1, creating a harmonious atmosphere
Parents should create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for introverted children and let them feel love and respect. In this environment, they will feel relaxed and happy, speak freely, dare to communicate with their parents, and easily form a lively and cheerful personality.
2. Communicate with peers more.
Parents can take their children to their peers' homes or invite them to play together. When children taste the taste of the young master, they are usually excited and happy, and are busy greeting their little guests, thus unconsciously enhancing their self-confidence and shaping their cheerful personality.
3. Protect children's self-esteem
Parents should protect their children's self-esteem, care about their behavior, encourage their children to talk more, and don't take rude and simple education to deprive their children of their right to speak. Parents should also consciously cultivate their children's ability to cope with difficulties, maintain a positive and optimistic mood, and put temporary depression behind them.
4. Actively communicate with children.
Children who are introverted usually talk less. At this time, parents need to communicate with their children more, understand their real thoughts and needs, correctly guide their children to express their views on things, and encourage them to communicate with friends through language.
Children's introverted performance
Compared with cheerful children, introverted children will have significantly different behaviors. If parents can't judge whether the child is introverted, they can judge and distinguish according to the following performance.
1, introverted children love to play by themselves and are not very gregarious.
2. introverted children are very careful and meticulous.
3. introverted children are silent and don't like to talk to others.
4. introverted children are easy to be embarrassed in public.
5, introverted children tend to be shy and often hide behind the crowd.
6. introverted children cringe and often worry about this and that.
7. introverted children are unwilling to accept orders from others and go it alone.
8. Introverted children love to hear the voice of praise and need their recognition.
What causes children to be introverted?
There are many reasons for children's introversion, so parents should understand and analyze the reasons for children's introversion in order to help prescribe the right medicine.
1, caused by genetic factors, that is to say, some parents or relatives of each generation are introverted.
2. Children imitate the personality of adults. Children's imitation ability is very strong, and if parents are introverted, it will also have a certain impact on children.
3. The only child lacks playmates of the same age and may be introverted.
4. In the process of children's growth, they suffered some mental injuries without timely counseling, resulting in psychological shadows and introverted personality.
Children who are frightened during pregnancy have a weak sense of security, and may become introverted after birth because of their weak sense of security.
6. Parents overprotect their children and everything is arranged for them. Too much intervention in children's behavior will also lead to children's introversion.
7. Language development is slow, and there are obstacles in daily communication with children of the same age, which will also cause some children to be introverted.
Generally speaking, the reasons for children's introversion are various and cannot be listed one by one. Parents should pay attention to observing and analyzing the reasons in order to better improve their children's personality.
How to educate children's introversion
People simply think that extroversion is good and introversion is bad. Parents should correct this misconception. There is no good or bad personality. First of all, we should respect the differences in personality, and then educate our children to develop better. So how should children be educated if they are introverted?
1, don't treat it with anger and indifference.
Introverted children will feel scared and criticized when they see adults look wrong. If you treat them in an angry tone at this time, they will not speak and will close themselves up.
2. Praise introverted children.
Children like their actions to be affirmed and praised by others, especially introverted children. Unlike extroverted children, the praise they need should be gentle, not loud. They are thin-skinned and shy.
3. Guide introverted children to express more.
Communication is the best way for people to communicate with each other. Introverted children are not bad at expressing themselves, but unlike extroverted children, they are passive and prefer to be listeners. Parents need to observe what they say, give them a sense of security and give them more guidance, then they are willing to express.
4. Don't urge introverted children to make decisions.
Children with introverted personality are more passive, and both behavioral and emotional responses will be slower. In the process of solving the problem, parents should not rush him to make a decision too quickly. They need time to think clearly and have enough reasons to convince him to make a decision. They will not cooperate if they are urged blindly.
Parents should be bold in the face of introverted children.
Introverted children like to pursue perfection and need to be meticulous in everything. If you pay too much attention to details, you will ignore the overall situation. At this time, parents should not be too serious and bold, which will become more atmospheric. Try not to give them a chance to get into a dead end, lest they become more sensitive and serious. ...
How to correct children's introversion
As we mentioned before, children's introversion is caused by many reasons. We may not be able to change their personalities for a while, but we can try to correct them slowly. Let's see what parents should do.
1, take more children to the parties of relatives and friends.
2. Ask children to invite friends to their homes more often.
3. Take more children to participate in social activities.
4. Give him an interest class according to his wishes.
In addition to the above points, parents should pay attention to their children's daily behavior in addition to more contact with the outside world.
Let the children encounter difficulties appropriately. Even if the introverted child feels insecure, parents can't do everything for him, let him encounter some difficulties and setbacks appropriately, and exercise the child's problem-solving ability.
Don't call children cowards. Introverted children are thin-skinned and prone to shyness and embarrassment. Parents should stop calling him a coward, which is undoubtedly a label of shyness. They should give priority to encouragement and open more doors for him.
Don't expect children to be popular. Introverted children don't need applause from hundreds of people. What they need is a few real friends who can appreciate them. Therefore, parents should not force their children to become stars.
Finally, remind parents that the correction of introverted children's personality is a long process, and don't expect it to happen overnight. Introversion is not autism, it is harmless in itself. Parents have enough patience and care to correct it, and believe that their children will be better improved.