It is normal for babies to have these abnormal behaviors before they are three years old. Parents should not prevent their babies from having certain behaviors when they are young, which makes parents very upset, such as eating fingers, biting or biting, hitting people, and some haggle over every ounce, which makes parents think that their children have a tendency to deteriorate, and parents will stop them. Actually, this is normal. Once this behavior is stopped, it will cause more problems for children in the future.
1, when the baby is about two years old, it is a greedy period. He likes to explore everything with his mouth Only by biting can he be satisfied. Many parents think it is a bad habit when they see their children biting their nails, but it is actually a normal phenomenon. During the craving period, you can prepare some molar biscuits and silicone toys. In this way, children will not bite their fingers or people if they have something to bite.
2, the baby also likes to slap people with his fingers. In fact, this is a child's physiological sensitive period, and he likes to communicate with people in this way, which is a good way. And some parents think that children are hitting people, so don't stop this behavior.
3. When the baby is two to three years old, he already has a sense of property rights. Sometimes after spending a long time with his mother, he will think that his mother is his own and others can't possess it, even his father. When you have a sense of property rights, you will have a strong possessiveness, which is a normal situation in the process of growing up and should not be linked to personality.
Second, in the face of babies who like to bite, how should parents correctly guide their children to express their emotions? Many parents will loudly reprimand their children when they see them bite, thinking that they are bad children. You know, children's inner mood swings are much bigger than biting people. So it's settled. Therefore, parents will find that they are very happy with their children and suddenly they are bitten by their children. This is because children like each other very much but don't know how to express them, so they bite to close the distance between them. Of course, it is easy to hurt others in this way. Parents can teach their children to express their inner feelings correctly, such as hugging or kissing their children. Tell them it's impolite to be bitten. It can be expressed in the way that mom just hugs or kisses them.
Third, how to solve the problem that children love to beat people and tell them that it is very uncomfortable to be beaten. During the physiological sensitive period, when the baby sees the person he likes, he likes to express his liking by slapping. It's not really a slap in the face to express his inner feelings. However, parents will misunderstand their children's behavior, so parents should tell their children that slapping with their hands is an infringement on others and being beaten is a bad feeling. They should learn to express their feelings in a civilized way.
Fourth, children must have early education training before they are three years old, so that children can grow up healthily. Many parents still think that children are only three years old and there is no need to educate them in advance at such a young age. In fact, two or three-year-old children already have thinking and self-awareness. Parents must seize this golden age and cultivate their children's creativity and independent personality. For example, when children draw, don't limit the color of the painting, let them play freely. There are no rules in this world, so that children can know that the world is created by themselves.
It is normal for children to summarize these behaviors before they are three years old. Parents should guide correctly and don't stop it too much. Parents should not do everything for their children in daily life, exercise their independent character and give them enough free room to grow up.