The purpose of "confinement" is to make Ma Bao recover. At this stage, Ma Bao is weak. As the saying goes, she has poor physique and poor bones, and is prone to get sick and catch a cold. At this stage, her resistance is poor, and it is easy to fall into the root cause.

If we go out in the first month after giving birth, it is easy to catch viruses, dust and flu outside. Mothers who can't wait, stick to it. Please pay attention to your health for our own sake.

The baby can go out when he is two months old. Actually, two months is almost enough. As long as you recover quickly.

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In China, influenced by traditional ideas, pregnant women and puerperal mothers need to abide by many taboos, including confinement for one month, which includes not being allowed to go out. In some places, such as Shanxi, mothers can't go to other people's homes for 100 days after delivery, which is to break the taboo. In fact, a month without going out should have been eliminated. Puerperal mothers need to emancipate their minds and get rid of the shackles of this backward, ignorant and pedantic thought.

1. confinement, why not let you out?

I'm not allowed to go out for a month. The reason given is simple. I'm afraid of catching cold and catching cold. Most importantly, if I am confined in summer, I must wear long sleeves, trousers and socks. In some places, I even closed the windows and refused to turn on the air conditioner and fan. In the summer of 20 16, a puerperal mother died of heatstroke in Shanghai.

It can be seen that this traditional concept of confinement will really kill people! Killed someone! Killed someone!

2. Do you need confinement for that long?

I think we should boldly abandon the traditional custom of confinement. Some puerperal mothers simply don't talk about confinement in order not to be poisoned by this tradition, so there are not so many taboos. It is estimated that many treasure mothers can't accept it without confinement.

Not having a confinement doesn't mean you shouldn't have a good rest. Usually, the physical strength and energy of the natural mother recover quickly, and with the psychological and spiritual comfort of the mother after the baby is born, although the mother did not have a good rest, she did not feel tired for a while, but was full of strength. But in any case, pay attention to rest, combine work and rest, and don't be too tired.

Because of the influence of the incision, it may take longer for the cesarean section mother to recover, but she doesn't have to stay at home for a month to go out, or even stay in bed. You can get out of bed and exercise gradually according to your physical strength and recovery, and then restore a certain amount of exercise.

Ma Bao didn't sit on the moon and became a "monster" in others' eyes.

My family will also face confinement and parenting. As the younger generation and professionals who have been engaged in nutritional parenting for a long time, they are doomed from the beginning that they will not follow the traditional confinement.

After the baby gave birth and left the delivery room, Ma Bao was so excited that he asked himself to push the baby back to the ward. The nurse readily agreed, but she had to stay with her. It is estimated that after she chose painless delivery, she felt less pain and saved some energy. The milking went well, and the baby began to breastfeed that afternoon.

The next day we went home, and the baby was sitting with a safety basket, not an adult (some countries legislated that newborns must have a safety basket before leaving the hospital); But on the third day, Ma Bao and I took the children back to the hospital, and the newborn had to draw blood for screening. On the fourth day, Ma Bao and I walked around the community with our children in our arms. Ma Bao was wearing shorts and slippers, and everyone in the community thought what we did was incredible. Familiar people know that we work in a hospital and know how to do it.

On the first day after delivery, Ma Bao ate a normal diet as usual. She didn't drink any breast enhancement soup or milk soup, but boiled water and mineral water (milk is also available, because milk is stimulated by baby's sucking). On the first day, I took a bath and washed my hair. The air conditioner was turned on to 25 degrees, but I didn't eat cold drinks because she didn't usually eat much. If you are in your hometown, you are not allowed to go out, wash your hair, take a bath or give your baby a bath for 100 days. Think about what will happen in summer.

Later, as long as the outdoor temperature is suitable, Ma Bao and I will take the baby out, sometimes holding the baby and sometimes pushing it with a cart. In fact, we also have resistance. Ma Bao's parents are typical traditional confinement, but fortunately they don't interfere too much and occasionally say a few words.

Our baby is almost two months old, and Ma Bao is recovering well. Baby 1 1 kg. On one occasion, Ma Bao said that her waist was still a little sleepy, and her mother felt that she didn't do it well the next month. Ma Bao said: "I didn't have a confinement at all, and the confinement I brought was not done well." After all, the baby is mainly brought by Ma Bao alone, and sometimes it takes a long time to comfort the baby, so I haven't slept. As we haven't been in confinement, we took our baby to Zijin Mountain, Nanjing Eye, Xuanwu Lake, Zoo and other places. Ma Bao is very happy and naturally has more energy to take care of the children.

Take the baby to Nanjing Eye with Ma Bao.

Therefore, one month after the puerperium, Ma Bao is not unable to go out, and there are not so many taboos. We should abandon the backward concept of confinement and be a young mother with scientific parenting. Bao's parents need to learn scientific parenting concepts. With the knowledge reserve, they can speak with confidence. But breaking this tradition requires a process, understanding and support, otherwise it will affect family harmony. In the face of reminders or accusations from others, we sometimes just smile and don't answer, or explain a few words. Only when you are in a good mood can you have more energy to take care of your baby.

Recover the weak body after delivery.

This is what we call confinement. We girls sit for a month and boys sit for forty days. In fact, the reason why we don't let mom go out is that she can have a good rest, can't blow her hair at home, can't wear a hat, can't wear long trousers, and even more sadly, can't turn on the electric fan air conditioner in summer. In fact, these are all afraid that my mother will catch a cold and have a moon disease. Another reason is that it is inconvenient to take care of children when they are sick, and they are afraid that children will be infected.

I don't know the customs of other places, and I don't know much about them. Let's talk about our customs in Ningxia!

First of all, after giving birth to a baby, you should be confined for at least one month. There are many things you can't do this month, such as not taking a shower, brushing your teeth and not touching cold water. You can't wear it too thin yet, but you should cover it thick. This is also influenced by traditional customs, so we have no choice but to do so. Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law suffered greatly. They think that the poor sitting on the moon has led to the current backache and numbness of hands and feet.

Secondly, there is a strange custom in some places that you can't go out in confinement, saying that it is easy to be stepped on milk when you go out, and there is no milk when you go home. In fact, we all know that milk is related to personal physique and eating mood, but the old man believed that statement. I remember the second time I went out, my mother asked me to put a bun and comb in my pocket, and I forgot what to pay attention to.

Finally, talk about what happened in my second month. The old people refused to take a bath, so I secretly washed them when they went out. If you don't want to eat, let your husband secretly buy it back and wait until midnight to eat it; Don't let it out, just sneak out while the children sleep with them. In my opinion, it's really weak after giving birth, but as long as you have a good rest, you can recover your strength in a week, and then you can do whatever you want! Personal views are related to personal physique, so we can't generalize and do what we can.

You are not allowed to go out for one month after giving birth to a baby, because you have to "confinement", and confinement has a lot to pay attention to. Although some are superstitious, some are indeed based on science.

For example, the mother has just given birth to a child with weak constitution and decreased resistance; A baby who has just arrived in a new environment from the womb needs a good rest, restores his physique and adapts to the environment.

Therefore, pregnant women should cultivate and adjust their bodies, and better guide and train their babies to adapt to the new world.

One month after giving birth to a baby, people often say confinement. There are many precautions for confinement, mainly for fear of catching cold. If mother catches a cold during childbirth, she will get moon disease. If she has the moon disease, it will not be easy to treat. Not only are women not allowed to go out for a month, but the food they eat during confinement must be soft and rotten, otherwise their teeth will easily get sick. If the tooth is sick, mother will be very painful. It's not easy to treat. When I was in confinement, my teeth got sick because I ate something hard. After a long treatment, it was finally cured. Especially painful, I spent a lot of money without saying anything, and I also confessed a lot of crimes.

I hope that maternal friends will pay more attention to their health, keep warm during confinement, protect their bodies, avoid eating hard things and protect their teeth. Only healthy people are the happiest.

Don't let go out to protect your health. I don't think this is a bad habit and feudal superstition. It has been circulating for thousands of years, and there is still a reason. Maybe modern medicine will explain that there is no such thing, but if you ask the old Chinese doctor, he must have said something about him.

Many people say that giving birth to a child is another rebirth of a woman; So it's not unreasonable, because after giving birth, all aspects of your body need to be restored. If you are not careful, your body may leave hidden dangers of disease in the future. It's like if you don't pay attention during a serious illness, you will leave sequelae.

If nothing else, my mother said that when my sister and I were born, the conditions were poor at that time, and there was no one to take care of us, so we ran in and out in slippers. In this way, her hands and feet will lose that thick layer of skin all the year round. . .

Is that the face will be blown by the wind, and there will be many spots in the future. So you'd better wrap your head after going out, or you'll have a migraine when the wind blows.

Don't feel superstitious, even if you believe it, it won't do you any harm. Anyway, I survived the pregnancy in June 5438+10, and I don't care about those days, do I?

I don't know why the parturient should rest and recuperate after delivery, but whether it's abdominal incision or natural delivery, if the parturient has a lateral incision, it actually has the same wound as abdominal incision, and some lateral incisions may not recover as fast as abdominal incision.

At this time, most people may not find the problem. They say some women need a rest, but they are really doing very tired work. They get up day and night to feed, suck and change diapers, and they are seriously short of sleep. Some good women have a month, go to the month center, and the bad ones may not even have care, but they have to take care of their own children. No matter how high the outdoor temperature is, many women need long clothes, trousers and hats.

Some people may have a good rest, but most people still can't have a good rest. Personal opinion does not allow you to go out just for rest.