The most important thing for children is the first three years. They grow up the fastest and need their mother's company the most. However, being a full-time mother is not easy. Without financial resources, I have to reach out to my husband for money in everything I do, fearing that I will gradually get out of touch with society. When the children go to school, I am worried about whether I can go to work again. It is best for mom to return to the workplace with help. But no one takes it. It's worth sacrificing yourself to accompany him for three years, which will benefit him all his life.

Nanny is an outsider and unreliable. No one brought it, except my mother, so I had to find a nanny. You can often see how nannies abuse children from the news. Nanny is an outsider after all, and it is always uneasy to entrust it to outsiders. If there are old people watching at home, it is a good choice to ask a nanny for help.

There are many advantages for a mother to take care of her baby. Mom is the closest person to the baby in the world, and also the person who can bring the baby the greatest sense of security. A baby who grows up in love will have a better personality. Mother has the patience to deal with the baby's various emotions and emergencies, and always takes good care of the baby. Isn't there a saying that "dad takes care of the baby, just live." Grandma is holding the baby, just warm. "Only the mother takes care of the baby, but also considers his health, and will take pains to educate him and develop his potential. Good peer education before school will make the baby more sensible than his peers.

Whether you want to work full-time depends on your husband's attitude If your husband supports you and is willing to take full responsibility for supporting the family, my mother will sacrifice for the baby and accompany him full-time for several years. Since she gave birth to him, of course she should take good care of him! This problem needs comprehensive consideration. How old is the child?

It is recommended that mothers stay at home with their children full-time six months ago and try to stay at home with their children full-time from six months to 1 year old. After one year old, it is recommended to wean and hire a nanny. It is recommended to send early education classes or kindergartens over 2 years old. What is the nature of a mother's job? If she is freer, she can go to work earlier. What is the mother's work income? If the income is high, she can go to work early. If it's not high, she might as well hire a nanny to take care of the children.