? The TV series "Thirty without Nothing" is being broadcasted, and there are many love rat. The only good man is Xu Ziyan. Many netizens call Xu Ziyan cute and caring, and really want to have a son with the same model. Alas, they also want to trick others into having children. If you want to have the same lovely and sensible Xu Ziyan, you deserve these dry goods!
? First, accompany children to grow up and make them feel safe.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's behavior is deeply influenced by parents, and children's behavior reveals their parents' shadow. Parents are the closest people to children, and children grow up only once. Parents accompany their children to grow up, and children will have more confidence and security! There is such a scene in the play. When Gu Jia and Xu Ziyan were having dinner, Xu Ziyan suddenly said, "Mom, I like you so much?" Gu Jia quickly said, "Mom likes you, too!" "But I still like my mother best! Because you will always be with me! " In the child's time, the longer you spend with him, the more he will like you. Children who grow up with their parents are more cheerful, more secure and more confident.
? Second, explain to children what this job is.
? Don't miss time with children because of work, and don't use work as an excuse. You should explain to your children what a job is. In the play, Gu Jia's family of three went to Beijing, and Xu Huanshan was busy visiting the amusement park. Gu Jia accompanied Xu Ziyan to the amusement park. When Xu Ziyan wanted to play racing again, he told his mother that he was cute and said with grievance, "Every time is work!" ! At that time, Xu Ziyan thought that work meant that parents could not accompany their enemies and were hostile to work. After Gu Jia explained to Xu Ziyan what work is and why adults go out to work, Xu Ziyan didn't hate it so much. Xu Ziyan thought that Dad worked to make money to buy toys for him, but Gu Jia said to him, "It's hard for Dad to go out to work. The home where we live is a huge castle. Dad will bring back a brick every time he goes out, so that our castle will become stronger and stronger. He has gone out to fight monsters. " When Xu Ziyan heard that he was fighting monsters, he was refreshed and asked his mother, "When can I fight monsters?" Establishing a correct concept of work for children from an early age can cultivate their sense of responsibility and make them respect their work and labor.
? Third, communicate with children in their words.
Adults have their own language in the world, and children also have their own language in the world. If you communicate with your child in an adult's language, your child won't understand, and it may even be counterproductive. Children's understanding is limited, their world is different from that of adults, and their words are different from those of adults. Gu Jia's father advised her to stand up and be a man. Everything smells like her father, and Gu Jia drove away happily. Seeing his happy mother, Xu Ziyan asked her why she was happy. "Your grandfather gave me reassurance." "Is it reassuring candy? I want to eat too. " Gu Jia said that the reassurance is sugar. In children's cognition, they will imagine some unfamiliar words as their favorite or familiar food. At this time, I will communicate with them according to their words, which can further increase my feelings.
Want to have a baby like Xu Ziyan? Then spend more time with the children. If you can't accompany your child in time, you should also explain to your child the reasons for your work. Communicating with them in their familiar language can increase feelings and enjoy a good parent-child time together.