My future plan is to settle in Chengdu, but my family is from Liaoning, so I can't work in Chengdu after graduation, and my girlfriend is also in Chengdu. My parents also want me to travel around the world alone.
This means that I will be very busy at work in the future, and I may really have no time to take care of the children.
Fortunately, I have learned the knowledge of pediatric nursing, and I can take good care of my children's health after work.
I really want to give my child to my parents.
Parents are inevitably lonely when they are old, and it is not bad to have a grandson to accompany them every day.
Secondly, my parents taught me a lot about being a man in my growing education. "People can not believe in ghosts and gods, but they must believe in their own conscience." My mother's words have long been in my heart. "Men should put the happiness of their families first, and don't put the cart before the horse." My father's teaching became the cornerstone of my efforts. I hope my child can be disciplined by my parents. Since he was a child, he has established his family-centered thinking and acted according to his conscience.
However, in this way, the problem of children going to school and the relationship with their parents have become a headache. Long-term delivery to grandparents will make children dilute the influence of their parents and lead to alienation from their parents. This alienation from childhood is difficult to correct, and grandparents' doting on children will also lead to indulgence of children's personality and rules.
I think the best way is to take care of all primary schools from birth to birth, cultivate feelings and enhance the sense of father and son, and give them to grandparents during the winter and summer vacations.