The couple were very anxious, so they took their children for an examination. I have heard many old people say that a child's hands can tell whether he has talent or not. Ronaldinho's relatives and friends are all against this superstition. But Xiao Juan and Ronaldinho don't think this is superstition. They think that children's brain development can be judged by their hands. But maybe they made a mistake and thought it was palm reading. In fact, they can judge whether they are talented or not through their daily life.
Suhomlinski said that children's intelligence is on his finger shoulders. Psychologist Piaget said: "The flowers of wisdom are at your fingertips." So many famous educators and scholars have said that children's IQ can be reflected by their hands. In fact, you shouldn't wait until your child grows up to take the exam. Professor Li Meijin, a well-known expert in criminal psychology in China, once said: "Whether children are smart or not can be seen from their hands, and they don't have to wait until they grow up."
We can judge whether a child is smart or not by his hands.
First, infants have flexible fingers.
I remember once going to a wedding reception and finding a particularly lovely baby. He is about one and a half years old. Although he can't speak complete sentences, he can only speak a few simple syllables, but his fingers are particularly flexible. As it is not time for dinner, he seems a little hungry. Mother took some baby biscuits out of her backpack and gave it to him. His mother gave him a small biscuit, but he didn't eat it. His left hand sensitively grasped the biscuit given by his mother, but his right hand stretched out to ask her for another piece.
Mother also cooperated and gave him a small biscuit. Now he has a biscuit in his left hand and a biscuit in his right hand, which means there are two biscuits. I thought he wanted to eat cookies, but I didn't expect him to pass cookies from his left hand to his right hand, and his right hand succeeded in having two. He stretched out his left hand and shouted to his mother for another biscuit. Mother thought the child was very interesting and clever, so she gave him another biscuit. By this time, he had three biscuits. For children over one year old, although they can't speak complete sentences, they can use gestures flexibly and freely, and they can also make adults understand what he means. I have to say that children use the coordination of their left and right hands to achieve their goals, which is simply seamless.
Children at each stage will have different clever performances. Older children like to play with Rubik's Cube or building blocks. Through this series of coordination, it is also very helpful for his brain development. Like the example I just gave, this is a real thing. I believe our careful mother will observe the baby in her daily life. If the child is very original in this respect, then we should actively cultivate his IQ development.
Second, children like graffiti painting.
Children are curious about graffiti when they are about three years old, which is also the first stage of their imagination, because they don't know anything about painting at that time. Although they have not contacted any teachers for guidance, it has a good development space for their imaginative thinking. Children will go through a sensitive period of painting when they are young. If he successfully passes this sensitive period of painting, then his talent in painting will be fully displayed. Many parents may not accept children doodling everywhere, especially the walls at home.
But our star family, Deng Chao and Sun Li, are happy to accept their children's crazy paintings. Because it was when they experienced the sensitive period of painting that they developed a love for painting, and this love could not be expressed in words. They can only combine imaginary images with their own hands and brains, and then show their inner feelings step by step with a brush.
I still remember a little girl who painted murals in Tik Tok after 1990, which was particularly popular some time ago. Her fans have exceeded one million. His success did not happen overnight. The murals she painted are lifelike. I still remember a peacock, just like what I saw in the zoo. Her success was not achieved overnight, but through her accumulation for so many years. She loved drawing since she was a child, and she never stopped except for the support and encouragement of her parents. Many times we think that a child has no talent, but we bury his talent. When his hand shows the consciousness of painting, we should encourage it, not stop it. Maybe he is the next famous little painter.
Third, children like to be disassembly experts.
As we all know, there are many famous scientists at home and abroad. Although they have achieved fame and success, it is not difficult to find that when they were young, they all had a common feature, that is, their hands-on ability was particularly strong. When they were young, they all knew the truth of integrating theory with practice, so they were particularly thorough in practical operation.
It's not entirely because they have a particularly high IQ, but because their brains and hands have been exercised. In the process of thinking, their hands have also been coordinated and exercised, so the brain and hands complement each other and achieve each other, which makes him particularly good at a certain field.
Many children have this specialty at home, but some skills are often easily overlooked by their parents. For example, children take toys or furniture at home, disassemble them, and then assemble them. Some parents think that they are making trouble and are too busy to take care of their own behavior. Some parents are very clever. They not only encourage and agree with their work, but also patiently teach their children how to disassemble it faster.
If you want to do a good job, you must sharpen your tools first. Nowadays, parents attach great importance to their children's achievements, but their intellectual development does not necessarily depend entirely on their academic achievements. We can explore children with high IQ through the coordination of children's hands and brains. Edison, our great inventor, had a very strong practical ability when he was a child. He was able to achieve such good results, but also benefited from his mother's patient recognition of the child's childhood practices. Let's wait for the flowers to bloom more patiently. Maybe this child is the next Edison.