As for early education institutions, it is even more mixed. Training teachers in some institutions may not have professional qualification certificates from authoritative institutions, and directly guide, develop and educate preschool children. Now the pace of life is fast, parents are basically working, and there is not much time to accompany their children in person. Many parents believe that as long as they spend money, they have made great efforts for their children's education. In fact, the two cannot be equated. It comes from the company of parents, which is very important in the growth period of children.
Around us, there are many children with personality defects caused by improper parents' education. However, compared with the case we are going to talk about today, it is no longer a big problem for children to feel inferior or too blx, because today's hero lost the ability to take care of himself because of his parents' doting, and finally froze to death at home.
Suo Yang
It is never advisable to spoil children, but as parents, watching a little baby laugh or make trouble in his arms, growing up day by day, always unconsciously smile and want to give him everything. When children are still in infancy, the most important thing to cultivate is their sense of security, so it is normal to meet all their needs. However, if the child has become a young child, even at school age, parents will grant all the requirements of the child regardless of right or wrong, which is obviously a big mistake.
Suo Yang was born in a poor family in luoshan county, Xinyang City, Henan Province. Because he is the only child in the family, his parents have been obedient to him since childhood. No matter what food and drink Suo Yang wants, or toys, his parents always try their best to satisfy him. However, the Yang family's economic situation is not ideal, and the family is still relatively poor, but parents would rather suffer by themselves and meet their children's requirements.
In this way, when Suo Yang was a child, he didn't know much. He was rude to everyone. Because he was young at that time, everyone was less knowledgeable than him, so Suo Yang had reached the age of going to school.
It is too difficult for Suo Yang to go to school. I need to get up early, sit all day, listen to the teacher and do my homework. Suo Yang didn't want to go to school, so his parents had to beg for a long time every day and promised him many reasons to go to school in exchange. Besides, Suo Yang won't go to school by bus or on foot. Until he was a teenager, his father had to carry it with a pole. Passers-by were surprised to see it. A teenager is so spoiled that there will be no good result in the future.
At school, Suo Yang still does whatever he wants. If the teacher cares about him a little, he will turn against the teacher at once. What's more, when he comes home, he will complain to his parents, who will go to school indiscriminately to find fault with the teachers. Therefore, the teacher did not dare to take care of Suoyang, so he made himself happy at school. As long as it didn't affect other students, the teacher didn't ask much.
With the doting of parents, Suo Yang is unable to take care of herself. Even parents who go out to play are not at ease, so they must accompany them. How can such children grow up healthily? /kloc-When I was 0/3 years old, my father died because of a serious illness. After such a change in life, ordinary children will grow up overnight. But Suo Yang didn't, because his mother continued to meet all his demands unconditionally. For Suo Yang, except for the disappearance of his father, nothing has changed in his life. What he didn't know was that his mother had shouldered all the hardships of life and had already overdrawn her body.
/kloc-When he was 0/8 years old, his mother died of long-term overwork, and Suo Yang's life suddenly lost hope. It is said that 18 years old, Suo Yang can take care of himself, but he knows nothing. He sold everything in his family and went begging. But begging is also very tiring. He just lies at home, doing nothing. My cousin saw him like this and introduced him to several jobs, but he quit because he couldn't stand the pain. Cousin doesn't care in a fit of pique, so she has to let it go.
One winter when he was 23, his cousin was worried about Suo Yang and wanted to see how he was. Only when I opened the door did I know that he had already frozen to death. China's first slacker sounded the alarm for his parents. Children have to suffer by themselves, so don't spoil them.