This is a huge project, and it took several days to decide.
After moving home, the children's senior high school entrance examination scores came out, and then the admission scores came down. We are busy looking for a house, ready to start three years of high school students to accompany us.
Looking back on this more than half a month, I found that I didn't know when I got up in the morning to brush my teeth and wash my face, and it was done in 5 minutes. You know, I had to do it for at least 20 minutes before, and I didn't even know when I applied the lotion to my face. Anyway, I finished myself in five minutes, and then I was busy with the children.
After becoming a mother, is there a stage when your life is no longer important and time is given to your children?
In the past two weekends, I have been in this state, completely ignoring myself and my true feelings. This has also brought me some sequelae, that is, I will accumulate a lot of emotions, such as anxiety and irritability, which will not disappear with time and make me feel very tired.
Faced with so many things every day, everything is testing my adaptability. I think if I don't grow up and complain in the same place, the result will be a vicious circle. Seeing children is not pleasing to the eye, seeing partners is not satisfied, and seeing life is a mess.
Writing here, I think of a sentence I read in the past:
Don't let busyness drown out the beauty of life!
When I think of this sentence today, I still feel awakened, which will make me return to myself, realize myself and pay attention to my true feelings.
For example, when I wash my face in the morning, although I finished washing it in five minutes, I didn't feel like a passive "shoulder" or force me to do it, but I clearly knew my choice and I was willing to shorten my time to wash my face because I had to take care of the children.
When I no longer live in the state of "carrying", I find myself full of creativity, and my life and work have become more and more orderly. This morning, I gave one-on-one tutoring to a private teacher in preschool education, and gave classes to students. Then this month, I comprehensively optimized and upgraded the courses and delivery of private teachers. At noon, I also made steamed prawns and braised tofu for Dabao.
Yes, I want to control my life, not live passively!
Although the external environment will still be a chicken feather, my inner psychological state is stable and peaceful, because I know it is easier to change anyone than myself.
At any time, we have the right to choose, and we are responsible for our own choices.
Dear friends, when you are overwhelmed by children and shattered by odds and ends in your life, try to take the initiative in your own hands, change your inner state of mind and control your life.
When life has a sense of control, the inner psychological order will gradually be orderly.
Let's continue to be the people we like. After all, the future is promising.