2, dressing: ever-changing magic carpet, magic carpet can dress people, father is for the baby, mother is the audience; Dressing for the competition, the fastest person in the world, mom wearing dad's, mom wearing dad's, all kinds of performances for quick.
3. Brush your teeth: The children are their own teachers, demonstrating to brush their teeth for various toys. The parents are brushing robots, and all parts of the body are applied to functions.
4. Parents are children's toys: pretending to be robots, touching various parts will make different sounds, such as all kinds of laughter, animal sounds, funny language and so on. When I was a hippo who just wanted to sleep, a little monkey came to make trouble, and the hippo shook its body desperately to shake the little monkey down.
5. Push-down game: Sitting on the sofa or bed in various postures, a good boy pushes down, pretends to be pushed down, changes his posture unconvinced, and finally is pushed down and says 1- 10, just like a boxing match, even if he counts to ten, he can't get up, and he wins.
6. Going out: TV drama simulation watched by children, such as 007, pretending to be a bad guy and loading a bomb in the room, counting down to 60 seconds to explode.
7. On the road: stepping on shadows, picking up things, simulating and exaggerating various scenes, how can I not step on them? I found it.
8. Eat: The confused animal breeder said that the meal for an animal was ready, delicious, spicy or not, and changed the name of the animal. Pretend that you are a variety of animals to send meals to children, let the children guess what animals you are, and let the children ask what animals send meals; Let the children watch the food, don't let other people or animals eat it, go out by themselves, and the other party will secretly say that we ate it and then tell him that it was eaten by others.
9. Take medicine: imitate anime characters and make a bet that making magic water will guide children to steal and become stronger.
10. Go home: Go home with your child in various positions. I was enchanted by children, and my mother became a rabbit, a duck, a penguin and so on. Then I jump like a rabbit and walk with my baby in my arms like a duck or penguin.
1 1. Turn off electronic products: children can use their own timers and count to 10 before turning them off. Let the children count by themselves, all kinds of timer failures can be changed, and parents can toss and repair the machine; Parents imitate themselves as monsters stealing children's toys, and children protect their toys; Realize the scene in the game.
12, the fragrance of love: the bottle of body lotion is painted with love, which is said to be the love of mom and dad. You should spread love all over your body and say how cute and smooth it is. Your feet and your little belly legs are lovely, the cutest in the world.
13, looking for rabbits: put plush toys in clothes, guide children to find, rob and steal, start pretending to sleep, make it easy for children to take them away, and then slowly make it difficult for children to take them away. All kinds of exaggerated expressions and tones say that they are hard to find and can't be taken away. They are the most powerful wizards and can't be taken away.
14. Robots obey instructions: children give various instructions and we will carry them out. When we encounter instructions that cannot be executed, we need to use our imagination to solve them through playing house. This game can cultivate children's control and enhance their self-confidence.
Rule: it's to regulate the current behavior, but behavior is not attitude. If the rules are enforced, the child's attitude is naturally bad. Don't worry about attitude, just regulate behavior. These rules are in force. Don't blame yourself for what you said yesterday, or whether you can keep it next time.
Action stops, only for behavior, no language attacks, and dissatisfaction is allowed.
The long-term goal of the rules is self-discipline, about five years old, giving 100% control and good parent-child relationship. The premise of self-discipline is to give 100% control.
Delayed gratification (marshmallow experiment): Take the initiative to delay and give up immediate interests for long-term benefits. Almost five years old.
Yell at children: Try not to yell. If the reprimand is effective, don't continue to scold the child and understand the child's feelings of being stopped.
Swearing and painting on the wall, the big probability is to find a sense of control. Just like a bouncy ball will come out when you press the red button, you can play games with children and swear, but you can't say buns. The child said that steamed bread should react, and so should painting on the wall.
Children love to buy from buy buy: There are three main reasons, one is curiosity, the other is social need, and the third is sense of control. If you don't agree with the child's request, you should understand his dissatisfaction, explain the reasons and refuse directly. Don't talk, just buy it happily.
People who lack love will easily fall into material desires, because only things can make them feel loved, so they should be given more affirmation of love, hugs of love, games of love and gifts of love.
Homework: Let the children charge first and play with them for a while to eliminate the fatigue of a day's class. We don't want someone to tell us when we get home from work, why do we have to work overtime at night? You can accompany your child to overcome difficulties when he starts to do his homework. Don't worry if you can't write. You can pause and write again. When checking homework, you can use games to let your child be a teacher, and finally complete the self-examination.
The child is young and inattentive, and needs to be reminded. You can make a reminder with your child, and then you should be relaxed and humorous without emotional reminder. Imitate animal calls, robot sounds, clapping hands, etc.
Timid, cautious: it is the instinct of animals to protect themselves. Don't blame, adjust your fears. Don't say it's fake, there's nothing to be afraid of. Understand children's fears, hug them, and let them get out of nervous fears in a humorous way. You can watch a movie, arouse your emotions, visualize them, name them and visualize them. Children should always feel that their parents will protect her.
Afraid of washing your hair and flushing the toilet: you should show understanding, such as flushing the toilet, keeping children away and giving instructions. Parents flush the toilet in an exaggerated and funny way, slowly let the children get close to the toilet, parents flush, parents cover their ears, and children are not afraid when they flush.
Sleeping alone: There is no need to force children to sleep alone. It is better for children to sleep with their parents before they are four years old. After the age of four, help children overcome the fear of sleeping alone. Just because a child doesn't cry doesn't mean that the child is not afraid.
Facing fear: the purpose of exercising the ability to face fear is to exercise adaptability, not to achieve something. For example, if you are afraid of entering the room alone, you can go in with them first and observe the child's state. The child is relaxed, which shows that it is far from the critical point of fear. You can continue to try to stand at the door, which is 1.2 meters away from the door, so that you can go deeper and deeper, find the critical line, practice repeatedly at the critical line, and try to blow away the scary hair, that is, breathe.
Find the critical line: you can't get ready at the beginning, you'd rather be far away than near.
Parent-child separation: leave calmly, calm emotions and have a happy reunion.
When picking up children from school, it's best not to ask questions and give them more love. Play more tactile games, exaggerate hugs, play more cards, wreaths and sing more miss songs. Mom misses you. What's the smell of missing you? It's chocolate Bring a chocolate to the baby. If you are in a bad mood, comfort yourself first.