1, children don't need to be too smart and too sharp-edged. I don't think that's a good thing; The key is to cultivate good habits;

2, the environment is very important, you have to do it right.

3, don't easily form a bad habit, so you will find that the time to correct a bad habit will be twice or three times that of forming a habit; Don't introduce new bad habits to children because of short-term interests. For example, because children don't eat, turn on the TV for children to watch, so as to achieve the purpose of feeding more.

4. Respect children and get used to empathy;

5. Tell the truth. When you find that some truths may not be effective, pay attention to your speaking skills. You'd rather say half, say diplomatic words, and don't tell lies.

6. Say what children can understand. A mother who is used to reasoning should be concise and avoid being like Tang Priest.

7. Educate children to pay attention to skills, step by step, don't eat fat, and step by step; Understand the characteristics of children now, and don't encourage them.

8. Have the foresight to know that doing so may cause children's strong resistance and compromise with themselves, so don't interfere with children, otherwise the final result will only be worse and not better.

9, eat, pay attention to a more balanced proportion, there is no need to be too fine; /kloc-before the age of 0/year, children should ensure the amount of milk; Pay attention to three meals after one year old; If you can't balance all kinds of diets in one day, it's ok to mix and balance all kinds of diets in one week.

10, children will not starve themselves.

1 1, eat in the dining chair, please leave if you don't eat.

12, don't worry too much when going out to play can't be as secure as eating at home. Pay a little attention within your ability, such as choosing a clean restaurant; Others, such as whether there is monosodium glutamate in the dish and whether the dish is green food, don't worry too much.

13, calcium supplementation or something, be conscious and not lacking; Get more sunshine.

14, not paying attention to clothes. Unintentionally

15, dressed almost like my mother.

16, dressed children, one less is better than one more. Children exercise a lot, and it is easier to catch a cold when the wind blows, and it is more difficult to get better.

17, the child has a runny nose, and put on some clothes.

18, judge hot and cold, and touch the child's back neck;

19, don't give the child a regular time, take small medicine at every turn. In the cold season, give your child some vc from time to time, or eat some fruit rich in vc every day.

20. When the cold symptoms are mild, if it is just a runny nose, you don't need to take medicine at first, you can wash it more; Most colds are viral, and viruses have no specific drugs. /kloc-just take the medicine for 0/4 days, and don't take the medicine for 2 weeks. Many times it is the psychological comfort of adults themselves.

2 1, if you go to the hospital with a cold and fever, try to ask for a blood test;

22. Is it possible for a person not to get sick? Impossible; Therefore, don't panic when your child has a cold or a minor illness. Dialectically speaking, a cold is equivalent to an injection. There is no need to pay too much attention to this macro-inevitable thing.

23, play is not afraid of dirty

24. Don't interfere with children's behavior too much without affecting their own safety and the interests of others.

25, let the children play, to explore, don't break the blood.

26. Not all dangerous things are forbidden to children; Within the controllable range, teach children where the danger is and how to avoid it.

27. Give children as many opportunities as possible to experience themselves, and don't directly tell the results; Let him grope, bump and fail;

28. Teach children to wait;

29. Teach children to be responsible for their actions;

30. Teach children that giving and returning are two-way, and learn to be grateful.

3 1, try to sleep with your child.

32. Pay attention to protecting children's attention and interest.

33, cold training

There are many methods of "early education" in society. When you don't know how to do it, don't do it, do something different; I believe that it is better to be frugal than to be extravagant.

35. Children are children of society. Don't take yourself too seriously as the savior and the only child.

36. Don't dwell too much on the reasons and theoretical basis of your own parenting details. Just do it, fait accompli, not so much attention.

37. Try to ensure that one parent can play with the child for a certain time every day.

38. Try to make children laugh, and laugh several times a day.

39. Gamification of life, dance academy

40, the most important sentence, I only need a child with a score of 70, so I only need to be a mother with a score of 70; Don't be hard on yourself, just get by. After all, it is the first time to be a mother.

4 1, I can refuse to accept teaching my children to face failure, but I can't afford to lose. I can choose to give up or attack again, but I can't cry in front of my opponent.

42. If a child attacks, learn to assess the situation, first tell him once, and then the basic principle is, fight if you can, and flee if you can't; In kindergarten, you can shout loudly to attract others' attention.

43. Don't hit people yet.

No matter who starts first, you can't cry first.

45. You have the right to decide your own affairs;

46. I plan to introduce the mechanism of weekly allowance to my children after I am 3 years old-start to learn how to do what I want to do with limited money, learn to open up sources, and learn to cut costs.

47. Often take children hiking and go to the suburbs; Not afraid of wind and rain

48. Try to go back to your hometown in the countryside once a year and lead a different life.

49. Don't bring the troubles of work home.