The first point lies in the ideological problems of native children. Before the opening of the two-child policy, there was generally only one child in the family, which was very favored, which also caused children's psychological rejection of their younger brothers and sisters. When many parents choose to have two children, they don't communicate with your children carefully, or even ignore their feelings, which will cause a great mental impact on their children and have a great impact on family harmony. If the guidance is not in place, there will be things that older children hurt their children. After all, when many families have two children, the first child is already very old and will have his own judgment, which is not so easy to control.
Secondly, it has caused many problems for older women to have children. After the opening of the two-child policy, many families will choose to enter the stage of having children urgently, but many women are too old to have children. However, in order to satisfy their psychological demands of having two children, they will also try to take risks. Although the country's medical means have made great progress and the risk of female childbirth has been greatly reduced, there are still high risks in the process of pregnancy and childbirth, and not all families are suitable for having a second child.
Third, the pressure of raising children will increase greatly. At present, the cost of raising children in our society is very high, and many families want to have a second child without careful consideration, which leads to the family income can not offset the children's education funds, which affects the family's quality of life and will also have a certain impact on the development of children. Nowadays, many young people choose Dink because the cost of raising children is too high. For married families, having two children is a psychological hurdle that is difficult to cross. Many people will give birth to their children when their minds are hot, but they ignore their own economic strength and whether they can afford it.
The emergence of social contradictions always needs to be slowly run-in and solved. After the exciting period when this policy has just been liberalized, everyone will gradually wake up. Before the full opening of the two-child policy, people predicted that the opening of the two-child policy would not cause a population explosion, and many social factors would greatly reduce everyone's desire to have children. The policy of opening up only gives people who want to have two children more choices, and most people will rationally measure whether they have the conditions to raise two children.
Once the policy is opened, there will inevitably be a painful adaptation period. Through the efforts of the state and society, these problems can be effectively solved, and will not become long-term social contradictions and affect the development of the country. Generally speaking, the advantages of fully opening up the two-child policy outweigh the disadvantages, but many benefits will not appear until ten or twenty years later.