles, diapers, vitamin D, mommy love, etc. It's all 800 yuan a month, so the extra expenses are coming, aren't they? By the way, there are 6000 cases in the new moon and 20000 cases in the month center. Also, pregnant women can't go to work, and their wages are zero.
4. Children 0-3 years old: milk powder, clothes, diapers, early education, picture books, toys, calcium, iron, zinc, DHA supplements, fruits, complementary foods, colds, fever and diarrhea. , even for a month 1000. By the way, to be fair, you have an old man who takes care of the children for free and brings his own living expenses. Also, during this period, the frequency of your leave will be much higher than before. If you take time off and deduct your salary, OMG…… ... ...
5. Children between the ages of 3 and 6: The expenses in the previous article still exist, only increasing instead of decreasing. Children attend kindergartens, public kindergartens or Pratt & Whitney kindergartens for one month in 600 yuan, and the food expenses are in 500 yuan. Assuming that all activities held by the kindergarten are free and parents don't need to take time off to participate, the monthly fee will be increased by at least 1 100 yuan. By the way, children don't enroll in any interest training classes. Dancing, painting and Taekwondo are all self-taught.
6. During children's compulsory education: Thanks to the government for providing free compulsory education. I hope the teacher will talk more in class without extra tutoring. I hope that children will consciously point out their homework and don't preside over the class. You only need to bear the cost of children's science and education stationery and electronic products, and symbolically supplement some nutrition during the senior high school entrance examination.
7. During children's high school: high school is bound to be expensive, and the college entrance examination is very important. How much is the charge? Make up for it yourself.
8. During the child's college years: the child finally went to college, and happiness was hard-won. If they cry with excitement, they really should cry, because college is a stage of burning money ... and suppose they don't have to take the postgraduate entrance examination, study for a doctorate or study abroad. ...
9, children's graduation work: children are very conscious, but also very competitive, not old, self-sufficient, always filial to their parents.
10, the child got married: la la la, I cried happily.
1 1, the child gave birth to a child: la la la, I cried happily.
12, during this time, you are steel, you don't catch a cold, you don't get sick ... Besides, so do your parents. ...
Finally, please touch your conscience and ask yourself: I have no continuous income, moonlight and savings, dare to have children?
Let the children suffer. ...