If you love life and cherish the blessings, these things are delicious, beautiful and fun in your eyes. Your heart will be softer.
Some things don't need to be asked. How was breakfast today? Just look at the results. Then go to find the reason, sometimes children can't eat because of spleen and stomach weakness. Sometimes it's because of emotions.
For the first time, many parents have no experience in raising children, raising them too carefully, and all aspects are very satisfied. As new mothers, we have no self, only children in our eyes. Such children are brought up to harm others and ourselves. When you grow up slowly, when you can't satisfy all of her, her psychological gap will be great. Unfortunately, I didn't understand it at the time.
In fact, all parents should live a good life and enrich themselves, so that their children can live better, instead of constantly paying, not just satisfying their wishes. Such a family is deformed and empty.
Teach children to be better themselves, not the skills of being human. Those early childhood education, all kinds of prenatal education and all kinds of puzzle classes are ultimately too discouraged. We should teach children to cultivate their character. Unfortunately, the utilitarian nature of society makes most parents pay little attention to this aspect.
We all rushed into marriage without learning to be better ourselves, and we didn't learn to better assume our respective roles in marriage. When we grow up better in marriage and start to be parents, we will not start to be anxious when parents teach their children, for fear that children will lose at the starting line and desperately participate in various trainings everywhere. We neglected too many things that should have been done well.
I have to go to school tomorrow, so I didn't take her to play well this holiday. Before the festival, I was depressed because I forgot to have my car inspected, and I actually blamed myself for making such a low-level mistake. Also because a person has to face the anxiety of many problems.
Fortunately, all kinds of problems will be solved when the holidays come.
Nowadays, children study hard and face all kinds of pressures at an early age. Because of my own health, I have also reduced a lot of socializing, and my children have less contact with people. Just entering a new school, she also needs to get used to her new classmates. Sometimes she becomes sensitive and anxious. Because I don't know how to deal with many things, and I don't communicate with my mother anymore. Many things have to be faced alone.
Mom can only worry when she looks at it.
The only thing I can do is to make her eat happily and have fun, so that she can have more strength to do her own thing. This society is progressing too fast, and the requirements for everyone are constantly improving. Parents should not only do their own thing, manage the environment at home, stabilize their children's emotions and teach them well, but also know some psychological and emotional comfort to make their children feel better.
Being ill for two days, the child fell behind in his homework. Today, my friend invited me to go camping outdoors, so I can't attend. Look at the photos they sent in front. They are all in a beautiful mood, very beautiful. For me, a workaholic, these can't tempt me at all. I am very happy to watch writing at home. But the children need to go out and see the light of day. My daughter is very lost.
She finished her homework at 7 pm and cried. She felt that the holiday was suddenly gone. In a bad mood. Apologize and ask her where she wants to go. It's so late, naturally there is no place to go, and it's too late to meet a girl friend. They all had dinner.
So I took her to the nearby night market to feel popular. I found a shop to eat delicious food today. The environment is very good, and the baby eats happily. Every time you are unhappy, it seems that someone will help you open the surprise.
French fries are delicious and rice is delicious. Grateful!
After buying all kinds of food, my daughter became happy again and stopped saying silly things about not wanting to go to school. I think she should have the energy to face things she doesn't want to face again!
I also bought two pairs of earrings that I like. That store is Yintai's exclusive store. It is said that the merchants who come to the night market are also strictly screened by the government.
In front of the booth, two girls are choosing. When they saw me coming, they naturally gave me advice and said that my temperament was very suitable for pearls. Their advice is very good and thoughtful. I can't believe people are so powerful now. I can only understand you at a glance. I also asked the store in doubt that I was in a hurry to go out today, wearing a long cotton and linen dress, and I couldn't see any color. That coarse dress is completely invisible.
The owner is a beautiful post-95 s. She said that her sister's temperament is a person who likes to drink tea, read and write, and her temperament is very gentle. Let me know what you are suitable for by reference.
Maybe people nowadays are really amazing. I can see through you at a glance in the dark. I still feel too low. Do you want to learn to pretend later? Otherwise, it looks easy to bully people at first sight.
My daughter eats what she likes, and I buy what suits me. Everyone is very happy. I just got back late, and it's hard for my daughter to go to school early tomorrow morning. Let's cheer together.
The master said:
In the face of some people's attacks, don't hate them, don't fight back, be tolerant and love them more. After such a long time, they will regret it, feel that they are wrong, and will get better. If we fight back, they will be more resentful and persistent, and worse things will come out. "
Now you will meet all kinds of people in your life. If someone hates you and treats you badly, you should be tolerant and treat them well. Don't argue with them. Over time, they will change.
Good night, today, holiday tail!
Good night, those individuals are rich!
If you want to be a better self, you must see a bigger world, know more wonderful people and learn more extensive knowledge. You don't need too much praise from others, because you know how good you are. The strength of the heart is always better than the glitz of the appearance.