Children need parents to pay a lot of money to cultivate their abilities from birth to adulthood. It is also necessary for parents to take time out to accompany their children's growth.
Therefore, it is not easy to raise children to grow up. Only those who have been parents can realize this difficulty.
Many families are pursuing their own lives. Although they have released their second child, the birth rate has not increased. Even after getting married, some young people still choose not to have children for the time being because of the pressure of mortgage, car loan and work.
Although the second child and third child have been released now, people still choose not to have children for various reasons. It shows that people are more rational.
Therefore, if you don't have a second child or a third child, you won't regret it in the long run. 1, triplets can't afford to raise, which is mainly manifested in the high cost of confinement, high cost of nanny and high cost of early education kindergarten. The four old people above and the three young people below are under great pressure in life and work. There are also fees for training classes and remedial classes with various interests, expensive college fees, and high expenses for food, clothing and use.
2. Physiologically speaking, having more children can easily lead to female pelvic floor muscle damage, leading to physiological changes such as uterine prolapse and postpartum vaginal relaxation.
3, having three children will definitely increase the pressure of life. If economic conditions permit, of course, you can consider having three children. After all, it won't cause too much pressure. However, if the economic price adjustment is not good, it must be carefully considered. After all, it is not easy to raise children now. Think about it, don't leave regrets for life, don't regret it. Don't go with the flow, let alone be too busy to follow the trend, and make a decision that suits you according to the actual situation.
Children have fewer benefits than children, and children have more benefits. This depends on your own ideas. A child is a complete individual. If you decide to be born, you must be responsible for him. Don't abandon him because of regret.