It is normal for parents not to worry too much, but they should pay attention to the process of parent-child separation so as not to cause psychological trauma to their children. For example, it is not advisable to let others send it, or parents throw teachers, or watch children cry. Although it may be effective, it will definitely cause psychological trauma to the separation of parents and children. It is normal for parents to go to kindergarten. I have to pick you up every day anyway. You can also have children to play with and teachers to love you. Why are you crying? If parents think so, it is adult thinking, not child thinking. Fear will definitely make children uneasy and have resistance. The way for a child to express anxiety and conflict is to cry. There is no other way for him.

If the child cries when the parent-child separation occurs in kindergarten, first of all, don't blame the child, and don't run to throw the teacher. This will deepen the child's fear. What mom and dad have to do is squat down and keep a height with the child, then gently hug the child, touch the child's back with their hands, put their mouths close to the child's ears, and gently tell him, "Mom doesn't want you, she loves the baby very much, but when the baby grows up, she needs the company of other children and teachers. The baby is absolutely safe here. Don't worry, the teacher will be good to you and the children will be right. " Mom loves you very much and doesn't want you to go to kindergarten. But when you grow up, you should go out and make more friends. Believe in mom, when school is over, mom promises to pick you up at the first time ... "Repeat and repeat until the child's mood is relieved.

So, if you don't want to be late for work, please calculate the time for your children to relax and send them to kindergarten early. Since you told your child to pick him up the first time after school, please don't go back on your word. No matter how busy you are, you must set your itinerary in advance and try to pick him up after school. This will give your child a great sense of security and he will not be so resistant to going to kindergarten. Generally, if your parent-child relationship structure is good, you can solve the problem of personal separation at one time; Even if the child is willing to go to kindergarten, it is not over. Parents should never have the psychology of giving their children to kindergarten teachers. The teacher's education mode, the mode of getting along with classmates, even the food, the adaptability to management rules and so on. It may lead to children crying and unwilling to go to kindergarten, so please pay attention to parents.