Education is a science. Education faces people with ideas and personalities. Every day, they are developing and changing. As parents and teachers, there will be confusion in education.

The common problems of children are playfulness, inattention in study, dislike of reading, dislike of doing homework and so on. My confusion in educating children is the following three points.

Confusion 1: I don't like learning, but I'm more interested in things other than learning.

Qiang Qiang is such a child. He is smart and lively, and especially likes raising small animals and drawing. But I just don't like studying and doing homework. Parents and teachers have tried many ways, such as reading in classes and signing up for interest classes. But Qiang Qiang just didn't take the initiative to study and didn't get good grades.

Educating children with low enthusiasm for learning is really a headache for parents, but they still can't give up. We should continue our efforts in the following aspects:

First, we still have to find ways to make children want to learn. For example, continue to study with children, start with the learning methods that children like, and gradually make children like learning. Only if you are interested in learning can you take the initiative to learn.

Second, let children study in a good atmosphere. There should be a learning atmosphere at home, and parents should communicate well with teachers, which will make children have a positive attitude.

Third, give children a certain amount of learning pressure, but the pressure should not be too great, so that the pressure can become the driving force for children to learn.

Confusion 2: An impatient temper will contradict a child whose elders are out of control.

Xiaohong is such an impatient child. As long as they are criticized by their parents, no matter how serious, as long as they don't meet their parents' wishes, children will talk back to their parents and even yell at them. Xiaohong's father even made a move, but it had little effect.

For such an impatient and stubborn child, it is really a bad education. This method of educating children should not be too hard or too arbitrary. It is still necessary to combine hard and soft according to the child's personality characteristics and acceptance, and praise more and criticize less.

Confusion 3: Rebellious children who are unwilling to communicate with their parents and teachers.