Gesell, an American psychologist, put forward a viewpoint: "Any training or education content has an' optimal education period' for a specific trainee!
This sentence is used in children's education, which can be understood as follows: every child's physical and mental development is different, and their "best education period" will be different. For example, you send a six-month-old child to an early education class. His physical and mental development has not yet reached that stage, and he can't get the so-called development in early education classes. However, the content of early education classes has increased to the age level of school age, which is actually very broad and the teaching content is similar. Therefore, I am afraid I will be disappointed if I spend money on early education classes and want my children to win at the starting line.
Early education classes are not desirable, but "early education" is very important!
The first teacher of early education is parents, and the initial knowledge of children comes from parents, which is a potential impression left by observing their daily words and behaviors. This kind of natural instinct teaching is incomparable to any expensive early education class, and the early education provided by parents is accompanied by lifelong benefits for children.
Parent-child companionship is better than early education classes. Parents who attach importance to family early education will definitely attach importance to the education of parent-child relationship. Compared with cramming knowledge, the quality of parent-child companionship and education in the name of love is undoubtedly higher, which will benefit their children.
The best early education is "family education". Family early education is irreplaceable, whether children attend early education classes or not. In other words, if the economic base allows, parents can try to choose one or two early education enlightenment contents for their children as an aid, but it is not necessary. Don't be swollen and fat, parents must do what they can.
In view of the demand of commercial advertisements, the publicity of early education classes is also hype. Many parents gave up their armor and surrendered under the attack of these "sugar-coated shells", but the real early education was not given by these early education classes, but by the words and deeds of parents and family members.
The Importance of "Early Family Education" to Children
Dostoevsky, a famous German educator, said: "The art of education lies not in the ability to impart, but in inspiration, awakening and encouragement."
Therefore, parents should never give their children to early education classes on the grounds that they have poor academic qualifications and do not know how to educate their children.
★ Enlightenment education. Early family education is the most basic education for children, which can also be called children's enlightenment education. This kind of education seems simple, but it affects children's cognitive ability and learning ability to the world to a certain extent. Smart parents will not miss the golden age to lead their children into enlightenment education.
★ Conducive to the development of children's good character. Parents attach importance to early family education, which not only enables children to acquire simple basic knowledge and master basic life skills, but also maintains the harmony of family relations. At the same time, parents' views on people and things will also affect children, and it is easy for children to develop a good character.
★ Promote closer parent-child relationship. Early family education is an effective channel to promote parent-child relationship. In the interactive process of family early education, children will increase their sense of dependence and admiration for their parents, and parents can know their children better, so this is a win-win process.
What are the main contents of "early family education"?
● Learning of life skills. Many children grow up to be "life idiots". Clothes can't be washed, quilts can't be folded and so on And all kinds of capital embarrassment. Parents should bring their children's life skills training into the scope of early family education, so that children can master these simple skills and have the ability to live independently.
● Cultivate children's independence. Sooner or later, children will fly high. The most precious gift parents give them is to teach them the ability to fly independently. Therefore, in early family education, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's independence, don't develop the bad habit of relying on their parents for everything, and encourage their children to learn to think independently and do it by themselves as much as possible.
● Guidance of personality. Early family education does not simply refer to imparting knowledge, but refers to the overall influence on children, which covers psychological development, language development, behavioral habits and other comprehensive aspects. And the old saying goes: "Three years old and eighty years old." All these are because the child's personality has been gradually formed in the early childhood before the age of 3, so wise parents should pay attention to the guidance of early family education.
In short, the guide of family early education lies in parents, not so-called early education classes. Different children develop fast and slow. Parents can't take medicine in order, but should pay attention to the physiological and psychological changes of children in different periods through interaction with them, give timely and correct guidance, instill corresponding knowledge and skills in their children at the right age, and let them develop good habits.
In the early morning, my mother came to talk: a second-born mother who started writing in the early morning, I wrote my heart by hand, and everything was my parenting experience with my children. I hope my parenting experience can bring you some help. (The picture in this article comes from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact to delete it. )